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Topic: What do I do?
Balky2k9 Joined Fri 05/22/09 Posts: 7	Fri 05/22/09 12:43 AM
My girlfriend is thinking of going back home to Honduras in Central America while I live in California... I've fallen in love with this girl and she says she loves me too. She misses her family and home since she does live there. We met back in Dec, started dating in Jan. and she left until coming back in March. I do tell her that I love her, I tell her that I want her to stay and gave her a list of 20 reasons why to stay, I'm willing to marry her so she can stay legally but she misses her family what can I do? if she goes back home i might never see her again cause of immigration BS

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Fri 05/22/09 01:43 AM
think very carefully,...

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Fri 05/22/09 01:47 AM
think very carefully,... Or do what the majority of people do and don't think at all and jump into the pit of flames.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 05/22/09 10:04 AM
If the two of you really love each other, you'll find a way. Love always does. Good luck

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Fri 05/22/09 10:12 AM
Lie to her and tell her that you will help her bring her family over and it would be a better opportunity for all of them

4x4guy Joined Tue 03/24/09 Posts: 185	Fri 05/22/09 10:15 AM
if you love her never lie but definatly look into that i would

Phuque Joined Mon 11/17/08 Posts: 14151	Fri 05/22/09 10:20 AM
Lie to her and tell her that you will help her bring her family over and it would be a better opportunity for all of them Yep! I was figuring he might have to ship the whole crew over... But seriously... If she's into you, then she's gonna have to grow up & realize that you are the one she wants to spend her life with...if not, send her home to Mama...

4x4guy Joined Tue 03/24/09 Posts: 185	Fri 05/22/09 10:21 AM
if you love her let her go. if she comes back... well ya know

The1WhoLuvsU Joined Sun 07/20/08 Posts: 270	Fri 05/22/09 10:23 AM
Maybe she is just using that as as excuse to leave.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Fri 05/22/09 10:23 AM
and you're on a dating site because???

pinmenow Joined Thu 05/07/09 Posts: 7	Fri 05/22/09 10:37 AM
Lie to her and tell her that you will help her bring her family over and it would be a better opportunity for all of them NEVER LIE TO HER......DUH

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Fri 05/22/09 10:41 AM
Lie to her and tell her that you will help her bring her family over and it would be a better opportunity for all of them NEVER LIE TO HER......DUH Ok, how is this: promise her something you know you can never deliver? Or how about No, your a$$ does not look big or you are as beautiful and I love you as much as the day we met?

Aries151 Joined Fri 02/20/09 Posts: 1077	Fri 05/22/09 05:15 PM
My girlfriend is thinking of going back home to Honduras in Central America while I live in California... I've fallen in love with this girl and she says she loves me too. She misses her family and home since she does live there. We met back in Dec, started dating in Jan. and she left until coming back in March. I do tell her that I love her, I tell her that I want her to stay and gave her a list of 20 reasons why to stay, I'm willing to marry her so she can stay legally but she misses her family what can I do? if she goes back home i might never see her again cause of immigration BS She sounds pretty young if she's still missing her family that much. Latin families tend to all live with each other in the same house for a long time so she was probably around everyone all the time and got used to it (my ex's family was similar). I'm not sure what the family living situation there in Honduras is like but if they have a computer / internet then perhaps you can buy them a webcam so she can see / talk to her family whenever she wants while still living there with you. Not sure if that will work but just a suggestion off the top of my head.