Topic: Am I too judegemental?
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Mon 06/29/09 12:59 PM

Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


if you have no respect for her as a person, you shouldn't be her friend. i ended two friendships a few months ago, because i totally lost respect for them. sounds like you need to do the same. it's rude to consider someone a friend and make fun of them on a public message board.

as for her getting food from her mom and doing her laundry there, that sounds like something a MAN would do. funny no one ever refers to a man as a "little baby" when he does that. i wonder why????laugh laugh :tongue:

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Mon 06/29/09 01:04 PM

Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


why are you even her friend?

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Mon 06/29/09 01:14 PM

Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


She's 28 and you're 46. Why are you hanging out with her? You obviously don't care for her lifestyle.

I do think it's good that she had someone to talk to and vent though.

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Mon 06/29/09 01:14 PM


Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


if you have no respect for her as a person, you shouldn't be her friend. i ended two friendships a few months ago, because i totally lost respect for them. sounds like you need to do the same. it's rude to consider someone a friend and make fun of them on a public message board.

as for her getting food from her mom and doing her laundry there, that sounds like something a MAN would do. funny no one ever refers to a man as a "little baby" when he does that. i wonder why????laugh laugh :tongue:


My brother did that in his 30's.laugh

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Mon 06/29/09 01:17 PM



Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


if you have no respect for her as a person, you shouldn't be her friend. i ended two friendships a few months ago, because i totally lost respect for them. sounds like you need to do the same. it's rude to consider someone a friend and make fun of them on a public message board.

as for her getting food from her mom and doing her laundry there, that sounds like something a MAN would do. funny no one ever refers to a man as a "little baby" when he does that. i wonder why????laugh laugh :tongue:


My brother did that in his 30's.laugh


mine did that in his 40s and after my parent's divorce, my dad did that up til the time they put their mom in the home.

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Mon 06/29/09 01:17 PM


Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


She's 28 and you're 46. Why are you hanging out with her? You obviously don't care for her lifestyle.

I do think it's good that she had someone to talk to and vent though.


i wondered about that too, from the photo, he looks older than a woman in her 20s. interesting friendship.

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Mon 06/29/09 01:19 PM




Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


if you have no respect for her as a person, you shouldn't be her friend. i ended two friendships a few months ago, because i totally lost respect for them. sounds like you need to do the same. it's rude to consider someone a friend and make fun of them on a public message board.

as for her getting food from her mom and doing her laundry there, that sounds like something a MAN would do. funny no one ever refers to a man as a "little baby" when he does that. i wonder why????laugh laugh :tongue:


My brother did that in his 30's.laugh


mine did that in his 40s and after my parent's divorce, my dad did that up til the time they put their mom in the home.


I thought it was a guy thing too.laugh

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Mon 06/29/09 01:28 PM





Okay, did I mention that she goes to her mommy's every weekend because she can not cook and do her own laundry? She loads up on her mother's left overs for the week and her kid even calls me to ask me to take him out for a pizza or something. she has been in three car s, all while making left turns- "I never saw the car coming!" "were you wearing your glasses?" "No, they make me look a nerd" (<- no offense Toots, you at least have the ***** to wear those nerd glasses!)


if you have no respect for her as a person, you shouldn't be her friend. i ended two friendships a few months ago, because i totally lost respect for them. sounds like you need to do the same. it's rude to consider someone a friend and make fun of them on a public message board.

as for her getting food from her mom and doing her laundry there, that sounds like something a MAN would do. funny no one ever refers to a man as a "little baby" when he does that. i wonder why????laugh laugh :tongue:


My brother did that in his 30's.laugh


mine did that in his 40s and after my parent's divorce, my dad did that up til the time they put their mom in the home.


I thought it was a guy thing too.laugh


yep, hooray for gender roles.:banana:

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Mon 06/29/09 01:45 PM
laugh

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Mon 06/29/09 02:31 PM

So this woman calls me yesterday and wants to tell me about her weekend, (information which I did not solicit). She goes over to her mommy's house for the weekend(cause she is a 28 year old dittle baby, who misses her mommy). Her brother and his babys momma (twins) are there, when the momma stands up and announces that she wants to k1ll herself. After some wrangling they spent the afternoon getting her admitted to a psych hospital and my friend babysits the twins. The next day the brother returns and wants to take the twins to see their momma, apparently he was drunk and proceeded to crash his car into a telephone pole. They take the twins to the hospital (they are fine, the brother refuses to go). The next day, the brother calls and says he can't move enough to take care of the twins, so she goes over and babysits and gets him into the hospital, while the babys mommas sister comes and takes the twins. She then told me cried all weekend and do I know why? I said well that was some story. She said no, she cried all weekend because Michael Jackson died, did I cry too. I told her I was crying now.

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Mon 06/29/09 02:33 PM
yes - probably - i think

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Mon 06/29/09 02:34 PM
hey TB. our opinion is not important. it is how you feel about yourse......lol i cant do this.. yep judgemental

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Mon 06/29/09 03:44 PM
Edited by auburngirl on Mon 06/29/09 03:45 PM
That word sure seems to be rearing its little head a lot lately.

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Mon 06/29/09 03:58 PM
Edited by RealityMan on Mon 06/29/09 03:58 PM
When MJ died,I cried Friday and Saturda......wait...I can't do this with a straight face!!!laugh laugh laugh

Wow....people actually crying over his death??
Reminds me of this guy...or is that a girl?:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWSjUe0FyxQ

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Mon 06/29/09 04:06 PM

When MJ died,I cried Friday and Saturda......wait...I can't do this with a straight face!!!laugh laugh laugh

Wow....people actually crying over his death??
Reminds me of this guy...or is that a girl?:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LWSjUe0FyxQ



rofl rofl rofl

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Mon 06/29/09 04:07 PM
incidently just for the record i am NEVER judgemental! :angel:

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Mon 06/29/09 04:08 PM

:banana: I have no sympathy for loons. I have no sympathy for people whose baggage and drama causes their lives to become train wrecks. i guess I'm a cold-hearted b@stard. be seeing you


agreed

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Mon 06/29/09 04:17 PM
I would be running away from women that can not cut the umbilical cord from their mothers or any one that cries over Micheal Jackson's death...jmo


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Mon 06/29/09 04:20 PM
I do my own laundry.

And as much as I think I want a younger woman to date
I think I would pass on that one.

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Mon 06/29/09 04:24 PM
I cried when Mr.Bill died.....the third time.