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then is it the mob.... um group.... um site mgmt decision that those w/out pics are; fishy hiding something pervs insincere not worthy of posting etc, etc neg, neg, neg? just so we're clear You have the choice not to put up a picture, just like we have the choice of not meeting those without a picture. Is there a reason you don't have one? there is. it's not for discussion here. suffice it to say its none of the above. never said anyone should go to the point of meeting someone before seeing pics. |
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Yeah, and <---------- this is me too and I just took this photo this week. Hey Modela, you just changed your pic, before you had a scarf around your face. I am playing with all my photos in my profile. |
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understood.
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Yeah, and <---------- this is me too and I just took this photo this week. Hey Modela, you just changed your pic, before you had a scarf around your face. I am playing with all my photos in my profile. They are all lovely! 
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Poetrywriter: Thank you kindly! you are very sweet hun.
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just perved ya Modela...very nice pics
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Poetrywriter: Thank you kindly! you are very sweet hun. And thank you also for sweetness brings out sweetness so therefore if I am sweet, it is because of you!
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just perved ya Modela...very nice pics Mahalo nui loa mi amigo! |
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Whats in a photo anyway? Beauty is just skin deep. Its what on the inside that you need to look for.
Ever heard the saying:- "All that glisters is not gold; Often have you heard that told: Many a man his life hath sold But my outside to behold: Gilded tombs do worms enfold. Had you been as wise as bold, Young in limbs, in judgement old Your answer had not been inscroll'd Fare you well, your suit is cold." |
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Poetrywriter: Thank you kindly! you are very sweet hun. And thank you also for sweetness brings out sweetness so therefore if I am sweet, it is because of you!
Modela:   
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Whats in a photo anyway? Beauty is just skin deep. Its what on the inside that you need to look for. Ever heard the saying:- "All that glisters is not gold; Often have you heard that told: Many a man his life hath sold But my outside to behold: Gilded tombs do worms enfold. Had you been as wise as bold, Young in limbs, in judgement old Your answer had not been inscroll'd Fare you well, your suit is cold." Beauty may only be skin deep, but if I am to make a connection, in any way, with a person I would like to know what they look like. I am friends with people who are beautiful inside and I don't care what they look like on the outside. But a face with a name/words is important to me. |
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I dont care what you look like...just make sure you are who you say you are...cause if you aren't then you will be shown the road.....
out. 
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just perved ya Modela...very nice pics Mahalo nui loa mi amigo!  
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Whats in a photo anyway? Beauty is just skin deep. Its what on the inside that you need to look for. Ever heard the saying:- "All that glisters is not gold; Often have you heard that told: Many a man his life hath sold But my outside to behold: Gilded tombs do worms enfold. Had you been as wise as bold, Young in limbs, in judgement old Your answer had not been inscroll'd Fare you well, your suit is cold." Beauty may only be skin deep, but if I am to make a connection, in any way, with a person I would like to know what they look like. I am friends with people who are beautiful inside and I don't care what they look like on the outside. But a face with a name/words is important to me. Yeah....you've got your point. But what i was saying is that a photo should not be a pre-requisite to a contact. |
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I dont care what you look like...just make sure you are who you say you are...cause if you aren't then you will be shown the road..... out.
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Whats in a photo anyway? Beauty is just skin deep. Its what on the inside that you need to look for. Ever heard the saying:- "All that glisters is not gold; Often have you heard that told: Many a man his life hath sold But my outside to behold: Gilded tombs do worms enfold. Had you been as wise as bold, Young in limbs, in judgement old Your answer had not been inscroll'd Fare you well, your suit is cold." Beauty may only be skin deep, but if I am to make a connection, in any way, with a person I would like to know what they look like. I am friends with people who are beautiful inside and I don't care what they look like on the outside. But a face with a name/words is important to me. Yeah....you've got your point. But what i was saying is that a photo should not be a pre-requisite to a contact. I have spoken to a few people without pictures but if there is to be more to it than just chatting in here, I need to know what you look like. I will speak to just about anyone, though.
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Whats in a photo anyway? Beauty is just skin deep. Its what on the inside that you need to look for. Ever heard the saying:- "All that glisters is not gold; Often have you heard that told: Many a man his life hath sold But my outside to behold: Gilded tombs do worms enfold. Had you been as wise as bold, Young in limbs, in judgement old Your answer had not been inscroll'd Fare you well, your suit is cold." Beauty may only be skin deep, but if I am to make a connection, in any way, with a person I would like to know what they look like. I am friends with people who are beautiful inside and I don't care what they look like on the outside. But a face with a name/words is important to me. Yeah....you've got your point. But what i was saying is that a photo should not be a pre-requisite to a contact. I have spoken to a few people without pictures but if there is to be more to it than just chatting in here, I need to know what you look like. I will speak to just about anyone, though.
So you've got my point. And i agree 100% with you.
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Ever heard the saying "Nice face, shame about the attitude"............... I have encountered a few people who have great photos of themselves on this site, they speak the right language in the forums but behind the scenes............ Principles of a gnat!
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Edited by
papersmile
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Sun 06/14/09 04:09 AM
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Sure first impressions are important, but many, like me, want someone to accept and like me for my personality first, even though I do have pics in my profile.
i used to feel this way and, when i first started talking online, i never had a picture posted. i was once involved with someone who placed a lot of value on the way a person looked and i was loathe to fall into that same sort of situation, where someone liked me only for the way i looked. i've always felt that what i had to say, and what i thought, were far more important than what i looked like anyway. it didn't take me long to realize that both (looks and personality) mattered in ways of attraction, and i believe that they matter equally - i wouldn't place more importance on either one. i also came to the quick conclusion that you get way more email when you have a photo posted than not. 
i'd also decided that most men are a lot smarter than just being fooled by the eye candy and that the guy who was going to attract MY attention and interest was going to be one didn't place whole value on how i looked and that if he thought i had a crappy personality, he'd not move forward with a relationship being the goal. |
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