Topic: I have come to find out...
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Tue 06/30/09 11:51 AM

I think people think I am pointing fingers, which I am not. So I am sorry for the misunderstanding.


No problemo! It sounded like one of those "nice" guy whiny threads that are posted on here ad nauseum. Good to know you're not a "nice" guy laugh laugh laugh

As for the drama, everyone has "drama" and "baggage," it's all in how you handle it. And, what you see on the outside is not always the way things are. My sister was the opposite, she had the "perfect" marriage, 2.5 kids, custom-built house in the burbs, model-goodlooking husband, never fought, never argued, just perfect. Until, of course, they got a divorce. Talk about a shocker. Appearances can be very, very deceiving flowerforyou

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Tue 06/30/09 11:51 AM
Also, I can say the same thing about men too. They whine and complain about all the stuff their girlfriends or wives do that they don't like... HOWEVER, when they get someone that doesn't pull all that crap, they always go back to the b!tches. It's like they're already trained and it's to late to save them.

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Tue 06/30/09 11:51 AM

I think people think I am pointing fingers, which I am not. So I am sorry for the misunderstanding.



Don't worry about it, people think what they want & run with it herelaugh laugh drinker

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Tue 06/30/09 11:54 AM

I think people think I am pointing fingers, which I am not. So I am sorry for the misunderstanding.




it is ok we understand...now sit down and play with your crayons...

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Tue 06/30/09 11:57 AM

I guess I am wrong. I am not complaining or making this up, it is what I have seen happening. I have seen it on peoples' Myspace pages, through texts, phone calls, etc.

I am not calling anyone names here, or pointing fingers. It may be just the people I have known.

Wait! You have myspace and didn't tell me!! I am shocked ,truly shocked

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Tue 06/30/09 11:59 AM
Just because I like sports, grilling brats, and camping, and prefer beer or whiskey... I end up in the "friends zone" grumble grumble

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Tue 06/30/09 11:59 AM


...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not.

I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell...
I'm so tired of this rumor goin around. If you're meeting women that like being treated like crap, then YOU are going after the wrong women. Not our fault you like weirdos noway
shocked

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Tue 06/30/09 12:00 PM

Just because I like sports, grilling brats, and camping, and prefer beer or whiskey... I end up in the "friends zone" grumble grumble





OMG that's hotsmitten

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Tue 06/30/09 12:00 PM
I like cheese. indifferent

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Tue 06/30/09 12:04 PM


I think people think I am pointing fingers, which I am not. So I am sorry for the misunderstanding.




it is ok we understand...now sit down and play with your crayons...


Will do. I have my Spiderman coloring book at my desk at work.

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Tue 06/30/09 12:05 PM



I think people think I am pointing fingers, which I am not. So I am sorry for the misunderstanding.




it is ok we understand...now sit down and play with your crayons...


Will do. I have my Spiderman coloring book at my desk at work.


laugh laugh flowerforyou

Can I borrow it? I think I'm in need of some Crayola therapy bigsmile

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Tue 06/30/09 12:08 PM


Just because I like sports, grilling brats, and camping, and prefer beer or whiskey... I end up in the "friends zone" grumble grumble





OMG that's hotsmitten
not to some people grumble grumble

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Tue 06/30/09 12:12 PM
drool Wut about a gerl that plaze Dungeons & Dragons?smitten

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Tue 06/30/09 12:12 PM
there is obviously something that attracts these women to the kind of men that they are with...whether it is the specific men or just the preference of the woman

also, what YOU see as him being a d-bag or d!ck...she may not see that quality

couples have fights (some more than others) but that doesn't mean that they do not have a great relationship....different people look for different things in a relationship

no offense, but get over it and quit whining....if you want something, go and get it

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Tue 06/30/09 12:15 PM

drool Wut about a gerl that plaze Dungeons & Dragons?smitten


I told you I did Mirror!!! But you don't like me cause I'm too nice!

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Tue 06/30/09 12:22 PM






((((jaxx)))))smooched bigsmile drinker


Hey you. I see you keep posting pics of me on your profile..rofl rofl rofl


Are those pics of you?drool


Those are me before I shrunk, got bloated, and lost my hair.rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


You were hot.laugh


Still am in a Danny Devito kind of waylaugh


Nawww...there's nothing Danny DeVito about you. You still look good.flowerforyou

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Tue 06/30/09 12:22 PM


drool Wut about a gerl that plaze Dungeons & Dragons?smitten


I told you I did Mirror!!! But you don't like me cause I'm too nice!
surprised You are a "Nice-Girl"?scared

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Tue 06/30/09 12:22 PM



...that most girls want guys who treat them like complete crap. It is sickening how many couples I see fight almost on a daily basis. Then when they do break up, they usually get back with the same jerk. I could never give someone that many chances. You can only burn so many bridges before it is too late to go back with them. Who the hell would want confrontation in their life anyway? I do not.

I never got the logic behind it. If someone does, please, do tell...
I'm so tired of this rumor goin around. If you're meeting women that like being treated like crap, then YOU are going after the wrong women. Not our fault you like weirdos noway
shocked


It is not me. You want to know why I am posting this? The real reason is because I see other jerks in relationships that shouldn't be. I have been single since November 2005, and am doing everthing right, yet people think I am complaining about women.

I am not going after any women, yet. I don't like weirdos. Lay off.

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Tue 06/30/09 12:23 PM



Just because I like sports, grilling brats, and camping, and prefer beer or whiskey... I end up in the "friends zone" grumble grumble





OMG that's hotsmitten
not to some people grumble grumble



I have recently re connected with a female friend from the past & back when we were hanging out she never cooked or anything, now everything she cooks is amazing, i'm like what happened to youlaugh I'd date her just for her cooking skillslaugh

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Tue 06/30/09 12:28 PM
im right there beside u.
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