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Topic: Is it wrong to want to have sex with your 2nd cousin?
Smileyange's photo
Tue 06/09/09 10:51 PM
I think I am right in believing the way I do but need some one else's opinion.... please guide me through this..

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/09/09 10:53 PM
it would make family gatherings uncomfortable

no photo
Tue 06/09/09 10:55 PM
Some states allow for relationships with second-cousins. In fact, Franklin D. Roosevelt and his wife Eleanor were second cousins when they married, or at least that's what I was told.

However, having relations with cousins of any sort is usually discouraged for any number of reasons.

misstina2's photo
Tue 06/09/09 10:55 PM
flowerforyou yes I think it probaly should not be something you think about or doflowerforyou There are many men in this world you can find someone outside your family to be involved withflowerforyou

Smileyange's photo
Tue 06/09/09 10:57 PM
i am not wanting this.. the man I have been sleeping with the last year has all of the sudden reconnected with his 2nd cousin and is exploring his feeling and hers.. I feel it is not ok but I just need reassurance

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/09/09 10:59 PM

i am not wanting this.. the man I have been sleeping with the last year has all of the sudden reconnected with his 2nd cousin and is exploring his feeling and hers.. I feel it is not ok but I just need reassurance



trust what you believe. I found out later (after breaking up with an ex) that he has sex with a 2nd cousin. it didn't go over well with the family

misstina2's photo
Tue 06/09/09 10:59 PM
flowerforyou so the man you are seeing has feelings for his 2nd cousin?flowerforyou

Smileyange's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:01 PM
He has confessed that he has always had a crush on her since he was 16 and yes.. they live in different states but admitted to me that they have been flirting and want to plan a get a way together this summer..

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:09 PM
Not good.

misstina2's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:10 PM
flowerforyou I'd end the relationship.He's expressed feelings for another womanflowerforyou I'd stop wasting my time with a man that didn't want to commit.If he's wanting to explore his feelings for another woman he must not be committed to youflowerforyou

Smileyange's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:12 PM
We are suppose to be friends with benefits and that hasnt worked in our favor cuz its more but still no commitment.. and the other woman I would be ok with but HIS COUSIN!!!!

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:13 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Tue 06/09/09 11:14 PM
My cousins (step) had crushes on me when we were younger but that is just not right even worse with real blood cousins.. Of course that's how royalty used to keep the blood pure... People used to believe in the cousin thing but I think that went away with well mental, physical and biological issues in the offspring...

oh and did I mention "fricken ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww"ill

Smileyange's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:16 PM
Exactly and he was raised in a very very religious family.. I said to him are you gonna ever be able to tell your brother bout this and he agreed NOOOOOO!!! WTF!!??

misstina2's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:16 PM
Edited by misstina2 on Tue 06/09/09 11:17 PM
flowerforyou it's more but no committment?I'm a little scared of diseases i wouldn't be chancing it with people having multiple partners but hey that's just meflowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:18 PM
He's thinking with the little head.. People do that sometimes, it's just stupid but then again he doesn't sound too bright... No offense...


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Tue 06/09/09 11:19 PM
Well... it's like the saying goes in the South...

"Nothin' spells lovin' like marryin' yer cousin!" :laughing:

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:19 PM

Well... it's like the saying goes in the South...

"Nothin' spells lovin' like marryin' yer cousin!" :laughing:


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh soooooooooo bad!

Smileyange's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:21 PM
A.. he hasnt slept with anyone else in 1 year.. cause we have been unfortunatley (whatever) unemployed and spend every freaking waking hour together and B. I agree.. the thing is they live so far away and I asked him to make a choice me or flirting and possibilites with her..

TexasScoundrel's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:22 PM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Tue 06/09/09 11:24 PM
Genetically speaking there is no reason not to breed with even a first cousin. For thousands of years humans didn't have any other options. We lived on groups of only about 50 people. Everyone was related.

The practice of not allowing cousins to marry was an attempt by the church to stop the ruling calsses from consolidating wealth.

Queene123's photo
Tue 06/09/09 11:22 PM
a old bf of mine his step dad was his uncle

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