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Topic: left brain, right brain......
sweetsimplesassy's photo
Thu 06/11/09 11:45 PM
....no brain or the wrong brain.
Is it possible for a man not to cheat? Not to just steriotype men, I know women do it too, but hang in there...lol I'm a woman so I am going to express how I feel from my point.
Initually the relationship is great, you're all into each other in every way...and it seems that no matter how "good" the relationship is, something changes. Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time? Can a man really truely adore, respect and cherish a woman and only want her and not act on any other impulses when around other beautiful sexy women?
In my heart of hearts I say yes, it is possible or I wouldnt be wasting my time out here, but then I sometimes wonder if it is possible.... maybe "possible" may not be the right word, but does it happen? Do men choose to be faithful no matter what?

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 06/11/09 11:47 PM
Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 06/11/09 11:49 PM

....no brain or the wrong brain.
Is it possible for a man not to cheat? Not to just steriotype men, I know women do it too, but hang in there...lol I'm a woman so I am going to express how I feel from my point.
Initually the relationship is great, you're all into each other in every way...and it seems that no matter how "good" the relationship is, something changes. Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time? Can a man really truely adore, respect and cherish a woman and only want her and not act on any other impulses when around other beautiful sexy women?
In my heart of hearts I say yes, it is possible or I wouldnt be wasting my time out here, but then I sometimes wonder if it is possible.... maybe "possible" may not be the right word, but does it happen? Do men choose to be faithful no matter what?


Here's the deal as I see it.

You find yourself a man who knows who he is, and is comfortable being who he is, you will find a man that isn't gonna go out and cheat.

Unless, of course, there are other issues in the relationship.

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Thu 06/11/09 11:50 PM
Edited by RareEntity on Thu 06/11/09 11:51 PM
im fiercely loyal to my partner whomever she may be, shes the one who proved herself to me and therefore deserves the attention she deserves. having been screwed over in my past, i dont intend on being a cheat

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Thu 06/11/09 11:51 PM

Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 06/11/09 11:52 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Thu 06/11/09 11:52 PM


Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


There are a few like me out there. We are just a rare breed.

No pun intended RE....lol

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Thu 06/11/09 11:52 PM

Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?
yes, it is possible

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Thu 06/11/09 11:52 PM



Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


There are a few like me out there. We are just a rare breed.
truth smokin

JustAGuy2112's photo
Thu 06/11/09 11:54 PM


Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


If you have never met someone like me, it's because you aren't meeting guys who have a real sense of morality when it comes to relationships.

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Thu 06/11/09 11:59 PM
Edited by sweetsimplesassy on Fri 06/12/09 12:00 AM



Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


If you have never met someone like me, it's because you aren't meeting guys who have a real sense of morality when it comes to relationships.


I was married to a man who I "thought" was the one...values, Christian beliefs...ect...okk, We married young, went to school(Collage) he got a preaching degree, was a preacher in a couple churches and still he hid behind that and his family and still was cheating and living a life he wanted. All along for 12 yrs, I stayed faithful( I too have never cheated in any relationship)...Its wrong and I wouldnt disrespect my partner (or my commitement to them) like that nor would i lower myself and disrespect myself to even consider it....

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Fri 06/12/09 12:02 AM



Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


There are a few like me out there. We are just a rare breed.

No pun intended RE....lol
i saw that :wink::laughing:

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Fri 06/12/09 12:03 AM




Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


If you have never met someone like me, it's because you aren't meeting guys who have a real sense of morality when it comes to relationships.


I was married to a man who I "thought" was the one...values, Christian beliefs...ect...okk, We married young, went to school(Collage) he got a preaching degree, was a preacher in a couple churches and still he hid behind that and his family and still was cheating and living a life he wanted. All along for 12 yrs, I stayed faithful( I too have never cheated in any relationship)...Its wrong and I wouldnt disrespect my partner (or my commitement to them) like that nor would i lower myself and disrespect myself to even consider it....
sounds to me he is bit of a hypocrite

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:05 AM





Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


If you have never met someone like me, it's because you aren't meeting guys who have a real sense of morality when it comes to relationships.


I was married to a man who I "thought" was the one...values, Christian beliefs...ect...okk, We married young, went to school(Collage) he got a preaching degree, was a preacher in a couple churches and still he hid behind that and his family and still was cheating and living a life he wanted. All along for 12 yrs, I stayed faithful( I too have never cheated in any relationship)...Its wrong and I wouldnt disrespect my partner (or my commitement to them) like that nor would i lower myself and disrespect myself to even consider it....
sounds to me he is bit of a hypocrite


A bit???

A LOT.


JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:06 AM




Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


If you have never met someone like me, it's because you aren't meeting guys who have a real sense of morality when it comes to relationships.


I was married to a man who I "thought" was the one...values, Christian beliefs...ect...okk, We married young, went to school(Collage) he got a preaching degree, was a preacher in a couple churches and still he hid behind that and his family and still was cheating and living a life he wanted. All along for 12 yrs, I stayed faithful( I too have never cheated in any relationship)...Its wrong and I wouldnt disrespect my partner (or my commitement to them) like that nor would i lower myself and disrespect myself to even consider it....


Again. You were with a man who had no morals. He just hid it well for a while.

It happens to the best of us.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:06 AM
flowerforyou Men can control themselves if they chooseflowerforyou

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Fri 06/12/09 12:07 AM
definitely, it would be worse if he did all this as a cover to a secret gay lifestyle

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:08 AM






Can a man really be faithful to ONE woman and ONE woman only for a life time?


If I could find one that would stick around for that long, yeah.

I have never, EVER, cheated on anyone I was with.


Why havent I met anyone like you then? MAAAAAAN! frustrated


If you have never met someone like me, it's because you aren't meeting guys who have a real sense of morality when it comes to relationships.


I was married to a man who I "thought" was the one...values, Christian beliefs...ect...okk, We married young, went to school(Collage) he got a preaching degree, was a preacher in a couple churches and still he hid behind that and his family and still was cheating and living a life he wanted. All along for 12 yrs, I stayed faithful( I too have never cheated in any relationship)...Its wrong and I wouldnt disrespect my partner (or my commitement to them) like that nor would i lower myself and disrespect myself to even consider it....
sounds to me he is bit of a hypocrite


A bit???

A LOT.




Thats an understatment! Been divorced now over 9 yrs , dated one guy after him and he cheated too...so this was just a question I wanted to throw out there to all you men.

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:09 AM
Edited by sweetsimplesassy on Fri 06/12/09 12:10 AM

definitely, it would be worse if he did all this as a cover to a secret gay lifestyle


OMG! Do you know him! lol...sorry, but ummm yeah..anyways.....frown truth to be known

sweetsimplesassy's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:11 AM

flowerforyou Men can control themselves if they chooseflowerforyou



Sweet! love

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Fri 06/12/09 12:17 AM


flowerforyou Men can control themselves if they chooseflowerforyou



Sweet! love
agreed, it takes self control and respect for your mate to execute solid faithfulness

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