i was 9 yrs older than my x wife and we were together ,dating and married, nearly 20 yrs...so whatever youre comfortable with

I just talk to any woman I think is interesting/attractive and see where it goes. For some reason women close to my age don't like me. So, I tend to date women in their 20s most of the time. But, I have dated women as young as 18.

It's my feeling that women choose the men they want to date. Al a man can do is present himself for her approval. I can't see any reason not to date women half my age when they are wiling and women my own age don't want to date me. I guess I have more in common with the young ones, political views and such. I'm much more liberal than most people my age in my area.

So, date whoever you want. It's no one elses buisness.

I am gonna be 40 here in a couple of months.

I would like to find someone younger than I am or right near my age.

10+ years older just doesn't do it for me.

Of course, that is negotiable depending on the woman.