I am a,lady that wants to meet the man who will make my heart pitter patter.I am sometimes serious,sometimes silly. So responsible when need be. Laughing as often as I can, good for a body mentally and physically.I try to stay focused on positive thinking and not complain about the negative. Happy with the simple life. Hope to meet my future partner.I will love him and he I, however must also have mutual feeling of respect and friendship. I am real and want someone who writes to me to be honest in what they share. I am not desparate for a man and I do not want a man who is willing to latch on to any woman who looks his way, or in this case answers his letter. I'm a Christian but not currently affiliated with a specific religion.I want to be a 1 man woman again, with the right man. I have been on other sites,have read many profiles.So many cliches and sadly so many dishonest people. However there are many good and truthful men out there and I am willing to put forth effort in meeting one, THE 1.I have had mostly long term committed relationships in my life..I am reasonably intelligent,though I will admit there is much I don't know.I had sadly started in my 30's wanting to learn about most anything,wish I had that zest for knowledge in my school years.I will admit if I am wrong and can laugh at myself.Want to be of interest to a man because we have ideas or interests in common. When we meet it will be my humor,smile,self-confidence that will keep him interested.People have said through the years I am unique for many reasons.I am somewhat of a rebel,always was.My life has been interesting to say the least.Yes,there has been much drama in my past.At this point things are calm.Now as for a man who may write me.He will hopefully have good self-esteem and either a sense of humor,or if not at least willing to tolerate some of my "I Love Lucy" antics,that just seem to happen to me.After getting to know a suitor, I like cuddling and affection and want it to last,not wear off like the smell of a new car.Honesty is very high on my list of priorities.Alright I am wanting to meet my last love.I don't rush into commitments as a rule but who can say when love strikes?I am in many ways independent,and beleive in compromise.If you live a long way from me and are settled in,I may relocate.I have 2 cats I love dearly.If you don't mind seeing me when I awake(don't do mornings well)please write and tell me some about you.I will write ladies only as freinds!! Will not argue,will discuss. Sometimes get a little crazy,relief from reality.Thanks for reading and to all, hope you find what you want from this site. .If we match,sending me a wink and a kiss will not encourage me to write. Too many people make these sites a place for recreational games. Will accept a hug with pleasure, we all need more hugs in life imo. Be well and have a positive life,it's a choice we make,not dumb luck. Please do not write if no or blurred photo. Married men and scammers do this. Ball's in your court! Peace out and thanks for reading.