Its is a good time to reflect the date, and for me lets me cool off a bit and not to seem so smothering, and chase her off.

I concur, the 3 day rule is stupid, it's used by those that are arrogant and playing games...

(((Joy)))) I agree. Tina said that too. It does feel like a game. Oh I have to wait a certain length of time. Silly. I'm doubtful my parents ever did that and they were married 53 years. If they are interested they should show it. In 3 days she's likely to think you did not like her.

it would have to be number two ,why promise something as simple as a phone call and than not do it ,,, ...i don't get why someone wouldn't call you

Too many fish in the sea for games... Don't ask me where there are....

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what's worse is when you spend alot of time tracing someone's number then they put a restraining order against you

I love this sight, I am learning so much here.. call you all tomorrow

What I want to know, how can someone go on and live a life, while promises others various things left and right but won't keep it...what makes a person become like this, and why is he or she feels so comfortable anyway...not even thinking of the consequences? How does someone become so "numb" to actually feel somewhat of a compassion or just simply unable to comprehend that his or her promise can be taken quite seriously?
Or there are people out there who think promise is just a word?

Yes. There are!

some people will just tell you what they think you want to hear when really most people just want honesty

i'm sorry your sad ...

I believe that a person is only as good as their word.

How long did you know this Person? The best thing to do is get back out there and have fun, the power they have over you will go away. Why let someone rent space in your head for free. It is just hurting you. Things **** sometimes, I know.

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That's beside the point..regarding my relationship. This is like a diary...I'm running my thoughts here.

So I gave a few minutes to think about it..and I think I know what it is.

"Over-Nice" people raise these kinda people. People who forgive everything to their lover/date/partner. Once they get away with it..they think it's ok and don't fee bad about it.
I think, people have to judge others right off, when they do something like breaking a promise. You have to confront her (or him). Make him or her feel like sh1t. Otherwise, once they get away with it, they gonna keep doing it, because they think there cannot be consequences. You let them get away with it, because your "deep love" or just being too nice... you are actually raising a monster.

"Make him or her feel like sh1t."

Guilt trip.

Consequences for one's actions is better to me.

That could very well be much of it. We all work within our frame of references. I don't know about the making them feel like sh!t part so much as just make it clear that if you "tell me something, I better be able to take it to the bank."

The "consequences" will make him or her feel like sh1t, if the person has feelings.

I have consequence for my child's actions and they are not there to make my child feel like sh$t.

Your child-parent relationship cannot be compared to 2 adult's relationship.