I know the thread title makes no sense, its's not supposed to! the absolute meaningfull explination it implys, is the search for love. I can tell you that my expectations are moderate to high, but as the lonelyness increases (as to be expected) the hopelesness creeps in.
I'm new to this "dating" site and I see how fickle the idea of it really is, one could fall victim to a seemingly "conective" conversation (wich brings hope, excitment) but in reality maybe the other person was just bored one night and that's it.

So it's possible for new members like myself, to be reading this thread so I offer some novice advice, dont't get your hopes up and take this for what it is, don't overthink it. Note: I'll also be following this advice as well.

Best of luck. Chris

you know,.the ONLY person in the world who can really LOVE you for you,....is,... YOURSELF !!!

only you know exactly what makes you happy,.

so ask yourself right now,..what you could do to make yourself happy,..( within the law ) and GO DO IT !!!!

you don`t need anyone or anything but YOURSELF

why do we leave that ALL important job to someone else,..who else knows you better than YOU ??

Good point, but people do need other people right? and if you (one) doesn't have much people contact, job hours, other responcibilites ect then that puts a damper on the "happy" part.

Well, join in the forums is a great way to start. Don't be afraid that after a few conversations, things slow down, none of the people on here have found that special someone on the first try. Don't give up hope and feel sorry for yourself, that is a major turn-off.

Good luck and welcome.

Thank you, I do like the forums and I was just making referance to what sombody told me, to see what responces I'd get to it