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Topic: Online Dating Help
Gman2776's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:20 AM
I met this girl that I really like last week. We started out by exchanging phone numbers. After a couple of chats we met up at Starbucks. Everything was good. Two days later she came to my place and we ended up having sex, she even stayed with me the night and we slept in each others arms. It was great. We have been in touch, I even took her lunch to work a couple of days later. The other day I texted her and told her just like this, "I really like you a lot and hope we can spend more time together, Like I said my heart is important to me but I would like to share it with you if you let me" Do you think this scared her off? I am just trying to be honest with her. Please help. She is in Vegas for a couple of days and hasnt responded to me. Dang I feel stupid.

2cool4school's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:23 AM
Stupid? well.. not thinking clearly after a night of sex! No, really that was dumb. Sorry

no photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:26 AM
You'll know in a couple days now won't you.

It didn't sound to extreme to me.

southern_bee's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:26 AM
well if you end up pushing her away after banging her 2 days after meeting her then it would be a booty call to her.hopefully if you really like her it will turn out well for you.

no photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:32 AM
Honesty is never a bad thing. Now, the ball's in her court, you've told her how you feel (though maybe texting wasn't your best option) and she'll either respond or won't.
Good luck to you flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:39 AM
Just hope ya wore a rubber!!

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:44 AM
noway yea that's a bit much. Anyway... SHE'S IN VEGAS! She's prob busy hangin out in Vegas. Let her come to you. Whatever you do, don't get all freaked out on her as to why she's not responding.

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:46 AM
Edited by Jill298 on Fri 07/10/09 07:46 AM
Stop. Listen to me. Slowly set the phone down and back away with your hands up. Ok. No more texting for you for at least 2-3 days or until she responds to you.

Gman2776's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:48 AM
Man I must of really screwed up.

Gman2776's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:49 AM
thanks jill. I will put my phone down and not call or text her anymore

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:50 AM

Man I must of really screwed up.
I'm not saying that. I'm just saying you know she's in Vegas. You know she's busy. Telling her stuff like that so soon after you started seeing each other may be a bit much. I don't know her so I obviously can't speak as to why she hasn't responded. But I'm guessing... she's having fun in Vegas right now. You need to find something to keep yourself busy and occupied.
She will prob respond to you. But not if you keep texting her like this.

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:57 AM
Don't forget one thing
Some Women have also booty calls too why do you people mix sex and emotions? the fact she had sex with you does not mean she wants to spend the rest of her life with you.

poohbearface19's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:58 AM
umm no offense but yo ushould of said no too the sex anyone you junp in bed with that soon.. isnt lookign for a relationship.. they were just loking oto satisfy them selfes.. and hurt you well not everyone but most... trust me on this one.. sorry.. but if shes i nvegas and not respondign means she got what she wanted and moved on

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/10/09 07:59 AM
I'm the master of people that don't respond back to me laugh Not sure if that's a good thing.
I call my friends. I go out. I clean my house. I go to work. I just try to go about my daily life. Especially if it's only been a week since you've met.

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/10/09 08:00 AM

umm no offense but yo ushould of said no too the sex anyone you junp in bed with that soon.. isnt lookign for a relationship.. they were just loking oto satisfy them selfes.. and hurt you well not everyone but most... trust me on this one.. sorry.. but if shes i nvegas and not respondign means she got what she wanted and moved on
We don't know her or her motives. She might really like him but not putting as much thought as he is into it. It's only been a week or so.

Gman2776's photo
Fri 07/10/09 08:05 AM
Man this sucks. You live and you learn

Jill298's photo
Fri 07/10/09 08:29 AM

Man this sucks. You live and you learn
hey, my bf of over a year suddenly stopped responding to me. I still have no idea why.
At least you only have a week invested. And she still very well might respond. How long since you sent that text to her?

Gman2776's photo
Fri 07/10/09 08:36 AM
wed night. I thought we felt the same cause she did sleep in my arms, most girls would just leave after. We also made plans and discussed getting away in the next couple weekends.Hope fully shell come around. She is really a total sweetheart.

Gman2776's photo
Fri 07/10/09 08:39 AM
When we first met I made it clear that I am not after booty calls and stuff of that nature, I told her my heart was important to me. She seemed very respectful of that and pleased.

silly's photo
Fri 07/10/09 08:43 AM

Honesty is never a bad thing. Now, the ball's in her court, you've told her how you feel (though maybe texting wasn't your best option) and she'll either respond or won't.
Good luck to you flowerforyou



Good luck,if she doesn't respond then u know u were just a booty callflowerforyou

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