papersmile said she would stab me if I ever screwed around on her

A lot of women say they would do this or that if caught the other cheating.. doesn't always happen that way though.. actually rarely does it...

Ella-

Your profile pic is sooooooooo cute!!!

and women are more forgiving.

I would forgive as I am throwing all his belongings onto the front lawn.

I have forgiven over and over until i could no longer take it

you believe him?

haha the first thing to learn about quiet's posts are that half of them are full of it!




(i'd use a gun )

I think since women are usually the more "loving" partner in a relationship, there more likely to forgive---but not forget. Especially women with low self esteem. Also I think sometimes a woman would rather be with a man even if he cheats on her than be single ( I think its another self esteem thing)

the more forgiving person. though the differences between the sexes are many and wunnaful everything isn't drawn on a gender line.

I would say it depends on the situation....and in my opinion, religion only hampers the relationship. No offense to the religious ones.

The idiot always forgives

Religion has nothing to do with it. They are thinkink with their genatalia. God is the last thing cheaters think about!

potential deja vu?? what the hell does that mean?

Are you saying that women, if forgiven once, will continue to cheat while a man, once busted, will thereafter be loyal?

Better question, who puts themselves in this position in the first place? There shouldn't be a reason this should come up in a relationship, just don't cheat...simple, really.

My fiance cheated on me on a night out, went out on to the dance floor and started making out with another guy. rather than start a scene, i just left, she ended up going home with him. we didn;t speak again for a long time, she got in touch and we talke dit over, she said it was the drinkthat did it, she was very sorry and it would never happen again so after much thought I decided everyone deserves a second chance as no one is perfect. Three moths later she did it again.

I haven't spoken to her since.

I'll forgive if it happens once and they are genuinely sorry. Twice is a pattern that's not going to break.

I just don't know.

dude,seriously... thats not the type of thing that could EVER happen 'on accident'

Did she cry and tell you its all your fault she HAD to go home with him, because you left her there with no ride.. ??? lol

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The person who forgives most...is the person with the most love in their heart!

Religion has nothing to do with forgivness.In my opinion...religion teaches more about fear and punishment if not acting correctly.

I think women are taught from a young age that their role is to be a wife and a mom. Due to that I think we look past stuff easier.

You would think it is that simple... really... some cases it is not so though...

Two things here...

One...because of the fact that you were there with her, and she still had the nerve to make out with some other guy, theres no way you should have given her a second chance. Dude...this was your fiance...not just a girlfriend of the month.

Two...maybe because you didnt cause a scene is the reason she went home with him. Maybe she saw you leave, and thought that if your not willing to stand up for your yourself and whats yours, she saw that as being weak and didnt want to be with you.