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| Topic: Ok. So you have been in a relationship... | |
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are the pictures causing issues for you? Not anymore...lol It wasn't really that big of an issue for me in the first place. I had MORE of an issue with the way she reacted when I asked her why she kept them. |
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Ok Guy this piece meal thing isn't working for me hun... WHAT was her reaction?
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Ok Guy this piece meal thing isn't working for me hun... WHAT was her reaction? Oh. Sorry.  She basically told me to mind my own f**king business. |
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Wow a little defensive.. Well how long have you been seeing one another?
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Tue 05/26/09 12:34 AM
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Wow a little defensive.. Well how long have you been seeing one another? Let's see here. We had split up for about 3 years...we had been back together for about 9 months at that point. Prior to the split, we had been together for a little over two years. |
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Anyway...I just thought I would throw this subject to the wolves tonight and see what happened...lol
I gotta work tomorrow so I am off to bed. ;-) |
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well it's hard to say.. but there was something there.. You don't keep pics unless there was something.. Mind you by that point it could have been gone and it was a fond memory but the "mind your own f'ing business" seems a bit harsh, I'd think there was a flame still burning a bit... Not saying a lot but maybe with the history of the two of you she wasn't sure if it would work so she held onto that just in case...
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well it's hard to say.. but there was something there.. You don't keep pics unless there was something.. Mind you by that point it could have been gone and it was a fond memory but the "mind your own f'ing business" seems a bit harsh, I'd think there was a flame still burning a bit... Not saying a lot but maybe with the history of the two of you she wasn't sure if it would work so she held onto that just in case... Ya know....considering that her and I pretty much wound up being an " oil and water " type of deal most of the time....I don't doubt that at all. |
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It does happen. I don't have any of those types of pics but I have kept some just b/c they were special to me and to throw the pics away would be like throwing away the great times we shared...
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It does happen. I don't have any of those types of pics but I have kept some just b/c they were special to me and to throw the pics away would be like throwing away the great times we shared... That I can completely understand. Had she said something to that effect...no big deal. Her reaction, however, was much more defensive than it should have been if that were the case. |
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Yes to me that would say there was still a burning flame no matter how small...
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Yes to me that would say there was still a burning flame no matter how small... I found out later that the flame was actually quite the inferno. : shrugs : |
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I'm sorry this happened to you. But if she was looking at old photos etc of old flames, you don't need that. You don't want that. I know it must have been difficult. But focus on somebody that is ALL about YOU.
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I'm sorry this happened to you. But if she was looking at old photos etc of old flames, you don't need that. You don't want that. I know it must have been difficult. But focus on somebody that is ALL about YOU. Yup. |
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So what
Do pics with him too! |
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depends...hell i'd wanna see the pics and then make some with him myself....like above person stated (gossipmpm)
 
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Ok Guy this piece meal thing isn't working for me hun... WHAT was her reaction? Oh. Sorry. She basically told me to mind my own f**king business. Is she into kink, by any chance? Some people are very proud of their accomplishments if it is something that pushes previously rigid limits, and want to chronicle it. Still I can see how someone who was a bit insecure might be uncomfortable if they were displayed openly. Did you tell her it made you feel uncomfortable or like you had to prove something, measure up, etc? Maybe she didn't realize. Or, was she just insensitive? |
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It does happen. I don't have any of those types of pics but I have kept some just b/c they were special to me and to throw the pics away would be like throwing away the great times we shared... Good point; kind of what I meant. |
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It does happen. I don't have any of those types of pics but I have kept some just b/c they were special to me and to throw the pics away would be like throwing away the great times we shared... That I can completely understand. Had she said something to that effect...no big deal. Her reaction, however, was much more defensive than it should have been if that were the case. What exactly was your reaction? Were you upset with her? Did you tell her you wanted her to get rid of the pictures? Do you have any old pictures of your own (doesn't have to be naked pictures) that you hold onto ? Would you expect someone to get rid of all pictures of their ex? |
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Edited by
JustAGuy2112
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Tue 05/26/09 09:06 PM
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Ok Guy this piece meal thing isn't working for me hun... WHAT was her reaction? Oh. Sorry. She basically told me to mind my own f**king business. Is she into kink, by any chance? Some people are very proud of their accomplishments if it is something that pushes previously rigid limits, and want to chronicle it. Still I can see how someone who was a bit insecure might be uncomfortable if they were displayed openly. Did you tell her it made you feel uncomfortable or like you had to prove something, measure up, etc? Maybe she didn't realize. Or, was she just insensitive? According to her, I never had much problem " measuring up "...go with her just being insensitive. I wasn't insecure about it. I was just curious as to why she had them after the things she had told me about him. I have a very curious nature. |
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