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Topic: How many "Chances" are you.....
hereformore's photo
Mon 05/18/09 06:48 PM
You'll know when you get to that point. There will be no question in your mind that it is time to move on. For me it took almost twenty years. Divorce is final soon...can I hear an Amen!

no photo
Mon 05/18/09 07:02 PM
Oh about as many as I would like to get.

Jeeeze, lets cut each other some slack.

galendgirl's photo
Mon 05/18/09 07:05 PM
I guess it depends on what we are asked to forgive (abuse or etc probably requires ripping the bandage off immediately) but for MOST things, I have to agree...get a little less judgemental and cut your partner some slack!

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 05/18/09 07:09 PM
It all depends on what was done. Sometimes people don't deserve a 2nd chance.

noway noway noway noway

TJN's photo
Mon 05/18/09 07:14 PM

It takes three licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop so I would say three.:wink:

Thats not true it takes 157.

GG2's photo
Tue 05/19/09 07:20 PM


It takes three licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop so I would say three.:wink:

Thats not true it takes 157.


Did you really count?

no photo
Tue 05/19/09 07:45 PM
Depends on what lines were crossed.

s1owhand's photo
Tue 05/19/09 07:49 PM
"If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. No use making a dam fool out of yourself."

-W.C. Fields

Jess642's photo
Tue 05/19/09 08:39 PM
Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance.

Infidelity? Not a big issue.

Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed...

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Wed 05/20/09 11:11 AM


Supposed to give a person; before you say no more!


I give them ONE chance- if they show me ANY disrespect, or insult me in any way, they're out.


Yup, that and attempting to insult your intelligence...

no photo
Wed 05/20/09 11:13 AM

Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance.

Infidelity? Not a big issue.

Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed...


LOL,,, I wonder how many emails and flirts you'll get on this one,,,
I don't care if you cheat but if you don't take out the trash like you said we would,,, we have a problem here...

rofl

Jess642's photo
Wed 05/20/09 04:55 PM


Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance.

Infidelity? Not a big issue.

Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed...


LOL,,, I wonder how many emails and flirts you'll get on this one,,,
I don't care if you cheat but if you don't take out the trash like you said we would,,, we have a problem here...

rofl


emails...none.

cheating.....is not an issue.

NOT taking out the rubbish?...UNFORGIVABLE!

grumble :wink: laugh

vortecpowered's photo
Thu 05/21/09 12:29 AM

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i agree. there have been many great versions of that engine.

brenlee1965's photo
Thu 05/21/09 06:52 PM



It takes three licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop so I would say three.:wink:

Thats not true it takes 157.


Did you really count?


Sounds like someone had some time on their hands,,,,,heehee! I do NOT have the patience for that! Plus I don't like any hard candy....can't stand that sugar on my teeth.....YUK!

PetitePrettyLady's photo
Thu 05/21/09 07:49 PM
I don't pick on little things, and I'm very understanding. When it comes to being selfish in a way that hurts me, or a lack of respect, it's 3 strikes your out. I love softball!!

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 05/21/09 07:54 PM

one, thats all you get with me. one!


If the shoe was on the other foot?

The1WhoLuvsU's photo
Thu 05/21/09 08:01 PM
I am willing to give someone 2 chances.

papersmile's photo
Fri 05/22/09 03:15 AM

Supposed to give a person; before you say no more!

It takes me a LONG time before I shut the door on a friendship and/or a relationship, regardless of the reasons, providing that person was a close part of my life.

However, once the door is shut, it's sealed.

no photo
Fri 05/22/09 03:29 AM
I agree with papersmile. If I have the time and emotion invested and genuinely enjoy the relationship and personality of the person, I can't walk away just like that. We're human and have faults and hopefully grow and learn from the mistakes we make. I'm not that unforgiving. Once I make up my mind it's over, it is indeed over.

hereformore's photo
Fri 05/22/09 03:38 AM

Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance.

Infidelity? Not a big issue.

Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed...
If we are talking about infidelity in a marriage,to me, that is a breach of contract. Deal breaker. Besides, having the person you love betray you by cheating does do mental damage....

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