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Friends with benefits is ok, as long as both understand ![]() |
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Just like a relationships on Mingles. Unless you have spent time on here,reading the forums. An knowing the humor in some of the people that post the most,they don't understand? Most that come to dating sites,don't even post. What they look for,i still will try an understand. For myself...I searched the site,to understand what it's all about! An now...It one of the bests sites i have been on,cause it come down to communication! To be accepted into the family is another,that is trust ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Just feelings ![]() |
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that's good .... ![]() ![]() ![]() cause you have lots of responsibility in your day job ![]() & I think you stress too much ![]() but then, it takes one to know one ![]() & you definitely need your rest ![]() ![]() ![]() soo, sleep well and sweet dreams ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Just like a relationships on Mingles. Unless you have spent time on here,reading the forums. An knowing the humor in some of the people that post the most,they don't understand? Most that come to dating sites,don't even post. What they look for,i still will try an understand. For myself...I searched the site,to understand what it's all about! An now...It one of the bests sites i have been on,cause it come down to communication! To be accepted into the family is another,that is trust ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Just feelings ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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okay ..honey...that is good
![]() It's almost 12:30 AM here ![]() so i am gonna hit the sack too ![]() good night everyone ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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okay ..honey...that is good ![]() It's almost 12:30 AM here ![]() so i am gonna hit the sack too ![]() good night everyone ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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![]() ![]() I feel that a problem lies in feeling "afraid". How about just feeling good with who you are spending time with and enjoying yourself in the moment? I think a healthy relationship requires trust in yourself that you are making a choice to be with them because you feel good about yourself when you're with them. If you are thinking about "someone better" then maybe your thoughts are elsewhere? Another concern is that if you feel that there is another "better" mate out there, what does that make you feel about who you ARE with? Are they ...not good enough? How would you treat them if you felt that way? |
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that's good .... ![]() ![]() ![]() cause you have lots of responsibility in your day job ![]() & I think you stress too much ![]() but then, it takes one to know one ![]() & you definitely need your rest ![]() ![]() ![]() soo, sleep well and sweet dreams ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() One day i will rest,but today you need me most. So for the time i have,i will rest upon your shoulder... For the comfort of both! |
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![]() ![]() I feel that a problem lies in feeling "afraid". How about just feeling good with who you are spending time with and enjoying yourself in the moment? I think a healthy relationship requires trust in yourself that you are making a choice to be with them because you feel good about yourself when you're with them. If you are thinking about "someone better" then maybe your thoughts are elsewhere? Another concern is that if you feel that there is another "better" mate out there, what does that make you feel about who you ARE with? Are they ...not good enough? How would you treat them if you felt that way? ![]() ![]() |
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that's good .... ![]() ![]() ![]() cause you have lots of responsibility in your day job ![]() & I think you stress too much ![]() but then, it takes one to know one ![]() & you definitely need your rest ![]() ![]() ![]() soo, sleep well and sweet dreams ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() One day i will rest,but today you need me most. So for the time i have,i will rest upon your shoulder... For the comfort of both! ![]() ![]() |
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that's good .... ![]() ![]() ![]() cause you have lots of responsibility in your day job ![]() & I think you stress too much ![]() but then, it takes one to know one ![]() & you definitely need your rest ![]() ![]() ![]() soo, sleep well and sweet dreams ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() One day i will rest,but today you need me most. So for the time i have,i will rest upon your shoulder... For the comfort of both! ![]() ![]() Feeling is what i see,or read between the lines ![]() |
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that's good .... ![]() ![]() ![]() cause you have lots of responsibility in your day job ![]() & I think you stress too much ![]() but then, it takes one to know one ![]() & you definitely need your rest ![]() ![]() ![]() soo, sleep well and sweet dreams ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() One day i will rest,but today you need me most. So for the time i have,i will rest upon your shoulder... For the comfort of both! ![]() ![]() Feeling is what i see,or read between the lines ![]() Love of friends ![]() |
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![]() ![]() sure. but it's not ok to be with someone because you're afraid of being alone. . . . |
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![]() ![]() sure. but it's not ok to be with someone because you're afraid of being alone. . . . Of course it not. |
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![]() ![]() I could be way off but if part of it just feeling like you won't find anyone I just have to say that not only is there always someone for everyone that where there is a desire for love there are also many chances over time. I feel like if you choose to be with someone, anyone, because you don't think you can get better you are not doing them or yourself any favors. Life is too short to settle by selling yourself out. The loneliest place in the world is being in the arms of someone you know you do not love or doesn't love you. If you are in a relationship and things are taking the preverbial lows as in highs and lows all relationships go through I would say hang tight for awhile. Maybe make a special effort to fall in love again like the circle of love all relationships are. It is really easier to be alone than look back at your life and know you should have lived it differently. |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() bout time you got back. i keep hoping your self esteem will bottom out so that i'll have a chance. a man can dream. . . . |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() bout time you got back. i keep hoping your self esteem will bottom out so that i'll have a chance. a man can dream. . . . ![]() |
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dont forget the puppy!!!
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![]() ![]() Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha! ![]() why do you think we're all here?!? ![]() |
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