My name is Sandie & I live in a burb of Milwaukee, this posting was simply started becuz, I think both sexes r having problems meeting. Y I dont no, but I do think that this thing about looks, i.e., let me see your pix b 4 I continue any type of commucation is stupid. I have had pix of guys, & when I have met them Jeez, the pix must be from hi school. Seriously, I think u get know the person with or without the pix & then go from there. I have met some great guys without having seen prior to meeting & they turned out to be good friends. If u think I am wrong, please let me know. Also, I guess part of this is just plain old female curiousisty.

Nice first post.

And we don't all have to see what you look like before we talk to ya. But it would be nice to have a face to go with the conversation.

I hear your words they sound so good. But if I were to meet you I would have to knock on wood !!!!

I agree where are you.Welcome Sandie

I've had a number problems with all the other sites. This is actually the first time I've ever placed my photo in something like this. All to often you either don't get a reply or 90% of the ones you get are scammers and spammers. Wanting you to give them your credit card number for a number of additional sites that continue to lead you into endless trash.

Frustration sets in and you start to loose hope. So you just delete everything that comes in. Hopefully this one is different. Time will tell, hopefully not too much time.

Sandi, you have a real nice photo.

I hear you sweetie and agree.Looks aren't everything.I good looking person can be very ugly.I'm a 5'10,195 lbs.Wh/PR.Clean cut.I love being outdoors and having fun.I'm looking to meet someone to do things with a around town,and see where it goes from there.I'm a single father,with a 9 yr old son,who lives with me.He's my life.I got a job as a chef,and i got all my teeth.ha ha

I'm also having a hard time meeting someone. if u would like, you can view my profile.

Hey! Women are just as bad as some of the men you say use their high school photos. When you meet some of them they are older looking than your grandma. And twice as big. Or you e-mail one and she is just a male basher. Who needs women like this or if you are a woman who needs a guy like that. I say do the photo and have it dated.

You can be the most beautiful person in the world, but it's whats inside that counts. After all beauty faids with age. When all is said and done who you are is what counts most. You can't get into heaven on good looks.

Curiousisty is not that what killes the cat?? LOL You are right sister!

..their account was deactivated...

apperance is only half the game......Who gives a rats a** how beautiful u r if ur a ***** to b around?

I think you hit the nail on the head. I have been here for over 6 months.And have not had 1 reply. I have not had to date for over thirty years.Why is this so hard??

well let me see your picture!!!!! bill

Well I post recent pics but that doesn't seem to help. Seems like in this day and age women are only attracted to what looks good. I may not have the best body, but I get told daily I am a sweetheart and do care about other people and friends. I guess my heart is too big as it gets walked all over a lot of the time. But to answer your though on why the sexes have trouble meeting, its because people are too hung up on appearance and not how well the other person will treat you. But that's just my opinion and I may be way off.

There are plenty of people hung up on appearance when meeting in real life, not as much online though. You can see alot of info about each person you are viewing, and that might catch a person's interest as well.

I don't consider myself a physical prize, but I'm proud of who I am. Sometimes people see that shining through.

I met my girlfriend online. I almost did'nt send her a message. I thought I did'nt have a chance. I'm so glad that I did, now I',m seeing this wonderful, beautiful and caring lady. So appearances can work both ways.


Sometimes 'you' are exactly what somebody else is looking for. Keep waiting and sending out messages. You don't want to miss out, and they should'nt either