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simple once you become an adult and know everything you must treat the parents as yeah i didn't ask to be brought into this world....then after you tell them that then you must go on and find the love of your life cause when your an adult and realize all the responsibility you need the one you call your prince in shining armor,then you realize he's a loser so you continue to find the one that you call your knight in shining armor....oooops wrong man but right armor...then after the divorce when your 40 years old ..you start looking for younger guys and just do them cause you can...after that your old and really don't care what type of man you have,just as long as you don't die alone
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winx...did you have to remind me????  but I did tell her to try to see his point of view and maybe try talking to the guy and figure something out....but if he wants to move on...you and I (old women lol) know it's best to let it go
Ha! Have to remind you? I'm going to be 50 this month.
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lol winx...focus...the reason the guy wants to forget it is because her mom doesn't like the whole idea. and IMO...it is a problem when she lives with her mom I think the guy is acting immature. If he's mature and likes her, he'd deal with mom. A mature guy will ditch the girl with mommy. |
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winx...did you have to remind me???? but I did tell her to try to see his point of view and maybe try talking to the guy and figure something out....but if he wants to move on...you and I (old women lol) know it's best to let it go
Ha! Have to remind you? I'm going to be 50 this month.
now see??? I didn't point THAT out did I?? I'm going to be 38 on the 27th 
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winx...did you have to remind me???? but I did tell her to try to see his point of view and maybe try talking to the guy and figure something out....but if he wants to move on...you and I (old women lol) know it's best to let it go
Ha! Have to remind you? I'm going to be 50 this month.
now see??? I didn't point THAT out did I?? I'm going to be 38 on the 27th
You didn't point that out. Turning the calendar to July pointed it out.
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lol winx...focus...the reason the guy wants to forget it is because her mom doesn't like the whole idea. and IMO...it is a problem when she lives with her mom I think the guy is acting immature. If he's mature and likes her, he'd deal with mom. A mature guy will ditch the girl with mommy. If he is confident with himself, he wouldn't be worried about mommy. 
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simple once you become an adult and know everything you must treat the parents as yeah i didn't ask to be brought into this world....then after you tell them that then you must go on and find the love of your life cause when your an adult and realize all the responsibility you need the one you call your prince in shining armor,then you realize he's a loser so you continue to find the one that you call your knight in shining armor....oooops wrong man but right armor...then after the divorce when your 40 years old ..you start looking for younger guys and just do them cause you can...after that your old and really don't care what type of man you have,just as long as you don't die alone
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no mama drama that would scare me away as well
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no mama drama that would scare me away as well Psst...she's only 22. |
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Well, let's see... I have been talking to this guy, let's call him Bob, and I really feel like this could work. He is a few years older than me and lives on his own. I on the other hand still live with my mom, who by the way still tries to control my life even though I am 22. Ok so here's the problem... My mom hates the way I "met" him (mingle2) and I know she is going to have a fit when I want to actually see him. I told him all this because honesty is key. Now I believe he wants to just forget the whole thing. What should I do? Please give what advice you can I would appreciate it. I really like this guy so far. :( 
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oh winx...you know every time he picked her up from there...he'd deal with mom. maybe mom is being overbearing...but then again...it's her house. and I wouldn't want the drama or hardship BEFORE I met someone. and I don't think it's the OP in the wrong...but it's the situation at hand
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oh winx...you know every time he picked her up from there...he'd deal with mom. maybe mom is being overbearing...but then again...it's her house. and I wouldn't want the drama or hardship BEFORE I met someone. and I don't think it's the OP in the wrong...but it's the situation at hand I'm thinking that once mom gets used to the idea, she'll calm down. I went through that with my folks when I went on-line.
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oh winx...you know every time he picked her up from there...he'd deal with mom. maybe mom is being overbearing...but then again...it's her house. and I wouldn't want the drama or hardship BEFORE I met someone. and I don't think it's the OP in the wrong...but it's the situation at hand I'm thinking that once mom gets used to the idea, she'll calm down. I went through that with my folks when I went on-line.
please....my mom still gets onto me for online and I'm 37 and haven't lived with her since I was 18
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Its not her biz, so just do what u want, and stop explaing to her your private life. If that is true. when child got into a bad situation by bad decision making, then Mom could have just as well said "no,you are not moving back home" When the decisions of our kids affect our lives.. then yes. We as the parent have to right to step in at times. |
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It goes for guys as well, anyone see "Raymond" lately? Man what an overbearing mom she is.
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It goes for guys as well, anyone see "Raymond" lately? Man what an overbearing mom she is.
yes but it's a different problem when you live away from home and don't put your foot down. it's different when you live with your parents in their home |
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Dont let your mom be a factor of what you want to do with yourself, your life and anybody in it. Sure, its always nice to know parents care... but times are different. If you cant make your own decisions, and if your mom cant accept you as a grown up... something needs changing. Let your heart guide you. I live with my father. He helped me move away from a dangerous lifestyle and gave me a job working from home. When I lived with my mom, she did the same, my father doesnt, but it still is a concept of image some people just dont like... Somebody told me to not tell people about my kids because it scares people away, but I dont want anybody who is going to assume, judge, and close their mind... think about if that kind of person is worth pursuing. Hope its not too tough, I truly wish the best for you! Peace n Love why would your kids scare people away? most guys have kids nowadays. |
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I agree Rose, Me, I call my parents when I want to or need to. They call me once a week if they don't hear from me. Perfect relationship.
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I agree Rose, Me, I call my parents when I want to or need to. They call me once a week if they don't hear from me. Perfect relationship. lol well my whole family is close...but I will tell my mom when something isn't her business or advice is not wanted....like I tell her...what is she going to do to me??? ground me???? i don't live with her lol |
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Well, let's see... I have been talking to this guy, let's call him Bob, and I really feel like this could work. He is a few years older than me and lives on his own. I on the other hand still live with my mom, who by the way still tries to control my life even though I am 22. Ok so here's the problem... My mom hates the way I "met" him (mingle2) and I know she is going to have a fit when I want to actually see him. I told him all this because honesty is key. Now I believe he wants to just forget the whole thing. What should I do? Please give what advice you can I would appreciate it. I really like this guy so far. :( We here at Mingle should really get paid for our advice, no matter how well it works...or how horribly it fails.
Ask him, well, that was easy. |
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