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I'd like to know what everyones thoughts on this topic are as I have met someone recently that I have a stronger connection with than anyone I have ever met in my entire life. I'd like to also say that I have never been one to beleive in the whole love at first sight concept, but this person is very quickly changing my opinion. I have to say, you gotta be on your guard man...I had such a strong connection to another woman...we could almost read each other's mind and even others said, they can't believe how we can get along so well. At the end she left me...so it could be extremely painful, almost like being stabbed and the wound don't want to heal, just keep opening up. Thats another thing thats strange. Normally meeting someone like so I do tend to keep my guard up, but with her it has been completely different. Like I don't need to. I honestly feel like I have known this woman my whole life even though in reality it has been a very short period of time. just be careful, and take is slowly, although you may not feel like you should. i had this connection, and he uprooted 3000 miles to move in with me. only then did we see how much we had fallen in extreme like, lust, adoration, and hadn't given ourselves time to put a real foundation in place. we're no longer together. so, i wish you the best, just take it slow. 
Thats another thing, she lives on the west coast and I on the east........ |
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I'd like to know what everyones thoughts on this topic are as I have met someone recently that I have a stronger connection with than anyone I have ever met in my entire life. I'd like to also say that I have never been one to beleive in the whole love at first sight concept, but this person is very quickly changing my opinion. I have to say, you gotta be on your guard man...I had such a strong connection to another woman...we could almost read each other's mind and even others said, they can't believe how we can get along so well. At the end she left me...so it could be extremely painful, almost like being stabbed and the wound don't want to heal, just keep opening up. Thats another thing thats strange. Normally meeting someone like so I do tend to keep my guard up, but with her it has been completely different. Like I don't need to. I honestly feel like I have known this woman my whole life even though in reality it has been a very short period of time. I hear you...hell, my woman almost looked familiar, like I have met her before and seen her, but I never did, i know for sure. 
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That is exactly what it is like. Like you've always known them. It's pretty darn special when you get that connection with another.
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i do believe in it.....well it hasnt happened yet...so do i believe in it or do i hope its real?? it would be nice there! mmmmmmmm SOME ONE PROVE ME RIGHT!! hahahah
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Maybe lust at first sight!
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 being naughty at first sight happens alot more i would say
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Nope. Not 4 me. Maybe butt lust. But not love.
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I believe u can get strongly attracted to someone n feel a strong connection, but love at first sight... i dont think its possible, i mean then again it could just b u, different people fall at different times
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I wouldn't call it love by no means BUT LUST at first sight?! OMG! YES!!!!
  
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In regards to my earlier post, I don't believe in love at first sight. Not as far as what just happened to me 15 min ago. I will just move on, no more to be said unless you WANT to know. peace
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OMG! What happened in 15 mins.!?! It couldn't have been that quick?!?
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Edited by
SnookMan
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Sun 06/21/09 10:35 PM
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In response to your post, yes ma'am it was. See I just talked to this girl just last night, we talked about our interest and all. One thing I stupidly failed to realize is that she lives 2 and a half hrs from me. I can't drive by the way due to a vision disability at birth. But she told me last night there was this other guy she met on here and he was in here area. Long story short, she called me about probably going on 30 minutes now, and she sounded uncertain so I asked if everything was all right. She said the guy kissed her and the bar tonight and they just clicked as well having things in common. Should have seen this from the start. Then she says we could still be friends I told her sure but in my mind I said no ,to me that just feels like a slap in the face. As of now all ties are broken. Where did I go wrong? But I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, I know the right one will come... one day. Should have listened to my parents,arrgh!!
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Edited by
darkowl1
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it's really strange how attractions work, some logical, some illogical, and some just have a timeless attraction that comes entirely from somewhere else, that with caution, and thinking things out but hopefully not overthought could me something majical that one experiences once in several lifetimes, and needs no barriers or papers, it just is, and if it lasts for the work put into it, it may constantly renew it's refreshing aspect, for the facets of something like that are truly endless, and deserve to be explored at all costs if hearts, souls, and timing and thought permit it to happen. many people over-think themselves out of a good thing by self-sabatoging them-selves(guilty as charged in the past, and a little now) and one may not fall truly in love for a couple of years, but love that person dearly till that happens, or doesn't happen, and care about them at all costs, and nature will take it's course to see that end, or in some cases deny that, but the love never truly goes away, example, WW2, many were seperated, and then 20-30 years later were reunited and it was like they never lost touch, and the other half was filled. i think most of you on here desire this stong connection. what's instore for me, i haven't a clue, but i clearly have a busy future, and who can tell who i will share it with at this time, but i may dream.......they will always be free while they are with me if they volunteer their touch of heart...just a touch.....
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it's really strange how attractions work, some logical, some illogical, and some just have a timeless attraction that comes entirely from somewhere else, that with caution, and thinking things out but hopefully not overthought could me something majical that one experiences once in several lifetimes, and needs no barriers or papers, it just is, and if it lasts for the work put into it, it may constantly renew it's refreshing aspect, for the facets of something like that are truly endless, and deserve to be explored at all costs if hearts, souls, and timing and thought permit it to happen. many people over-think themselves out of a good thing by self-sabatoging them-selves(guilty as charged in the past, and a little now) and one may not fall truly in love for a couple of years, but love that person dearly till that happens, or doesn't happen, and care about them at all costs, and nature will take it's course to see that end, or in some cases deny that, but the love never truly goes away, example, WW2, many were seperated, and then 20-30 years later were reunited and it was like they never lost touch, and the other half was filled. i think most of you on here desire this stong connection. what's instore for me, i haven't a clue, but i clearly have a busy future, and who can tell who i will share it with at this time, but i may dream.......they will always be free while they are with me if they volunteer their touch of heart...just a touch..... thank you dark that means a lot to me, I believe my spirit has been revived thanks to you. |
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it's really strange how attractions work, some logical, some illogical, and some just have a timeless attraction that comes entirely from somewhere else, that with caution, and thinking things out but hopefully not overthought could me something majical that one experiences once in several lifetimes, and needs no barriers or papers, it just is, and if it lasts for the work put into it, it may constantly renew it's refreshing aspect, for the facets of something like that are truly endless, and deserve to be explored at all costs if hearts, souls, and timing and thought permit it to happen. many people over-think themselves out of a good thing by self-sabatoging them-selves(guilty as charged in the past, and a little now) and one may not fall truly in love for a couple of years, but love that person dearly till that happens, or doesn't happen, and care about them at all costs, and nature will take it's course to see that end, or in some cases deny that, but the love never truly goes away, example, WW2, many were seperated, and then 20-30 years later were reunited and it was like they never lost touch, and the other half was filled. i think most of you on here desire this stong connection. what's instore for me, i haven't a clue, but i clearly have a busy future, and who can tell who i will share it with at this time, but i may dream.......they will always be free while they are with me if they volunteer their touch of heart...just a touch..... That was quite deep. Thank you. |
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it's really strange how attractions work, some logical, some illogical, and some just have a timeless attraction that comes entirely from somewhere else, that with caution, and thinking things out but hopefully not overthought could me something majical that one experiences once in several lifetimes, and needs no barriers or papers, it just is, and if it lasts for the work put into it, it may constantly renew it's refreshing aspect, for the facets of something like that are truly endless, and deserve to be explored at all costs if hearts, souls, and timing and thought permit it to happen. many people over-think themselves out of a good thing by self-sabatoging them-selves(guilty as charged in the past, and a little now) and one may not fall truly in love for a couple of years, but love that person dearly till that happens, or doesn't happen, and care about them at all costs, and nature will take it's course to see that end, or in some cases deny that, but the love never truly goes away, example, WW2, many were seperated, and then 20-30 years later were reunited and it was like they never lost touch, and the other half was filled. i think most of you on here desire this stong connection. what's instore for me, i haven't a clue, but i clearly have a busy future, and who can tell who i will share it with at this time, but i may dream.......they will always be free while they are with me if they volunteer their touch of heart...just a touch..... thank you dark that means a lot to me, I believe my spirit has been revived thanks to you. well....i'm speachless! i just said what i feel, but i'm glad it helped if it did so!! i'm extremely humbled and moved by what you just said to me, thankyou....  if i could lend a hand in the future, let me know....thanks again!
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it's really strange how attractions work, some logical, some illogical, and some just have a timeless attraction that comes entirely from somewhere else, that with caution, and thinking things out but hopefully not overthought could me something majical that one experiences once in several lifetimes, and needs no barriers or papers, it just is, and if it lasts for the work put into it, it may constantly renew it's refreshing aspect, for the facets of something like that are truly endless, and deserve to be explored at all costs if hearts, souls, and timing and thought permit it to happen. many people over-think themselves out of a good thing by self-sabatoging them-selves(guilty as charged in the past, and a little now) and one may not fall truly in love for a couple of years, but love that person dearly till that happens, or doesn't happen, and care about them at all costs, and nature will take it's course to see that end, or in some cases deny that, but the love never truly goes away, example, WW2, many were seperated, and then 20-30 years later were reunited and it was like they never lost touch, and the other half was filled. i think most of you on here desire this stong connection. what's instore for me, i haven't a clue, but i clearly have a busy future, and who can tell who i will share it with at this time, but i may dream.......they will always be free while they are with me if they volunteer their touch of heart...just a touch..... That was quite deep. Thank you. thankyou. it's what i feel, and believe to be, for all of us eventually, i hope. |
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I personally don't believe in love at first sight, I do believe in lust at first sight. I've gotten older an wiser. I realize it takes much more than physical attraction an similiar interests to really love someone. It takes respect, acceptance, devotion an commitment to name a few things. I think that real love is something that comes with time spent together gettin to know one another.
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I believe in love at first sight, it just all depends on what you do with it.
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