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wed night. I thought we felt the same cause she did sleep in my arms, most girls would just leave after. We also made plans and discussed getting away in the next couple weekends.Hope fully shell come around. She is really a total sweetheart. |
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When we first met I made it clear that I am not after booty calls and stuff of that nature, I told her my heart was important to me. She seemed very respectful of that and pleased. If this is how you really felt then why would you sleep with her so soon? She could have spent the night just sleeping in your arms without the sex, that's always a nice thing to do. When you sleep with someone so soon, you don't know if you like them because of the sex or if you like them because of them. SEX TO SOON REALLY BOGGLES THE BRAIN, so what were you thinking?? I think you just need to leave her alone while she is in Vegas and let her get back to you. You do NOT want to look desperate in any way. So DO NOT call her or text her, let her make the next move. Good luck 
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Fri 07/10/09 08:56 AM
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men and women both get used, im not saying you did, but its a possibility, just remember you put yourself in this situation of feeling this way, with not taking enough time to feel more secure about your relationship... and yes jill is right... you did your duty of texting her... dont do it again or you will appear as a stalker.. lol also if she doesnt call you she might not of intentionally used you... but not knowing you very well, then getting to know you better she realized that you werent for her afterall.... so dont let it let you down... best of luck to you
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You have to remember that women have needs just like men do. Maybe she was actually just trying to get her needs met? I am sure that you have slept with someone and then asked yourself...what the he!! was I thinking? Well sometimes, women do that too. Sometimes women are just like men but only girly!!!
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i went on a few dates before with someone i really liked..... no i didnt sleep with him..... but i had gotten busy doing somehing with my kids , and not answered some emails cause i hadnt been online.. then he started calling, etc... over and over let me tell you that "really liked" turned into " whoah, what a freak"
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I met this girl that I really like last week. We started out by exchanging phone numbers. After a couple of chats we met up at Starbucks. Everything was good. Two days later she came to my place and we ended up having sex, she even stayed with me the night and we slept in each others arms. It was great. We have been in touch, I even took her lunch to work a couple of days later. The other day I texted her and told her just like this, "I really like you a lot and hope we can spend more time together, Like I said my heart is important to me but I would like to share it with you if you let me" Do you think this scared her off? I am just trying to be honest with her. Please help. She is in Vegas for a couple of days and hasnt responded to me. Dang I feel stupid. if your gonna play, you gotta pay --  good luck man! |
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don't jump the gun. like Jill said...she just might be busy. she is in Vegas after all. if she doesn't respond when she gets back....then I might send a text saying something like "how was the trip" if she doesn't respond...then drop it. but don't assume things until you know for sure or get clearer signals
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i went on a few dates before with someone i really liked..... no i didnt sleep with him..... but i had gotten busy doing somehing with my kids , and not answered some emails cause i hadnt been online.. then he started calling, etc... over and over let me tell you that "really liked" turned into " whoah, what a freak" OMG this happened to me too BUT he actually showed up at my house. Then he called me and said I am outside your house just to make sure you are alright. Now that is what I call a stalker...so needless to say, I don't talk to this person anymore. You can go from a great guy to a scary person in a matter of moments!!!! |
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Let' see a pic of her
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Don't stalk her with messages and phone calls. U made clear to her what u feel about her and what you want. Now just wait for her answer. Give her time to think about it. Don't think you did anything wrong. I mean it takes two to tango. You guys felt like having sex so you dit. Nothing wrong with that!
The thing is that this may lead to one person wanting more and the other one who does not want more. Soo be patient, and be prepared that she's not into a relationship. Don't feel bad about it cause then you still have this nice experience. good luck |
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i went on a few dates before with someone i really liked..... no i didnt sleep with him..... but i had gotten busy doing somehing with my kids , and not answered some emails cause i hadnt been online.. then he started calling, etc... over and over let me tell you that "really liked" turned into " whoah, what a freak" The thing is I am not insecure and haven't been calling or texting her excessively. I dont think my text was freakish at all. I was just being honest. |
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Well this post reminds me so much of me this always happens i start alking oto a guy we get along great we dedcided too go on a date or just hang out.. and we do but after a while being or starting too get close they dissapear on me for no reason then they eventually becasue they always do call or text or look for me months later probablly after they get dumped expecting me to owait for them as if..
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dude, she aint going to call you again man; however, she may if you keep the theme going and call/text her a couple more times...but cut it at the third time and let her know that that will be the final text/call
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I met this girl that I really like last week. We started out by exchanging phone numbers. After a couple of chats we met up at Starbucks. Everything was good. Two days later she came to my place and we ended up having sex, she even stayed with me the night and we slept in each others arms. It was great. We have been in touch, I even took her lunch to work a couple of days later. The other day I texted her and told her just like this, "I really like you a lot and hope we can spend more time together, Like I said my heart is important to me but I would like to share it with you if you let me" Do you think this scared her off? I am just trying to be honest with her. Please help. She is in Vegas for a couple of days and hasnt responded to me. Dang I feel stupid. If she is NOT wanting a steady,,,SHE WON'T call ya,,,and as to scaring her away,,,,nahhhh,,,just a honest ask,,,and she should take it as you think she rocks,,,but NOT deep yet.. |
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I would just take a deep breath and relax. You never know she may be as blissful and happy as you are. If she is not answering your texts there could be a very simple explanation from a phone malfunction to an operator error (forgotten charger). Las Vegas has some great things to do; includeing great bridal shopping that she may not want to tell you about just yet. Think positive! If it is ment to be it will happen.
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