I think you should date whoever, and at the same time, til God gives you a spiritual joining, then ya give that a chance.

It is easier for God to steer us if we are moving. I don't think it is wrong to date as long as you are only dating those you believe are potential marriage partners - unequally yoked with unbelievers, etc. are clear no no's.

I was just thinking about digging a pit and seeing who fell into it.

i think there is something very very unpalatable



in the water you 've been drinking lately, buddy

It was just a joke Nessa. A metaphor. To provide an opening in one's life for the availability of the presence of another.

After thousands of posts, one incorrectly assumes your general persona is reasonably known. To someone who does not frequent those particular threads, this certainly is not the case. My little avatar is just the first one with wings I ran across and does not give a visual representation of much ... except impish humor.

i don't see the humor in it at all

and there comes a time for people to be mature & serious

all joking and nothing substantial doesn't go far with me

*digs a pit*

well, i hear that many cemetaries have needs


for employees with just those exact skills

Leah, that's very good and practical point. Thank you for the encouragement.

Aww, man! I fell in. Someone help!

You don't need help. You need congratulations. She is a sweetheart.

congratulations ? ...oh please

For me I found it when I wasn't looking.

You're right, she is quite beautiful and a believer.

I pray and pray for the right man to come along

but all the wrong ones comes around ///

for instance ...

there are so many handsome young virile men

in their twenties & 30's who hit up on me

on a regular basis & send me kisses

and hugs & winks all day and night


i always tell them thank you , but

they need someone closer to their own age ...


i have no interest in dating a young man

as old as my handsome Son

and it is soo funny cause many of the older men

have hit on me too ...ones i thought were my friends

but things they say in the threads make me go the other way

and when i let them know i am not interested & reject them

then they get all rude & make nasty comments trying to put me down

under the guise of humor cause they cannot handle rejection

& then they try to make a move on someone young & naive

to save their flimsy egos

hey I pray about finding a nice christain woman and I always (inmy prayer) if it is his will.amen

Hey, averagguy, if the Lord put the desire in your heart for a wife, then yes, it's most certainly His will for a Christian woman to be your wife. Much grace to you.