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"Make him or her feel like sh1t." Guilt trip.  Consequences for one's actions is better to me. The "consequences" will make him or her feel like sh1t, if the person has feelings. I have consequence for my child's actions and they are not there to make my child feel like sh$t. Your child-parent relationship cannot be compared to 2 adult's relationship. I've felt the brunt of broken promises. I will not try to do a guilt trip to make the other person feel like sh$t. That is playing games to me. I don't go there. I honestly think that it would make me feel worse if I did that. I feel that consequences for actions applies to adults too. That's just me. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sat 06/20/09 11:36 PM
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"Make him or her feel like sh1t." Guilt trip. Consequences for one's actions is better to me. The "consequences" will make him or her feel like sh1t, if the person has feelings. I have consequence for my child's actions and they are not there to make my child feel like sh$t. Your child-parent relationship cannot be compared to 2 adult's relationship. I've felt the brunt of broken promises. I will not try to do a guilt trip to make the other person feel like sh$t. That is playing games to me. I don't go there. I honestly think that it would make me feel worse if I did that. I feel that consequences for actions applies to adults too. That's just me. Well I'm just telling you. I understand where you are coming from, but in my point of view, this world is full of irresponsible people lately. They just can't understand the reason, because they were never taught a lesson. You can't have somebody to be responsible, if the person doesn't understand his or her actions can cause pain and suffering. It's also called lack of empathy. When you got people who get away with a lot of stuff and not get blowback from their actions, that's when we get people who are completely lack any empathy and don't understand the idea of being responsible. Those how has never learned it, they are not only wrecking others' lives but wrecking their own and they are on the course of self destruction. It's just gonna keep mounting up to a point, when they end up doing something, that will be taken seriously and they won't be able to comprehend what they have done. The more irresponsible is someone to more lack of empathy he or she has, and in a certain point of view, evil can be decribed as "complete lack of empathy". |
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Edited by
faithfulways
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Thu 06/25/09 10:02 AM
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Is this before or after the 3day rule?  If a person is interested in me they should show interest Thank you very much for that comment, because I agree with you 100%. I have met a guy on another site and he said he was interested in me, but I feel like if he take the time to be online than he can at least call or send a short messasge. He say he is a busy man and I believe him, because of what he do, but I had seen him online sometimes. I feel like he is not that into me and that is just fine with me. Okay I am lying, because I do care. There is a saying: " Don't let someone become a priority in your life... When you are just an options in theirs." By the way # 2. That do tell you a lot about the person. I do believe in my heart that if a man is interested in me than he will show it, because he will do everything he can to get to know you. |
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