Why is it that a person always say that they are looking for a good guy/or woman they always go for the ones that are so wrong for them and are considered a bad boy/girl and but yet they complain about that they can nvr find a good person to be with. Just something to think about when searching maybe people should do more soul searching as to what they reall want and be true to their selfs. If it feels wrong then it is. I'm all for giving people a chance but when my gut tells me whoa there buddy there's something not right about this I listen.

so we should just be with any old good guy/girl......forget about chemistry and compatibility?>

In which case......I will take 1 millionaire and a side order of cabana boys

unfortunately bad boys are sexy

Heck I want one with a little bit of bad a little bit of good mixed together shshsh guess that is my problem there are none that are in between. No wonder I'm still single shshsh I knew there had to be a reason

I found one in between... Pfffffffffffft!

Is this another nice guy thread?

oh ffs PAHLEEZE NO!!!!!

When a person says they are looking for someone "good", this means good for them. Not good in general. There is no good in general.

Simply put, people tolerate people who aren't "good" for a variety of generalized reasons. They are desperate and don't want to be alone, they have low self worth and don't think they deserve better, or they are dumb. Or any and/or all three.

I'm looking for a good guy who's a bad boy.