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      I don't really understand why sending first emails is so difficult for some people. I often get emails that say "hi" and that's it. I wonder why some people think that's going to get a good response. 
 I just got an email like that, so I responded with hi. Then the person asked how the weather was. I just don't get how that is supposed to be interesting conversation. | |
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      Your lucky
 I get the ones that go on and on like a novel Asking advice Tellng me personal things what's up? | |
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      happens all the time.........wait I got one was that said.......what is a sexy looking gal like you doing looking for love on HERE.....
 WTH.....a hello would have been nice FIRST       | |
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      you gotta love the ...
 your hot   why u b single   | |
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      well, a simple hi maybe spark a good conversation or not.
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| well, a simple hi maybe spark a good conversation or not. If someone cannot put a little effort into an email, I will most likely respond with "hi" as well. It isn't very difficult to find SOMETHING more to say in an email. It just takes more effort than saying hi. | |
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| Your lucky I get the ones that go on and on like a novel Asking advice Tellng me personal things what's up? I get other stuff, too. However, "hi" seems to be the most popular.   | |
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| happens all the time.........wait I got one was that said.......what is a sexy looking gal like you doing looking for love on HERE..... WTH.....a hello would have been nice FIRST         | |
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| you gotta love the ... your hot   why u b single   I think the "why are you single?" question must be on the list of typical first questions to ask, as it seems to be a question most guys ask right up front. | |
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      If you really think about what...most people have a hard time talking to people they don't know. I think people find someone they think are attractive and then they try to make a way to get their attention. 
 I think its great when they use their sense of humor...I got a great email yesterday. He was polite and funny, how does that happen?? | |
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      Well. isn't that better than "no mail"?    | |
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| well, a simple hi maybe spark a good conversation or not. If someone cannot put a little effort into an email, I will most likely respond with "hi" as well. It isn't very difficult to find SOMETHING more to say in an email. It just takes more effort than saying hi. | |
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      How can one be shy in an e-mail?
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| well, a simple hi maybe spark a good conversation or not. If someone cannot put a little effort into an email, I will most likely respond with "hi" as well. It isn't very difficult to find SOMETHING more to say in an email. It just takes more effort than saying hi. I don't really get being shy in email. If you're too shy to say much in an email, how are you going to do in person with someone? | |
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      dont know what to shy other than hi.   | |
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| If you really think about what...most people have a hard time talking to people they don't know. I think people find someone they think are attractive and then they try to make a way to get their attention. I think its great when they use their sense of humor...I got a great email yesterday. He was polite and funny, how does that happen?? Lucky you   | |
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      I like it when I take the time to write out a really long detailed profile, and the best they can say to it is, "  " | |
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      playing devil's advocate here lol....maybe they are shy and they don't know what to say.  I know some think it's easier behind a computer...but if they aren't good at starting a conversation in real life, then they don't have experience to use online....just a thought?
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      dont know what to say when their shy,i guess
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| How can one be shy in an e-mail? That's what I'm wondering!! | |
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