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My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do! Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!  Ya might want to check the back of your clothing for that string he keeps yanking you around with. |
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You say that ya'll talk everyday he says he misses you but not in-love with you. Then you say you still have feelings for him so could it be that you could be hoping there is still something there as well.
As some have said it is up to you what to do not what others tell you honestly went through a similar situation myself. Finally even agreed to meet up with him for a weekend for yeah I still had feelings for him. I needed that closer but had to make sure if anything was really there. Well actually we had a great weekend together that was almost 2 years ago. But I realized that what I thought was still there was not any longer we still talked as friends after that for a while but we have not talked in a while now. I realized that it was not meant to be and realized it was time to move on which I did and sure he did as well. So do what ever will bring you the closer to move on but remember that he did say he did not love you any more at least the guy I did go back and meet did say he still loved me but he just did not want the full commitment of a relationship. To me all he is saying is he wants to get some and nothing more. |
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You guys are always so helpful & honest!
THANKS EVERYONE! 
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He is playing head games with you...he doesn't want you, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you...move on, distant yourself, and find you a real guy that does want to be with you and is caring and open.
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Move on, this person is just trying to control your emotions to the point that you can't move forward and develop feelings for someone else. He isn't interested in a full relationship with you, but doesn't want you to develop one with anyone else either. Pure selfishness and manipulation. This situation isn't healthy for either of you, let it go, face the fact that it is over, let yourself take time to grieve and then heal. Start looking to the future not the past~
Best of luck~ |
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cut the ties.. move on
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