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Topic: infidelity
SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:17 PM
Edited by SimplyElla on Thu 06/11/09 04:23 PM
Who tends be more forgiving the cheated husband or cheated wife?

Does religion help keep marriages together?

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:29 PM
The nice guys always forgive....lol.

WolfEyez's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:37 PM

The nice guys always forgive....lol.


So do nice girls. Or I describe them as people afraid to stand up for themselves

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:41 PM
I think women are the ones really... I do...

WolfEyez's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:44 PM
I'd have to agree with Ella. How often do you hear about a man forgiving his girl for that? Not a lot

SunnyMcleod's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:45 PM

I think women are the ones really... I do...

I agree with you. I've witnessed it. He wouldn't let it go. She forgave him.

I think religion makes people stay together for the wrong reasons.

I've been cheated on and honestly, I let it go. I gave him hell, don't think I let it go painlessly, for him at least. But I did it.

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:50 PM
Women tend to forgive more and give out second chances as well..
Men keep that anger and frsitration too bottled up.. plus wont risk looking foolish infront of their guy pals...

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:51 PM


The nice guys always forgive....lol.


So do nice girls. Or I describe them as people afraid to stand up for themselves


I meant the proverbial "nice guy" as in "I'm a nice guy, why dont girls want me?"

But i agree...I think for the most part, females seem to try and salvage a relationship or a marriage more than a male. Sometimes its in vain...and sometimes its worth it.

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:54 PM



The nice guys always forgive....lol.


So do nice girls. Or I describe them as people afraid to stand up for themselves


I meant the proverbial "nice guy" as in "I'm a nice guy, why dont girls want me?"

But i agree...I think for the most part, females seem to try and salvage a relationship or a marriage more than a male. Sometimes its in vain...and sometimes its worth it.


What about you 'Mayhem' ever cheatd and was taken back or got cheated on and took the other back??

Aries151's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:55 PM
Women can tolerate cheating much more than men can. With women they will get just as hurt or even more so if you have an emotional connection with another woman than if you slept with her.

With guys, once you sleep with another man you crossed the line.

Don't ask my why this is, it just is.

WolfEyez's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:56 PM




The nice guys always forgive....lol.


So do nice girls. Or I describe them as people afraid to stand up for themselves


I meant the proverbial "nice guy" as in "I'm a nice guy, why dont girls want me?"

But i agree...I think for the most part, females seem to try and salvage a relationship or a marriage more than a male. Sometimes its in vain...and sometimes its worth it.


What about you 'Mayhem' ever cheatd and was taken back or got cheated on and took the other back??



He's too adorable. How could someone ever cheat on him biggrin

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:57 PM

Women can tolerate cheating much more than men can. With women they will get just as hurt or even more so if you have an emotional connection with another woman than if you slept with her.

With guys, once you sleep with another man you crossed the line.

Don't ask my why this is, it just is.


You got a point there.. and I too don't know why that is but it is that way and its a bullsh*tty kind of way if you ask me...

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:58 PM





The nice guys always forgive....lol.


So do nice girls. Or I describe them as people afraid to stand up for themselves


I meant the proverbial "nice guy" as in "I'm a nice guy, why dont girls want me?"

But i agree...I think for the most part, females seem to try and salvage a relationship or a marriage more than a male. Sometimes its in vain...and sometimes its worth it.


What about you 'Mayhem' ever cheatd and was taken back or got cheated on and took the other back??



He's too adorable. How could someone ever cheat on him biggrin




shocked rofl shocked
You think huh.. you are funnny

Hey though some people cheat on the most adorable mates and what not!

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 06/11/09 04:58 PM
Yes Ive been cheated on....didnt find out till it was over. And I would not forgive her if I had.


And me...Ive just never been caught. Or maybe I never have...lol.

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 05:03 PM

Yes Ive been cheated on....didnt find out till it was over. And I would not forgive her if I had.


And me...Ive just never been caught. Or maybe I never have...lol.




flowerforyou Ouch I wouldn't have thought you would have been cheated on.. then again.. you doing it?? Different story of what I think.. ha ha :tongue:

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 06/11/09 05:05 PM
Well when youget invloved with girls from downtown, you get what you get. She wanted a sugar daddy and i wasnt going to be him. So she found some military prick and got with him.

And no....I'm not doing it. I was just being my typical smart ass self.

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 05:10 PM
I know and as well you should know I was giving it back to you

Mayhem_J's photo
Thu 06/11/09 05:12 PM

I know and as well you should know I was giving it back to you


And thats why you rock!!

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 06/11/09 05:15 PM
Edited by SimplyElla on Thu 06/11/09 05:16 PM


I know and as well you should know I was giving it back to you


And thats why you rock!!

Bow chicka Wow Wowwwwwwwwww.. you know it baby!! :banana:

no photo
Thu 06/11/09 05:22 PM

Women tend to forgive more and give out second chances as well..
Men keep that anger and frsitration too bottled up.. plus wont risk looking foolish infront of their guy pals...
the latter i done care much on, guys are less likely to forgive because of potential deja vu

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