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I just joined this site last night. I was just searching for people around my area when to my surprise I find my best friends husband! She is currently almost 6 months pregnant and it says he hasnt been on for a month. Do I tell her?!?! We are basically sisters....we have known each other since we were 4. And we both know he has cheated in the past. Do I try and let it go? And let them maybe be happy again. It says hes unhappily married and looking for intimate relationships. I dont want to hurt her and stress her being this pregnant but Ive never trusted him and honestly I dont think she ever has either. And if he ever logs back in hes gonna see that I looked at his profile. Think maybe that will be enough for him to stop???? More then likely not. I just do not want to hurt her. She has two other kids as well that call him dad and hes basically the only dad they have ever known. Ive never been in this situation and I just think either decision is going to hurt her, whether I tell her or not. And honestly guys this is why some girls have a problem with trust. I seen this happen a couple of times to different friends of mine and it makes me nervous to find someone who truely wants me and only me. Any suggestions are welcome.
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 I'm glad you have found someone so fast
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You got me.
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She'll probably find out on her own.
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Edited by
misstina2
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Sun 06/28/09 05:24 PM
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I'd want my friend to let me know and if I found out my friend knew something and didn't let me know the friendship would be over
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holy cannoli, that's a tough one... from what I've heard sometimes when you tell things like that, the messenger ends up that hated one.. I wish I knew what to say, I'm quite dumbfounded on this one...
Good luck
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personally I would want to know...but I would like proof...like a print screen before the profile gets deleted....but I don't know your friend and her being pregnant...can be tough
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 You should tell your friend because this dude is a dirtbag
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hey....do what you would want HER to do for you in the same situation.
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Tell her so she will bust this guys azz and teach him a lesson and maybe he will straighten up
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I havent found anyone besides my best friends jerk of a husband lol and I dont want him lol. Its hard because we are about 30 mins from each other. We text and talk online all the time but I dont see her that often. Maybe Ill just let it go till I see her in person again so I can pull it up on her comp and she can do with it what she wants......i dont know......
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I havent found anyone besides my best friends jerk of a husband lol and I dont want him lol. Its hard because we are about 30 mins from each other. We text and talk online all the time but I dont see her that often. Maybe Ill just let it go till I see her in person again so I can pull it up on her comp and she can do with it what she wants......i dont know...... unless he deactivated before then 
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send her the link to his profile
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email her the link to his profile
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I just joined this site last night. I was just searching for people around my area when to my surprise I find my best friends husband! She is currently almost 6 months pregnant and it says he hasnt been on for a month. Do I tell her?!?! We are basically sisters....we have known each other since we were 4. And we both know he has cheated in the past. Do I try and let it go? And let them maybe be happy again. It says hes unhappily married and looking for intimate relationships. I dont want to hurt her and stress her being this pregnant but Ive never trusted him and honestly I dont think she ever has either. And if he ever logs back in hes gonna see that I looked at his profile. Think maybe that will be enough for him to stop???? More then likely not. I just do not want to hurt her. She has two other kids as well that call him dad and hes basically the only dad they have ever known. Ive never been in this situation and I just think either decision is going to hurt her, whether I tell her or not. And honestly guys this is why some girls have a problem with trust. I seen this happen a couple of times to different friends of mine and it makes me nervous to find someone who truely wants me and only me. Any suggestions are welcome. (Confront him,let him know.) She is pregnant,might cause harm to the baby,letting her know. |
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What if your friend catches a disease from this man because he was out cheating and you knew can you live with that?
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I just joined this site last night. I was just searching for people around my area when to my surprise I find my best friends husband! She is currently almost 6 months pregnant and it says he hasnt been on for a month. Do I tell her?!?! We are basically sisters....we have known each other since we were 4. And we both know he has cheated in the past. Do I try and let it go? And let them maybe be happy again. It says hes unhappily married and looking for intimate relationships. I dont want to hurt her and stress her being this pregnant but Ive never trusted him and honestly I dont think she ever has either. And if he ever logs back in hes gonna see that I looked at his profile. Think maybe that will be enough for him to stop???? More then likely not. I just do not want to hurt her. She has two other kids as well that call him dad and hes basically the only dad they have ever known. Ive never been in this situation and I just think either decision is going to hurt her, whether I tell her or not. And honestly guys this is why some girls have a problem with trust. I seen this happen a couple of times to different friends of mine and it makes me nervous to find someone who truely wants me and only me. Any suggestions are welcome. (Confront him,let him know.) She is pregnant,might cause harm to the baby,letting her know. nah
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What if your friend catches a disease from this man because he was out cheating and you knew can you live with that?  yeah,good point
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email her the link to his profile
this is the best way to tell her......she needs to know though and if she finds out that you knew and didn't tell her....well if it were me I would be mad at you, come friend kinda thing....tell her |
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Letting this guy find another woman and be cheating would be worse that telling your friend before that happens
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