I agree, jealous and insecure women will make observations/comments when feeling inferior. Sad really, we women need to stick together and not be biotches to each other. I find men are attracted to confident women.

Being needy!

Interesting. What is too much communication???

just a joke.

Though I suppose that I have encountered a couple instances where women have forgotten that guys can't take hints. We've got to have things spelled out so that messages are taken correctly. I suppose guys are the simple ones in that case

Ummmm......thinking we need a man instead of wanting one? *ducking for cover*

After getting to know a chick for quite some time, I can tell if she is lying or not. You have to study the signs man. The signs- they are all different and peculiar, but they are nevertheless signs.

Dating a guy just because she doesn't want to be alone, rather than taking the time to find someone she truly cares about and is compatible with.

Did you mean that you prefer to take the "time" to find someone you will later care about; or something of taking the time to see if you will care enough about the guy and then later find yourself being compatible to him instead of some women seeking out men because they don't want to be alone?

A lot of girls seem to make the mistake of getting into a relationship with a guy simply to avoid being alone, or to be able to say that they have someone, despite not truly caring for him or being all that compatible with him. Settling on the guy just to have the relationship. I personally prefer to make sure I really like the guy and can see us lasting long term before become exclusive with him. Doesn't mean it will end up being long term, but at least has the potential to be based on our compatibility. Thinking he's just okay isn't enough for me, but it seems that a lot of girls think it is in the beginning and then regret it later.

Thank you for your thoughts about the matter. :) To me, and I can probably be right in most cases, that most of us here have either done a lot of things which had led us in here in this dating website. I hate to confess that it is the result of poorly executed trial & error process, which in my case, is something I have been doing all of my adult life. So now I think it would be wise to take the precaution of understanding and taking my time with someone who I am dating first before jumping in bed with her and then later finding out that I was going too fast into something which I pretty much already got my so-called proverbial "one foot outside the door."