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[ It is not me. You want to know why I am posting this? The real reason is because I see other jerks in relationships that shouldn't be. I have been single since November 2005, and am doing everthing right, yet people think I am complaining about women. I am not going after any women, yet. I don't like weirdos. Lay off. Ah, I get it, you're the nice guy in disguise. You don't want people to think you're complaining about nice guys finishing last but, in essense, that's exactly what you're doing, your protests to the contrary. Other "jerks?" Again, with the generalizing and not knowing anything about the relationship(s). Fact of the matter is, unless you're IN the relationship, you don't know he/she is a jerk. Single since November 2005 and doing "everything" right? Unless being single is a choice (and I have no way of knowing by what you've said here whether that's the case or not), you're not doing everything right. You know why? There is no "everything right." You can only be you. If you do this (and again, I don't know if you do), quit trying to be what "someone" says you should be and and quit doing what "someone" says you should do and just be. It comes across as fake, and phony, and it doesn't take long for people to pick up on the idea that you are not being yourself.  |
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there is obviously something that attracts these women to the kind of men that they are with...whether it is the specific men or just the preference of the woman also, what YOU see as him being a d-bag or d!ck...she may not see that quality couples have fights (some more than others) but that doesn't mean that they do not have a great relationship....different people look for different things in a relationship no offense, but get over it and quit whining....if you want something, go and get it |
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there is obviously something that attracts these women to the kind of men that they are with...whether it is the specific men or just the preference of the woman also, what YOU see as him being a d-bag or d!ck...she may not see that quality couples have fights (some more than others) but that doesn't mean that they do not have a great relationship....different people look for different things in a relationship no offense, but get over it and quit whining....if you want something, go and get it I am asking the logic behind why some people act like this, but apparently, whining is asking a question. |
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It is not me. You want to know why I am posting this? The real reason is because I see other jerks in relationships that shouldn't be. I have been single since November 2005, and am doing everthing right, yet people think I am complaining about women. I am not going after any women, yet. I don't like weirdos. Lay off. Envy is not a good emotion and such a waste of time/energy. Work on yourself, enjoy life, share a smile, make friends and good luck |
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Tue 06/30/09 01:20 PM
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Ah, I get it, you're the nice guy in disguise. You don't want people to think you're complaining about nice guys finishing last but, in essense, that's exactly what you're doing, your protests to the contrary. Other "jerks?" Again, with the generalizing and not knowing anything about the relationship(s). Fact of the matter is, unless you're IN the relationship, you don't know he/she is a jerk. Single since November 2005 and doing "everything" right? Unless being single is a choice (and I have no way of knowing by what you've said here whether that's the case or not), you're not doing everything right. You know why? There is no "everything right." You can only be you. If you do this (and again, I don't know if you do), quit trying to be what "someone" says you should be and and quit doing what "someone" says you should do and just be. It comes across as fake, and phony, and it doesn't take long for people to pick up on the idea that you are not being yourself. I was wondering the logic. It is just certain people I guess. When I am myself, I am boring. I am trying to get out and do more. I also have a very monotone voice. I do not want to discuss on here why I do though. When I do try to change my voice, I have been told by people I sound uptight, and like a jerk. I do not mean to sound like that, but it is how I come off to people. The people that know me well like family, already know that. |
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...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not. I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell... You know, I'm not gonna talk about you, but let's say it's me who says this...I noticed too and seen when girls continue to hang out with the same person who treats them like crap, but I also noticed, that when I see and notice that, it's sort of a jealousy thing. I try to figure out why I fail or don't have something, so I look at others and point the finger, that "person is so much worse than me, how does he do it?" - sort of thing. |
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Edited by
MikeCarbellano
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Tue 06/30/09 01:29 PM
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You know, I'm not gonna talk about you, but let's say it's me who says this...I noticed too and seen when girls continue to hang out with the same person who treats them like crap, but I also noticed, that when I see and notice that, it's sort of a jealousy thing. I try to figure out why I fail or don't have something, so I look at others and point the finger, that "person is so much worse than me, how does he do it?" - sort of thing. Right. That was my initial question. But I am not jealous. It would be nice to have a girlfriend, but it hasn't happened. |
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You know, I'm not gonna talk about you, but let's say it's me who says this...I noticed too and seen when girls continue to hang out with the same person who treats them like crap, but I also noticed, that when I see and notice that, it's sort of a jealousy thing. I try to figure out why I fail or don't have something, so I look at others and point the finger, that "person is so much worse than me, how does he do it?" - sort of thing. Right. That was my initial question. Jerks are jerks, in life we have them....both women and men. I wanna know why ppl assume that only 1 sex r manipulative? |
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Jerks are jerks, in life we have them....both women and men. I wanna know why ppl assume that only 1 sex r manipulative? They are not. They both have the ability to manipulate, I have seen both, but I stated an example. |
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Tue 06/30/09 01:52 PM
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Topic: I have come to find out... ...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not. I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell... This, to me, is more of a statement about 'girls'. Theres nothing about hen pecked men who keep goin back for more.... |
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Topic: I have come to find out... ...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not. I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell... This, to me, is more of a statement about 'girls'. Theres nothing about hen pecked men who keep goin back for more.... I don't think so...the guy is named the "jerk" and the girl is still hanging out with him. Opposite can be true, a nice guy treating a girl too well, and exchange she gives nothing. The formula works both ways. |
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Topic: I have come to find out... ...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not. I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell... This, to me, is more of a statement about 'girls'. Theres nothing about hen pecked men who keep goin back for more.... That is because I have not seen men do it...yet. I don't get out much, as you can tell. |
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Topic: I have come to find out... ...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not. I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell... This, to me, is more of a statement about 'girls'. Theres nothing about hen pecked men who keep goin back for more.... That is because I have not seen men do it...yet. I don't get out much, as you can tell. I have come to find out... ...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. This may be ur opinion, but it does not reflect reality. U r generalizing. Ive known men that were bullied, even sexually harassed by their women in their own home, who put up with it for a long time. I just wish more ppl would see humanity for wat it is....good and BAD....its nothing to do with the sexes, putting blame on it(by way of generalising) is just a way of venting emotional anger.. imo. |
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