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In my case she was in England and It cost me about $4000 to go back home to meet her and all.
Cut the long story short you may be a very good writer but a very quiet type etc and when you meet one may feel that there is nothing there so be ready for that In my case it did not work so I am done with long distance  
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In my case she was in England and It cost me about $4000 to go back home to meet her and all. Cut the long story short you may be a very good writer but a very quiet type etc and when you meet one may feel that there is nothing there so be ready for that In my case it did not work so I am done with long distance
 I'm laughing at your smileys
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Let's be realistic here. LDR'S are a lose-lose situation. Gotta look down the road, just saying you two hit it off, who's gonna move?
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one of my best friends met someone online 7 yrs ago,he lived in ohio and she in NH, he moved and they got married and just had their 3rd kid :) so it can happen I guess.... just not that often.. good luck to you
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Let's be realistic here. LDR'S are a lose-lose situation. Gotta look down the road, just saying you two hit it off, who's gonna move? They are not necessarily lose-lose, it depends on the people and the circumstances. But yes, being realistic, if it's not possible for one of you to move or if neither are willing, then that's not a realistic scenario. You need to know this going in, before the first meeting. Life is not a fairy tale, unfortunately. Romance is all well and good but people must be practical. |
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i don't know what i think so why am i posting?
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i don't know what i think so why am i posting? Because you want someone to force it out of you |
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i don't know what i think so why am i posting? 
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well ok then but ur twisting my arm mind!
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Okay, so I met someone sane here, and we've been chatting back and forth via email and YM for about 2 weeks. Not dating, but am interested, very interested. How does one handle long distance/out of state? How long do ya'll go before meeting up? Do you women go and meet him, or expect him to come down and meet you? Haven't done this before, so I'm way out of my element on this. Thanks! For me it's out of state, out of mind. 
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i don't know what i think so why am i posting?
yes ur right Mitch, i am a sad individual  
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well ok then but ur twisting my arm mind! An arm mind is a terrible thing to waste! |
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i think if you find someone then you make it work, even if their far away, ive never understood the theary of, i only date localy, what if your "one" isnt local. jmo i can't imagine anyone being worth traveling a long distance to see them. but that's just me. |
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You must be determined and ready to leave to consider a LDR. If you are so in love with your home and state and wouldn't move for nothing, maybe then invite her and see how it works out. If none of you consider to move, then forget it.
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it can work. did for me. First we talked on the phone every night for a couple hours, text. Pretty much talking all the time, got to know each other pretty well. then he came out to see me to see if we clicked as well in person as we did on the phone. the rest is history.
pretty much depends how much time you put into it an if you click well on the phone, try the next step. Make him come to you! |
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well ok then but ur twisting my arm mind! An arm mind is a terrible thing to waste! 
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it can work. did for me. First we talked on the phone every night for a couple hours, text. Pretty much talking all the time, got to know each other pretty well. then he came out to see me to see if we clicked as well in person as we did on the phone. the rest is history. pretty much depends how much time you put into it an if you click well on the phone, try the next step. Make him come to you! Please. you're just stopping there while on your way to Mass.! |
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it can work. did for me. First we talked on the phone every night for a couple hours, text. Pretty much talking all the time, got to know each other pretty well. then he came out to see me to see if we clicked as well in person as we did on the phone. the rest is history. pretty much depends how much time you put into it an if you click well on the phone, try the next step. Make him come to you! so ur still together? |
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Edited by
robert1652
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Thu 07/02/09 03:34 PM
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In my case she was in England and It cost me about $4000 to go back home to meet her and all. Cut the long story short you may be a very good writer but a very quiet type etc and when you meet one may feel that there is nothing there so be ready for that In my case it did not work so I am done with long distance
I'm laughing at your smileys
Hi Pats |
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