Topic: what should i do????
kc122989's photo
Fri 06/26/09 09:10 AM
last night at 2 in the morning my first and only love woke me up beating on my window,i ansered the door and she was drunk and crying.we were 2 gether for 2 years we met wen i was 16 and she was 15,its been over 2 years since we have been together ans she still crosses my mind everyday but so much has changed since then and i dnt think we could ever be 2 gether again.i let her in and she was saying she misses me and wish we were still together,my feeling are still very strong for her and i hate seeing her cry so i held her and comfurted her and one thing led to another and she wanted to have sex and i turned it down,i dont belive in taking advantage of women,she got up and left,wat should i do ,did i do something rong?

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Fri 06/26/09 09:13 AM
dude, she was taking advantange of you... do your best, forget about her, move on...

she just got dumped or hurt, and she "ran to safety" -- you obviously respect yourself more than she does... don't let her hurt you again....

you didn't do anytying wrong man...

p.s. I feel for you...

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Fri 06/26/09 09:14 AM
No I think that's very honorable not taking advantage of herflowerforyou as long as you're honest you're doing the right thingflowerforyou

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Fri 06/26/09 09:16 AM
thanx man juz didn't no how to take it

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Fri 06/26/09 09:19 AM

last night at 2 in the morning my first and only love woke me up beating on my window,i ansered the door and she was drunk and crying.we were 2 gether for 2 years we met wen i was 16 and she was 15,its been over 2 years since we have been together ans she still crosses my mind everyday but so much has changed since then and i dnt think we could ever be 2 gether again.i let her in and she was saying she misses me and wish we were still together,my feeling are still very strong for her and i hate seeing her cry so i held her and comfurted her and one thing led to another and she wanted to have sex and i turned it down,i dont belive in taking advantage of women,she got up and left,wat should i do ,did i do something rong?


She's leading you on while in a drunken slobbering state. And yeah- she's using you as her go-to dude after she got dumped on her *** by whoever she WAS dating.

Your best bet would be to just leave sleeping dogs lie and keep out of her mess. Getting involved will only result in your being thrown into whatever drama she has planned in her head.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Fri 06/26/09 09:20 AM
Shoulda beat the brakes off that pitchfork pitchfork pitchfork

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Fri 06/26/09 09:22 AM

No I think that's very honorable not taking advantage of herflowerforyou as long as you're honest you're doing the right thingflowerforyou






and I agree with misstina2...flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Fri 06/26/09 09:49 AM


....you did the right thing ...smokin

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Fri 06/26/09 09:54 AM
Edited by KimmiM on Fri 06/26/09 09:54 AM
You did the right thing by having more respect for her and yourself. I applaud your choice.

Also - ignore Dubz. He was dropped on his head as a child... repeatedly... on purpose! rofl

Sowwy Dubz, I couldn't resist! :angel:

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Fri 06/26/09 10:01 AM

last night at 2 in the morning my first and only love woke me up beating on my window,i ansered the door and she was drunk and crying.we were 2 gether for 2 years we met wen i was 16 and she was 15,its been over 2 years since we have been together ans she still crosses my mind everyday but so much has changed since then and i dnt think we could ever be 2 gether again.i let her in and she was saying she misses me and wish we were still together,my feeling are still very strong for her and i hate seeing her cry so i held her and comfurted her and one thing led to another and she wanted to have sex and i turned it down,i dont belive in taking advantage of women,she got up and left,wat should i do ,did i do something rong?


Did you ever hear that 'No Self Esteem' song from the 90's?

Congrats! You passed the test. You are a quality man

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Fri 06/26/09 10:06 AM
Edited by JUSTSAYINGHELLOO on Fri 06/26/09 10:06 AM
flowerforyou

last night at 2 in the morning my first and only love woke me up beating on my window,i ansered the door and she was drunk and crying.we were 2 gether for 2 years we met wen i was 16 and she was 15,its been over 2 years since we have been together ans she still crosses my mind everyday but so much has changed since then and i dnt think we could ever be 2 gether again.i let her in and she was saying she misses me and wish we were still together,my feeling are still very strong for her and i hate seeing her cry so i held her and comfurted her and one thing led to another and she wanted to have sex and i turned it down,i dont belive in taking advantage of women,she got up and left,wat should i do ,did i do something rong?

flowerforyou You did the right thing comforted here and respected herflowerforyou

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Fri 06/26/09 10:11 AM
No, you acted maturely and reponsibly. She was drunk..don't be a scumbag and take advantage of a drunk. You both were very young when dating,children really, and now you are maturing and growing up. Is hard to get over your first love. Sounds like she has a serious problem with alcohol. I think you dodged a bullet. Good Job.

Melody

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Fri 06/26/09 10:34 AM

last night at 2 in the morning my first and only love woke me up beating on my window,i ansered the door and she was drunk and crying.we were 2 gether for 2 years we met wen i was 16 and she was 15,its been over 2 years since we have been together ans she still crosses my mind everyday but so much has changed since then and i dnt think we could ever be 2 gether again.i let her in and she was saying she misses me and wish we were still together,my feeling are still very strong for her and i hate seeing her cry so i held her and comfurted her and one thing led to another and she wanted to have sex and i turned it down,i dont belive in taking advantage of women,she got up and left,wat should i do ,did i do something rong?

you were in a catch 22, if you slept with her she'd resent you for it when she sobered up. not sleeping with her will make her think you're a pv$$y or it will make her feel bad about herself and she'll console herself by thinking you're a pv$$y.
as someone who's always done the right and honorable thing, i have to say that you should have had sex with her. the guys who do what's right and honorable don't get laid (trust me, i know).


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Fri 06/26/09 10:40 AM

last night at 2 in the morning my first and only love woke me up beating on my window,i ansered the door and she was drunk and crying.we were 2 gether for 2 years we met wen i was 16 and she was 15,its been over 2 years since we have been together ans she still crosses my mind everyday but so much has changed since then and i dnt think we could ever be 2 gether again.i let her in and she was saying she misses me and wish we were still together,my feeling are still very strong for her and i hate seeing her cry so i held her and comfurted her and one thing led to another and she wanted to have sex and i turned it down,i dont belive in taking advantage of women,she got up and left,wat should i do ,did i do something rong?
No you did nothing wrong, I think you acted like a scholar and a gentlemen, hats off to you, many men, many people love to take advantage of the weak, and love does make us weak, no you want it you have it, you don't want it, let it go any other reaction would have made you a pig:smile:

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Fri 06/26/09 10:40 AM

last night at 2 in the morning my first and only love woke me up beating on my window,i ansered the door and she was drunk and crying.we were 2 gether for 2 years we met wen i was 16 and she was 15,its been over 2 years since we have been together ans she still crosses my mind everyday but so much has changed since then and i dnt think we could ever be 2 gether again.i let her in and she was saying she misses me and wish we were still together,my feeling are still very strong for her and i hate seeing her cry so i held her and comfurted her and one thing led to another and she wanted to have sex and i turned it down,i dont belive in taking advantage of women,she got up and left,wat should i do ,did i do something rong?
No you did nothing wrong, I think you acted like a scholar and a gentlemen, hats off to you, many men, many people love to take advantage of the weak, and love does make us weak, no you want it you have it, you don't want it, let it go any other reaction would have made you a pig:smile:

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Fri 06/26/09 10:43 AM
oh tell her to fok off