Topic: Is he married?
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Wed 07/08/09 09:41 AM

Married, involved, whatever.

I have lots of little things come up when I'm online. Usually a 'brb' is sufficient. If he has to sign off immediately, he likely has something to hide.




Not always...I'll do a "BRB" if I gotta go pee or something...:wink:

buttons's photo
Wed 07/08/09 09:43 AM
also a doing it yourself divorce ive done also, you do have to agree on everything... not really a suggested thing to do when there is a child involved though..and of course there are still records in the courts of the disolution of marriage

tanyaann's photo
Wed 07/08/09 09:53 AM

the adopeted child would not be thrown back to the state here i there was a divorce....... my cousin married a woman who was pregnant yrs and yrs ago... he adopted the son, then they had a son.. divorced aound 1990 and his adopted son<mothers natural son> was given from the courts to my cousin<adopted parent> and the natural parent went on her way....


I was talking about having to arrange custody argreement with friend of the court... not an adoption be revoked.

buttons's photo
Wed 07/08/09 09:55 AM


the adopeted child would not be thrown back to the state here i there was a divorce....... my cousin married a woman who was pregnant yrs and yrs ago... he adopted the son, then they had a son.. divorced aound 1990 and his adopted son<mothers natural son> was given from the courts to my cousin<adopted parent> and the natural parent went on her way....


I was talking about having to arrange custody argreement with friend of the court... not an adoption be revoked.
makes sense... and im not sure.... there were no kids involved when i did a self help divorce,,

tanyaann's photo
Wed 07/08/09 09:57 AM



the adopeted child would not be thrown back to the state here i there was a divorce....... my cousin married a woman who was pregnant yrs and yrs ago... he adopted the son, then they had a son.. divorced aound 1990 and his adopted son<mothers natural son> was given from the courts to my cousin<adopted parent> and the natural parent went on her way....


I was talking about having to arrange custody argreement with friend of the court... not an adoption be revoked.
makes sense... and im not sure.... there were no kids involved when i did a self help divorce,,


Oh I will definately be asking more questions... probably tonight if I can him on the phone.

wiley's photo
Wed 07/08/09 09:57 AM
I like to use "AFK Forever™" myself...

tanyaann's photo
Wed 07/08/09 09:58 AM

I like to use "AFK Forever™" myself...


spock huh spock

wiley's photo
Wed 07/08/09 09:59 AM
AFK=Away From Keyboard

babygirl98270's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:00 AM
This guy reads married all over !!!!!!!!

tanyaann's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:02 AM

AFK=Away From Keyboard


Ah okay.... does that include when you hands are not on the keyboard? spock:laughing:

buttons's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:03 AM
i just looked online and yes you can here, there is even a divorce calculater to figure out how much support should be awarded

wiley's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:03 AM


AFK=Away From Keyboard


Ah okay.... does that include when you hands are not on the keyboard? spock:laughing:


Pretty much. laugh

tanyaann's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:04 AM

i just looked online and yes you can here, there is even a divorce calculater to figure out how much support should be awarded


ah okay

buttons's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:10 AM
and as far as taking his kid to the er 3 times in a month, wow weird!either overprotective parent or something esle is up, who knows if he is married or just dating someone, from what ive seen, and dont know if this is true, the adoptive parents i have been in contact with are more so overprotective, and tend to spoil their kids to no end... but a bug bite? unless it was looking strange or something.... thats a bit much lol

buttons's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:12 AM


i just looked online and yes you can here, there is even a divorce calculater to figure out how much support should be awarded


ah okay
could be different state by state though you should check... and when i got one of those i think we couldnt of applied for one of those... cripes you can just get divorced online now i see....

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Wed 07/08/09 10:16 AM
I've NEVER taken my son to the ER. There is rarely a need for such a thing. Unless you over-react to just about everything.

I took him to urgent care about a year ago to get an x-ray to R/O a hairline fracture of the elbow as he landed on his palm and wasn't using his arm. It was negative, but I had to be sure. He resumed use of his arm in a couple days.

If there is a concern, I call my family doctor (well, okay I usually call me dad, a pediatrician)... and I ask for guidance.

buttons's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:26 AM
Edited by buttons on Wed 07/08/09 10:31 AM

I've NEVER taken my son to the ER. There is rarely a need for such a thing. Unless you over-react to just about everything.

I took him to urgent care about a year ago to get an x-ray to R/O a hairline fracture of the elbow as he landed on his palm and wasn't using his arm. It was negative, but I had to be sure. He resumed use of his arm in a couple days.

If there is a concern, I call my family doctor (well, okay I usually call me dad, a pediatrician)... and I ask for guidance.
my son i took to urgent care 2 times for stitches, and once to the er. for that time, i would of even if urgent care was still open, he had a blow dart gun<plastic and rubber darts> and was behind me with it in his mouth. unaware of course, i shut the bedroom door and it shoved in his mouth and cut that thing off that holds your tounge to the bottom of your mouth. omg that scared me! once my oldest daughter went to the er also... ambuliance took her though...she had a bad bicycle accident.. but a bug bite? i do wonder in the end... what kind of bug bit him? did he tell you tanya?

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Wed 07/08/09 10:32 AM
Ohhh I didn't mean to say there was never a need for the ER. Fractures, anaphylaxis, jagged or severe lacerations, head injuries, seizures, etc. are ALL good reasons. Plus many more.

Three times in a month is either a lie, munchausen's by proxy, or an overprotective parent.

But I might be lenient, due to my having butterfly bandages and all!

buttons's photo
Wed 07/08/09 10:35 AM

Ohhh I didn't mean to say there was never a need for the ER. Fractures, anaphylaxis, jagged or severe lacerations, head injuries, seizures, etc. are ALL good reasons. Plus many more.

Three times in a month is either a lie, munchausen's by proxy, or an overprotective parent.

But I might be lenient, due to my having butterfly bandages and all!
i definately agree with you, perhaps the guy meant urgent care and not the er? i have heard people dont know the difference lol.. but however if its after 5:30 maybe its 7 pm been a while the urgent care offices shuts down and you have to go to the hospitol to the er instead..

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Wed 07/08/09 10:41 AM
I'm going to have to say it...I know I'm such a biotch.

My kiddo is in the house by 8pm. Urgent care here is open til then. I don't let my son go gallavanting all night or late at night so the ER for me, is truly in emergent situations. Life or death... ER's are designed for that. Maybe it's 'cus my mom is a trauma nurse and I'd never waste the time of ER staff with a minor thing....