My parents have been married for almost 55 years. To this day, my mother has NEVER gone into my father's wallet, and my father has NEVER gone into my mother's purse. They can both be left out in plain sight of each other, and neither would ever betray or violate that trust.

My friends say i'm a psycho chick magnet & they are right

I take it you did not know that was a joke?

cant help with the psychos but i'm real good at finding any crackhead shoplifters

I usually eat them before they eat me...the voices are always telling me they will eventually eat me if I give them the chance...

If you want to know about a person pay attention to their history.
Do they have a family history. People will often rat on a relative even if they won't own up to their own problems. Parents or siblings that get loaded/hysterical are often a predictor of stress behavior coming your way.
Do they spend holidays with family? If the answer is no it is probably because have shown out often enough they are no longer welcome.
Do they have any life long friends? People who have a dramatic life usually have few if any long term relationships.
Are the friends they have party animals? Birds of a feather.
Are they a high school graduate? Drug, alcohol, and emotional problems are much more common in non-graduates.
Do they not have a job? Or a choppy job history? Do they work better with kids they can dominate or where there is little skill or supervision needed? Do they have a high stress job?
How long have they lived at their current address? If someone hops from residence to residence it is quite likely they are miserable to be around once the initial honeyingmoon period wears off. If they are in and out of parents or grandparents often it is probably because they have been "kicked out".
Do they know the liquor store people by name or they seem to know them chances are they are "regulars" even if they are currently sober.
Look at their car. Is it beat up? Are the shocks shot? Tires bare? Hubcaps missing. Someone who drives angry usually has self control issues. If their car has been vandalized it may be retalitory damage.
What about the interior of the house? Are their broken windows, picture frames, dishes, holes in doors? Is it a wreck or overly clean? Rage disorders, obsessive compulsive behavior, and depression are usually obvious in a person's living environment.
Do their children live with their ex or grandparents? Do those family members seem to be in charge? If they are it may be out of necessity rather choice.
How do they treat people in general? If they are sweety sweet with you but vicious to co-workers, neighbors, service personel you can bet they will get around to you.
Are parents or friends overly eager to match you up? Make their problem your problem?

What a list of stuff, I haven't even met anyone yet, just seen a profile, yeah all that stuff is big red flags, but might take a while to all thaqt out find out.

LOOK for the ladies wearing a habbit, wink,lol
MAYBE????,,lol,lol

Are you related to Dan Quayle?

That could be Darlin; but not really funny.

Nor would it probably be all that productive because people who are frequently having "melt downs" are the ones who don't carry or take their medication; if they have even gotten mental health services. Now unconsumed medications in the medicine cabinet or elsewhere would be something to wonder about. I will say again if you are snooping then you know you need to exit.

Alright her you go, here is what you gotta do.

Ask the following questions:

1. Do you have an aquarium?
2. Who did you vote for in the primary election?

And after you asked those questions, look at her like this:

That guy cracks me up. (My MOTHER, who was hmm 81 at the time, thought he was "sooooo cute!")

LOL well I don't think I would grill someone for a luandry list of answers on line or even in first dates. That would be pretty crazy in itself; but if you are dateing sooner or later you are going to pick up bits and pieces in general conversation. You will see things when you start being in their environment. What gets most people in trouble is ignoreing the little signs. That and getting in too deep too quick. Nobody wants to admidt they have gotten involved with a wacko and try to rationalize away or excuse little stuff.

I don't know if dates are flakeing out on introduction but it does make a good case for making the first date somewhere very public but where alcohol is not going to be served.

Stop sending away for Russian mail order brides for starters.

if they feel a need to say that they are a normal person there must be a reason for it

if they need to say they are not a ???? there must be a reason for it

the for someone to declare something usually means

they have been accused of the opposite

or have been accused of not being what they claim

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if you have to declare what you are then it must not be simple enough to see on its own

just a thought

but hey

what do i know

Well said! If she's in love within the first conversation.... MOVE ON! Quickly!

Consider starting a deep and committed relationship with your right hand...it will definitely side-step the psycho chick thing...but, you will have to commit to sitting on the couch watching tv with your hand down your pants...Occasionally, you might have to spring for some rubber gloves or a wig....but, good lovers are needy and require some expenditure.

Trust me...it is worth it.

oh my god best advice ever!!!

HAHAH :p

hah.

yeah no seriously... needy people show their feelings quick... needy can quickly equal psycho.

i also recommend to listen to their past stories if they sound psycho... then yeah. run like hell.

and if they drool. in public.

some public drooling could be considered adventurous

so is riding the short bus w/o a helmet. :p