Hi there,

I just started this site yesterday...I was a little reluctant to do so but I have been too depressed over my divorce process and I just want to get out of this funk and move on already....I know I still need time to heal...which is why I am only looking for friendship at the moment. I am slowly falling out of love with my ex and I really just want someone who can just help to have fun and enjoy life and basically to forget about my ex completely.

Its a really tough situation I am in and I actually regret marrying him eventhough I love him... He just never treated me like his wife...sometimes not even as a friend...:\

But atleast he never physically abused me..so i guess i can give him a little credit...^^; (a sad attempt and turning my situation into a joke)

So anyways, I would love for someone to help me break free completely and move on...and maybe in time I might be able to fall in love again...its just I don't want to do that since its too soon for me right now.

if any of you have advice for me aswell I would greatly appreciate it. ^^ I love to talk to people and get to know others too. I really want to continue to be myself and not get depressed over all this divorce stuff...

Take care and much love! ^^

~Esme

Good luck and welcome to the site

^^ thank you ver much jt... *takes flower*

welcome to the site. join in the forums and get to know people

hello and welcome

WeLcOmE & G'lUcK!

Welcome there are a lot of good people here..Enjoy

Hola Esme...if you are going through a divorce, i would highly suggest that you not come back for a while. Its going to make you want to miss your husband more. I would especially stay away if the divorce is not finalized, as there is a chance for reconciliation.

I dont know. Maybe i've got it wrong. What do you think your ex is doing to get over it?

he doesn't care.... its completely over...he just used me for papers.. :\

so i wouldn't worry about reconciliation

The most powerful thing you have esme is your mind. You will have to use all your strengths to get over this obstacle and not hold it against yourself. It takes time. Be known not all men are so. You most likely find a man that will worship your body, respect you as a person, and bring you into their life.

Welcome to site and enjoy your stay
Alot of us have been WHERE you are now so ... relax and be yourself ...

WELCOME
LIFE HAS ITS ROUGH PATCHES, GOOD LUCK

Welcome!! Sorry to hear about your divorce. Never fun!! Hope you find this site to be a respite.

be seeing you

WELCOME AND GOOD LUCK

welcome,im divorced to maybe we should talk.

welcome here.... i think you are taking correct steps <in my eyes anyway>i wish you luck on finding lots of friends on here... i know i have and i think you do need to remember the good, there had to be some or you would not of married him... take the good forget the bad.. and in the future take the good you learned and liked about him and look for that in a new relationship with the thoughts of learning more good things....again good luck

Good luck