Topic: How many "Chances" are you..... | |
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You'll know when you get to that point. There will be no question in your mind that it is time to move on. For me it took almost twenty years. Divorce is final soon...can I hear an Amen!
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Oh about as many as I would like to get.
Jeeeze, lets cut each other some slack. |
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I guess it depends on what we are asked to forgive (abuse or etc probably requires ripping the bandage off immediately) but for MOST things, I have to agree...get a little less judgemental and cut your partner some slack!
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It all depends on what was done. Sometimes people don't deserve a 2nd chance.
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It takes three licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop so I would say three. ![]() Thats not true it takes 157. |
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It takes three licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop so I would say three. ![]() Thats not true it takes 157. Did you really count? |
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Depends on what lines were crossed.
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"If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Then quit. No use making a dam fool out of yourself."
-W.C. Fields |
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Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance.
Infidelity? Not a big issue. Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed... |
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Supposed to give a person; before you say no more! I give them ONE chance- if they show me ANY disrespect, or insult me in any way, they're out. Yup, that and attempting to insult your intelligence... |
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Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance. Infidelity? Not a big issue. Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed... LOL,,, I wonder how many emails and flirts you'll get on this one,,, I don't care if you cheat but if you don't take out the trash like you said we would,,, we have a problem here... ![]() |
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Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance. Infidelity? Not a big issue. Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed... LOL,,, I wonder how many emails and flirts you'll get on this one,,, I don't care if you cheat but if you don't take out the trash like you said we would,,, we have a problem here... ![]() emails...none. cheating.....is not an issue. NOT taking out the rubbish?...UNFORGIVABLE! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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454 i agree. there have been many great versions of that engine. |
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It takes three licks to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop so I would say three. ![]() Thats not true it takes 157. Did you really count? Sounds like someone had some time on their hands,,,,,heehee! I do NOT have the patience for that! Plus I don't like any hard candy....can't stand that sugar on my teeth.....YUK! |
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I don't pick on little things, and I'm very understanding. When it comes to being selfish in a way that hurts me, or a lack of respect, it's 3 strikes your out. I love softball!!
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one, thats all you get with me. one! If the shoe was on the other foot? |
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I am willing to give someone 2 chances.
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Supposed to give a person; before you say no more! It takes me a LONG time before I shut the door on a friendship and/or a relationship, regardless of the reasons, providing that person was a close part of my life. However, once the door is shut, it's sealed. |
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I agree with papersmile. If I have the time and emotion invested and genuinely enjoy the relationship and personality of the person, I can't walk away just like that. We're human and have faults and hopefully grow and learn from the mistakes we make. I'm not that unforgiving. Once I make up my mind it's over, it is indeed over.
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Personal safety...either physical or mental? One chance. Infidelity? Not a big issue. Breach of (verbal)contract/agreement/trust.... to be discussed... |
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