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you just told her what you were looking for and needed. And that it's something she can't offer you right now... soooo you'll maybe try again in the future.
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OK I'm really leaving you now So you think I did it as a threat? lol Not me... 
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Just wonder if I was too hastily to decide that she was bad news . Rather then give her a chance to open up. You assumed she was bad news because she didn't open up to you? Patience is truly lost anymore, not a wonder the divorce rate is so high... |
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Lol ok Bye
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So I wonder what i should say to her now . I already expressed myself. I wanted more from her. I told her to call when she could offer more. I guess I can still call her to ask her out though I guess.
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Good luck.
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 Becuz Nice Guys always get dumped on
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I do kinda think I am trying to rush it . I guess no one knows the person they just meet to decide on a relationship.But to hear I don't want a serious relationship is diffrent I think. Could be wrong A lot of people have said those words. A lot of people change their minds when the right person comes along. If you think she is worth the wait, be patient. |
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So I wonder what i should say to her now . I already expressed myself. I wanted more from her. I told her to call when she could offer more. I guess I can still call her to ask her out though I guess.  You should keep calling her and asking her out even after she says no
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Edited by
romancingu
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Tue 06/02/09 08:58 PM
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well considering I basically just told her I didnt want to see her because of it. I think I might be up s-creek without a paddle now.I would not even know what to say now.
You know now I think about it. I think I was more scared about hearing that she didn't want a relationship .In fear that i would get hurt in the long run. |
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Well, you could give it a few weeks. Go back and say you've missed her and would like to see her, if that is what you want still. Tell her, that you think she's too important to let go of and see where it goes.
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I am just curious...as to why when someone is hurt they never open up again. Why is it that we can't see everyone is not that same person that ripped our heart out. I consider myself a very nice guy who is just looking for some one to spend the rest of my days with. Every time I meet someone new they always have issues with a serious relationship. I know that this is something that is worked in as you go through getting to know someone . But, how do you deal with it when they aren't willing to open up to you.They say time heals everything but, come on we are not getting any younger. So my question is ...How do you deal with someone who isn't ready for serious relationship, But , wants to see you in a romantic way? 
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maybe she is not really into you, and is trying to be nice? It's destructive to pursue someone who does not feel the same... toughen up and move on man... she knows how you feel, the ball is in her court... accept it....
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I am just curious...as to why when someone is hurt they never open up again. Why is it that we can't see everyone is not that same person that ripped our heart out. I consider myself a very nice guy who is just looking for some one to spend the rest of my days with. Every time I meet someone new they always have issues with a serious relationship. I know that this is something that is worked in as you go through getting to know someone . But, how do you deal with it when they aren't willing to open up to you.They say time heals everything but, come on we are not getting any younger. So my question is ...How do you deal with someone who isn't ready for serious relationship, But , wants to see you in a romantic way? |
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oh my a man with morals....do you have a brother luv.....
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well considering I basically just told her I didnt want to see her because of it. I think I might be up s-creek without a paddle now.I would not even know what to say now. You know now I think about it. I think I was more scared about hearing that she didn't want a relationship .In fear that i would get hurt in the long run. This is what happens when others jump the gun. To me if you really like someone just because at first they say they do not want a serious relationship but still want to date or see you. All they are saying is that they want to be with you but time will tell if they will in fact be able to put their heart into it. Shshshs if every man or woman ran because the other was not ready to fall head over heels with them but willing to give it a try ran. Who in the heck would be in a relationship. No one is ready to make a full commitment right from start. Those feelings at times take time due to past hurt and mistrust. It is something that two people must build together. |
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Edited by
YouAndImake1
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Wed 06/03/09 09:51 AM
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I am just curious...as to why when someone is hurt they never open up again. Some just take a while, some are ready to jump on the bull again and some never recover,,, Why is it that we can't see everyone is not that same person that ripped our heart out. I think you're making a generalization that really doesn't apply to a lot of people,,, I am one of them I consider myself a very nice guy who is just looking for some one to spend the rest of my days with. Every time I meet someone new they always have issues with a serious relationship. Always? If this is true, you need to fine tune your skills in searching,,, I know that this is something that is worked in as you go through getting to know someone . But, how do you deal with it when they aren't willing to open up to you. You either give it time or don't bother,,, In my case, if they are dead set on not opening up, I wouldn't waste my time,,, They say time heals everything but, come on we are not getting any younger. So my question is ...How do you deal with someone who isn't ready for serious relationship, But , wants to see you in a romantic way? Look, you either take it on their terms or not at all,,, a relationship, whether it is platonic, looking for love or in love is a two way proposal,,, it can not be one sided or it's doomed to failure or dishonesty,,, |
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