Sometimes, you can tell on date one if you are not going to want to see the person again.

miko all these questions are generalizations

not all women act this way - guess you were just lucky on those dates.

good luck

Here is a smart woman.

Women read into everything. They don’t take things at face value... they’re always interpreting. Most of the things that guys are doing to “pursue” and “seduce” women are actually working against them.

Attraction isn’t a “conscious” process at all, and if you don’t understand how it works, you could spend your whole life doing the wrong things and getting bad results.

Hi beautiful...see, lost my cigarette.

I have always attracted these type of woman for some reason,I think it is something in my personality,I don't take myself very serious and but a I always seem to end up with woman that have low selfesteem.

You're obviously not that attracted to those types of women if you don't like the way they act.

Miko....here's a piece of advice.....

1. How to start conversation with a woman?

It definitely is a lot easier to put all of those things aside at the beginning of the relationship. If you have any outgoing friends, see if they can help you get into situations where you have to speak to a girl.

It may be terrifying, but it can help.


2.Women find men who are pro-active extremely attractive

You might have been a nervous wreck. You might have even been shaking.

Just try a normal conversation. Talk about classes, current events... anything.

Debate if you want.

Just talk. In no time you'll get relaxed and know her better.


3.Women appreciate assertive man

Bottom line: Women find cheerful men very attractive that are the quality, which men should go for. It involves confidence, charm, the ability to set goals, have fun, and that requires knowing yourself and your environment.

If you think you're a dork make a joke out of it, let others know that you're aware of what's going on, attend star trek conventions, or whatever it is your passionate about.


Now am no expert in this field, but again this is my personal view on this topic.

You realized their self esteem level while on date? did you date them again?

My ex wife always told me that she appreciated the fact that I gave her my honest opinion or a different view & never just told what she wanted to hear.

Woman are not ALWAYS asking.

It's those pesky generalizations again, huh?

Yep.

most of the time we are saying but are misunderstood

Why do all women always say that it's not all women

I never shake when I am on a date I am always very at ease around people,as I have worked with the public most of my life,I am a little nervous if I don't know my date very well,but I think that is normal,and I do talk of the things I am most passionate about,I am an old fashioned guy when dating,and I was always taught to mostly listen,and let the woman set the tone for conversation.

did some one hallor for a fatt man ????

While on a date, one needs to pay attention to the non-verbal communication signs as well.

For most of the folks, this skill is inborn. But for some, it needs to be developed.

Look for signs.......i mean read the "body language". Such signs tells you if a person is bored or interested, happy or off-mood, etc etc.

Miko, if you only listen and not participate, you non-verbally tell your date that you're not interested in her.

Secondly, you need to initiate a topic of conversation. But just be careful not to be over-initiative. Let your partner, talk about the things she likes too.

If you mostly listen, you might need to start speaking up a bit.