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talk to a stranger without making it feel like an interrogation or job interview, especially online?
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Find something in common with them to chat about, rather than asking a list of questions.
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Let me finish this dom/sub i-m and i'll let ya know.
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 start as friends you have to ask questions in order to find out what they like,their goals their wants and needs two people either have a good conversation flow or not you can always tell if a person is interested by how much they write,a few words probaly not interested
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babbling works for me....they either think I'm off my meds, escaped from a hospital or join in
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I'm iterragating someone right now...
Only way I'm going to get to know him. 
They way I see it- if they don't like it, they must be hiding something. 
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Just let the conversation happen. I don't like to ask alot of questions one right after another. It's not a good way for me to really see who they are as a person.
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 post in a "fork and dork"? be seeing you
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youve got to show your interests and if people want theyl talk to you
theres alot of people out there and a few knock backs dont matter,if theyre rude then its there prob not yours tot. and in person youve got to show those teeth, a smile is a realy underestimated tool mate. makes you aprochable, |
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my mom taught me to never talk to strangers
and run yelling real loud "STRANGER DANGER!!!!" |
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youve got to show your interests and if people want theyl talk to you theres alot of people out there and a few knock backs dont matter,if theyre rude then its there prob not yours tot. and in person youve got to show those teeth, a smile is a realy underestimated tool mate. makes you aprochable, I smile alot in real life. I used to work at a grocery store, so I had to have that friendly face all the time. Now, I do it without even realizing I'm doing, just out of habbit. I'll smile and say hi to strangers, or smile and nod my head. The thing is, I'm starting to realize I'm not too good with communcation. |
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Edited by
cottonelle
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Sun 06/07/09 02:14 PM
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just send out e-mails saying "your hot! wanna clean the lint from my belly button?"
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just send out e-mails saying "your hot! wanna clean the lint from my belly button?" That's what I do, but then thy responde, and I'm stuck there like, uuummm.... |
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totage...just be yourself. say hi, how are you and see where that goes then say more
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A friendly game of 20 questions (or 10 at a time might be less daunting) is a good way to break the ice and make it feel not so forced. Just explain it's a great way to get to know each other. Start with some lighter more general questions and work your way up to the deeper stuff. That way, they get to ask you questions as well. I haven't come across anybody yet that isn't up for it. There's always a disclaimer that you don't have to answer any question you feel too personal.
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totage...just be yourself. say hi, how are you and see where that goes then say more
That's the problem, I am being myself. 
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Find something in common with them to chat about, rather than asking a list of questions. Sound advice
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In a one on one conversation (typed or spoken) I always ask alot of questions, by my questions the other person gets to know a little about how my mind ticks, then when there's common ground easy conversation will just naturally flow.
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In a one on one conversation (typed or spoken) I always ask alot of questions, by my questions the other person gets to know a little about how my mind ticks, then when there's common ground easy conversation will just naturally flow. I got the asking questions part. It's the finding common ground to build a conversation part I'm not getting. |
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