Topic: rant
74Drew's photo
Mon 07/06/09 05:55 PM


The point is, most women who have children are assumed to not be willing to throw their kids in front of the freight train. It isn't necessary to point out that they are important. We get that. It ain't rocket surgery.


Have you ever seen the ones who get actively militant about it? "I'm a single mother of two kids, and THEY ARE MY WORLD, and if you can't handle that, YOU SHOULD GO JUMP OFF A BRIDGE, A REALLY REALLY HIGH BRIDGE, INTO A CONCRETE PIT FULL OF HUNGRY ALLIGATORS BECAUSE YOU ARE NO GOOD!"

See, you're only allowed to have PREFERENCES if YOURS are the same as THEIRS. Otherwise, you're just a terrible, terrible person.



i want to be first in a woman's life. she needs to put her kids dead last when i'm around. i want all the attention. leave that baby to it's crying, i'm the main event here.
lol


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earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 07/06/09 05:56 PM
I dont know how easy it is to get for many that for instance..


I share my child with his lovely father, and since my child misses me in the middle of the night, or cant sleep sometimes, sometimes.. quite possibly in the middle of some awesome orgasams happening..

(like last night)

My son will call me to talk, as long as it takes to make him feel more comfortable, and sing to him while he falls asleep.

This happened truly LAST NIGHT. Took 2 hours of the time I had planned with my man.

I have to stop the world, cancel plans, change around when romantic moments happen, end phone calls, run to the school at a moments notice, break up fights..

endless stuff. I love doing it, and I am thrilled to be so blessed to do these things for my child. But, unfortunately not everyone is.

Yep. I am glad to know peoples kids comes first, and it totally works for me.


It is a lifetime commitment.

If it dont apply, let it fly, be glad your forwarned.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 07/06/09 05:56 PM
"I like bugs and serial killers."...Brilliant!shades

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 07/06/09 05:58 PM

"I like bugs and serial killers."...Brilliant!shades


Cute new pic fear.

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:00 PM

The point is, most women who have children are assumed to not be willing to throw their kids in front of the freight train. It isn't necessary to point out that they are important. We get that. It ain't rocket surgery.


Seriously, some people just don't get it..

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:01 PM


"I like bugs and serial killers."...Brilliant!shades


Cute new pic fear.


You just like Ernie my unusually green friend.laugh flowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:01 PM
Some people do have children and aren't really all that involved in their life.
If you put that you have children and they are my world... you know right off the bat that you will not be #1 with that person.

no photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:02 PM

My favorite is "I like to go hiking and for moonlit walks by the never" laugh laugh not a one of them actually hikes anywhere and the moonlit walk thing... yea, whatever.


True Story: back in 2006, I was talking to someone (a local, actually) from SinglesNet -- in her profile, she made a big deal out of being a baseball fan, loves baseball, loves to watch the games.

So, about the third conversation, I ask her "Who's your favorite baseball team?"

And she says "The Blackhawks!"

Ooooops, sorry, thanks for playing.

I think a lot of what people write in their profiles is what they think they SHOULD write to get noticed.

74Drew's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:03 PM

Some people do have children and aren't really all that involved in their life.
If you put that you have children and they are my world... you know right off the bat that you will not be #1 with that person.

i guess that i pretty much expect that from any person, kids or no.


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Jill298's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:04 PM
nah... some people, you go out on one date with um and before you know it, they're all obessing over why you haven't called them yet scared scared

s1owhand's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:04 PM
Sure. Try to write something really original. I dare you!!

laugh

74Drew's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:05 PM


I think a lot of what people write in their profiles is what they think they SHOULD write to get noticed.


i think so also. but just in case, any girl who writes that she likes nascar gets dismissed.


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IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:05 PM



The point is, most women who have children are assumed to not be willing to throw their kids in front of the freight train. It isn't necessary to point out that they are important. We get that. It ain't rocket surgery.


Have you ever seen the ones who get actively militant about it? "I'm a single mother of two kids, and THEY ARE MY WORLD, and if you can't handle that, YOU SHOULD GO JUMP OFF A BRIDGE, A REALLY REALLY HIGH BRIDGE, INTO A CONCRETE PIT FULL OF HUNGRY ALLIGATORS BECAUSE YOU ARE NO GOOD!"

See, you're only allowed to have PREFERENCES if YOURS are the same as THEIRS. Otherwise, you're just a terrible, terrible person.



i want to be first in a woman's life. she needs to put her kids dead last when i'm around. i want all the attention. leave that baby to it's crying, i'm the main event here.
lol


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You'd be amazed at how many think this way... I think a woman or man saying that in their profile is trying to deter all the selfish, self-centered people..

Jill298's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:06 PM



I think a lot of what people write in their profiles is what they think they SHOULD write to get noticed.


i think so also. but just in case, any girl who writes that she likes nascar gets dismissed.


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agreed with the guys also. grumble

74Drew's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:06 PM

Sure. Try to write something really original. I dare you!!

laugh

i filled my profile with lots of deadbeat stereotypes.


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no photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:06 PM



I think a lot of what people write in their profiles is what they think they SHOULD write to get noticed.


i think so also. but just in case, any girl who writes that she likes nascar gets dismissed.


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Oh, for sure. That's not just a red flag, it's a checkered red flag.


Aria_Rayne_45's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:07 PM

I still have a hard time getting over ...

"Ask me anything you want to know. I'm pretty much an open book."

Give me a break! rofl

Ohhhhh, but wait! That's in yours! :angel:


Oh, my goodness yes! That does not help me ask questions or make witty opening lines! I feel so lost with people that only have that.

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:08 PM



"I like bugs and serial killers."...Brilliant!shades


Cute new pic fear.


You just like Ernie my unusually green friend.laugh flowerforyou


mmm u 2 Ernie. :tongue:

74Drew's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:08 PM




The point is, most women who have children are assumed to not be willing to throw their kids in front of the freight train. It isn't necessary to point out that they are important. We get that. It ain't rocket surgery.


Have you ever seen the ones who get actively militant about it? "I'm a single mother of two kids, and THEY ARE MY WORLD, and if you can't handle that, YOU SHOULD GO JUMP OFF A BRIDGE, A REALLY REALLY HIGH BRIDGE, INTO A CONCRETE PIT FULL OF HUNGRY ALLIGATORS BECAUSE YOU ARE NO GOOD!"

See, you're only allowed to have PREFERENCES if YOURS are the same as THEIRS. Otherwise, you're just a terrible, terrible person.



i want to be first in a woman's life. she needs to put her kids dead last when i'm around. i want all the attention. leave that baby to it's crying, i'm the main event here.
lol


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You'd be amazed at how many think this way... I think a woman or man saying that in their profile is trying to deter all the selfish, self-centered people..

i guess that as someone who was raised by a single mom, i get it.


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gypsy4y's photo
Mon 07/06/09 06:10 PM

i get so tired of the constant cliche's that people use in their profiles. have people just lost the ability to write something original about themselves?
i'm sick of seeing: looking for the one, looking for mr. right, looking for my soulmate..... of course you are. aren't we all? it's not like you see anybody writing "looking for someone to slap me around and cheat on me."
another one that irritates me is "i have 'x' children and they are my world/life/whatever." duh! it's not like someone's going to write "i have 'x' kids and i like to leave them home alone while i'm out whoring around." or "i have 'x' kids and i'm looking for someone to take them off my hands for me." only an idiot is not going to realize that a woman's kids will come before any man she dates. we don't need to be told this.
it's ok to let people know that you have kids, but we don't need confirmation that they are important to you. we aren't part of child services here.

i guess all i'm getting at is that i'd like to see some real substance in profiles and that people need to be more creative when talking about themselves.

ok, i'm done for now.


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