My girlfriend might be pregnant. She took a test once the other day and it came up blank. She is showing a few signs that might make things seem worse. Any advice? Also her parents are total asshats and she doesn't really have anyone else to talk to. Her parents could either kick her or kick her out. My parents would probably kick me out and I just recently got hired for a part time/as needed job. I really need some advice, if anyone can help.

Wow, someone comes in looking for advice and automatically gets the smash and bash parade, welcome to mingle!!

Yea, like the ladies said, be sure first, don't stress it till there is something to stress about, and then STRESS LIKE CRAZY!!!!!

just kidding.

Dump the part time/as needed crap. I mean hold on to it until you find something but you need to get on the ball and get your life in order pretty quick, baby or otherwise. Construction/Surveying are easy jobs to get, it's hard work but it's steady and in the end a decent profession. Flip through papers and put a resume out there, don't wait on one to "come to you," go out and get one. She probably needs to be doing something in the meantime as well, y'all are in this mess together and need to work together to make something happen, just my opinion of course.

Step two, she's not going to be able to work for a couple months if she's pregnant and she's not going to be pulling in much money on a short term job, will probably save you both a lot of headache if one of you can stay home with the kid, and one that young, probably better her if you've got higher credentials.

Life is tough man, and you're about to find that out real quick so fasten your seatbelt and get ready. I don't have a lot of time but know this.
1. You're not going to get the job you want and it's probably not going to make you happy.
2. You've got a lot to go through and a fast learning curve ahead, so muster up some motivation and make it happen.
3. Your chances of survival through this thing, if you are prepared to work hard and make some sacrifices, is fair. Don't let it drag you down, let it make you a stronger person.

Maybe once you get working for a while you can start chasing the money a little but for now put first things first, man up, grab the bull by the horns and take charge of your life. My best advice ever. If you need someone to talk to let me know and I'll try to help.

One last note, get out of the mindset of parents are asshats, or whatever it was. They may be, but you might need a little help and being the bigger person, taking a little grief, and trying to get along when anyone else would quit will go a long way. Later and good luck.


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well she's had two tests taken at the local Family Healthcare. She is on Title 10 (no charge tests and some other stuff). Both came up negative.

well she's had two tests taken at the local Family Healthcare. She is on Title 10 (no charge tests and some other stuff). Both came up negative.

Why are you even with a girl like that anyway? your fault. Should of worn a condom. guess your screwed eh

My girlfriend might be pregnant. She took a test once the other day and it came up blank. She is showing a few signs that might make things seem worse. Any advice? Also her parents are total asshats and she doesn't really have anyone else to talk to. Her parents could either kick her or kick her out. My parents would probably kick me out and I just recently got hired for a part time/as needed job. I really need some advice, if anyone can help.