well this morning i had a words with my friends that i live with.her young boys actually called me names,like ***** and they say things like well i dont take numbers.that makes me think that they are talking about naughty things.i told her that i only had maybe two hours to watch her children so they could come back with her oldest daughter.her boyfriend actually was rude and i explaned i did not want her 12 and 9 year old boys to be left alone long.her and i actually wasnt mad we talked things over.but the man she lives with made things worse on me actually.plus the kids thaught i was being rude.i ws only trying to help.what can i do to get along with her young boys?they never get to spend time with their dad.plus the other man that took care of them for 5 years lives down the street,and i know he wants to visit.i know that hurts the little boys in certain ways. is there any advice

I really don't understand.

Good luck though

doesn't sound like you need to do anything to 'get along with them', they need some parental discipline and i wouldn't put up with that for a minute.

a 9yr old and a 12yr old should do as they are told and sure as heck respect their elders (jmo)

she has room mate that has 2 preteen boys

that she does not want left alone in her (their) place

said oldest daughter should help (oldest daughter bf is not cool with it and is making matters worse)

the mother has a x bf of 5yrs down the street that more than likely would like time w/boys

any suggestions

i hope i got it right hard to read proper grammar for me

Huh?

I'm sorry, I cannot follow. Two little boys 9 and 12...two or three dads? See, this is where I'm confused...

Oh, so leave? Not really difficult, well, unless you're the type that likes to make things difficult.