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Topic: tired of being alone...
Amylorena's photo
Tue 05/19/09 04:19 PM
good answer!!!

TJN's photo
Tue 05/19/09 04:23 PM
I think we all know how you are feeling, and have been there or are still there. I have a big sledge hammer you can use if you decide to start nocking them down.flowerforyou

Want2B5ft's photo
Wed 05/20/09 10:08 PM

I think we are all somewhat tired of being alone, or we wouldn't be here.

Yeah, walls are built up, sealed over and left to protect us. But I think you have to get to a certain point where you realize you have to start slowly etching away at those walls to let yourself breathe. Maybe even climb a little to peek over and see that the coast is clear.

Once you get a few breaths of that fresh air, it makes you want to work a little harder to see what's outside those walls. So, the walls come down a little more until you can see over them without climbing.

Eventually, you get to that point were you can wander around without the safety of those walls, but they are still there enough to let you duck back in if you get scared. You just have to be careful not to start building those walls again from the debris.

When you are ready to make those choices, you are ready... only you can decide when it is time. Don't be afraid... come out and enjoy the sunshine. flowerforyou


Well said!
flowerforyou :thumbsup: flowerforyou

longislandangel's photo
Wed 05/20/09 10:10 PM
The_Pete_Man

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Wed 05/20/09 10:10 PM
Walls eventually crumble

built walls too high to climb out..

Dro_In_Indio's photo
Wed 05/20/09 10:18 PM

I got use to it.


I never get use to it.

What sux is I am alone every minute of the day and no matter who I am around, I am alone. There is only one person that takes it away, but I don't know where things are with her.

Walls can always be broken down and sometimes I feel like mine are. Other times they are so confining that I simply can't breath.

Good Luck Moonlight. You are really not alone in your thoughts.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 05/20/09 10:20 PM
i heard Micheal Vick was getting outta jail smokin

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 05/20/09 10:21 PM
I'm far better off alone, I can only screw one person up that way.smokin

mysmedic67's photo
Thu 05/21/09 07:28 PM
The walls we build can protect us, or imprison us, It is up to us, there are reasons and seasons to protect ourselves, the trick is learning when to use the solitude to learn about ourselves and learn to love that person, then pull a brick out and let a soul or two in,
if they are not worthy of us, they will move on, and so will we.
Our walls can surround a secret garden full of love, promise and hope. Or the walls can seperate you from life, love and possibilities! It is all up to us! we have to be willing to open up and experience all the good and the bad, because if we hide so we dont get hurt, we are also hiding from the potential of finding that love. So remember,,, we have to decide how unhappy are we willing to be.!!flowerforyou flowerforyou

TxsSun's photo
Thu 05/21/09 07:30 PM

The walls we build can protect us, or imprison us, It is up to us, there are reasons and seasons to protect ourselves, the trick is learning when to use the solitude to learn about ourselves and learn to love that person, then pull a brick out and let a soul or two in,
if they are not worthy of us, they will move on, and so will we.
Our walls can surround a secret garden full of love, promise and hope. Or the walls can seperate you from life, love and possibilities! It is all up to us! we have to be willing to open up and experience all the good and the bad, because if we hide so we dont get hurt, we are also hiding from the potential of finding that love. So remember,,, we have to decide how unhappy are we willing to be.!!flowerforyou flowerforyou



Very well said

GG2's photo
Thu 05/21/09 07:30 PM

I hope that you left a window in your wall so when that someone comes along they can see your attracive smile.blushing blushing



I know, isn't she pretty? :thumbsup:

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Thu 05/21/09 07:52 PM
Yes, walls are built for a reason.
Yes, it is for protection.
Only we can take them down.
Only we know when the time is right.
Yes, when we feel safe.
Yes, when we trust our judgement.


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