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Topic: I need advice
msskarly's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:02 PM
My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated

Peccy's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:05 PM

My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated
he is like all men, we are all territorial.

johncarl's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:06 PM
me i never go back. i will talk to them. but if they cant be friends again i break it off all together.

no photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:06 PM
You know we would ALL say don't go back.

But it is up to YOU on what to do.

msskarly's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:06 PM


My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated
he is like all men, we are all territorial.

So he doesnt want me but he doesnt want anyone else to want me?

shortnskinny's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:07 PM
possessive.

Totage's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:07 PM

My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated


F*ck him, apparently he wants to f*ck you. JMO

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:07 PM
You want to teach him a real lesson?

Marry himlaugh

Winx's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:08 PM

My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated


Red flags - Doesn't love you, nosy, says he doesn't want to be with you.

Peccy's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:09 PM

You want to teach him a real lesson?

Marry himlaugh
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!

prisoner's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:10 PM
:banana: restraining order,then drop me an e-mail be seeing you

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Tue 05/12/09 07:10 PM

My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated


men seem to want what they think they can't have...then when they have it they loose interest. NO don't go back...NEVER go back...do send him a recent pic of you with your new friendhappy

no photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:12 PM

You want to teach him a real lesson?

Marry himlaugh



HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PATS you crack me up!!!rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:15 PM


You want to teach him a real lesson?

Marry himlaugh
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!



laugh laugh laugh

misstina2's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:21 PM
flowerforyou he may just want to keep you as an optionflowerforyou

KOKOA's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:24 PM
I had an ex like that recently too. When he tells you something like he doesn't love you, but his actions say diff, listen to WHAT HE SAYS! Even though he's giving you mixed signals, imo, he's telling you that he's just not that into you. I know, it's a movie, but a good one. It is completely up to you, but you should prob go with your gut. Women have intuition for a reason. You two broke up for a reason and if you're questioning this much, then is it really worth it?

littleike's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:25 PM


My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated
he is like all men, we are all territorial.
well hellow my friend lonk time its been

Peccy's photo
Tue 05/12/09 07:29 PM
hi dere ike dude

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Tue 05/12/09 08:20 PM
Edited by durtydduck on Tue 05/12/09 08:21 PM

My ex has recently been calling me a lot more & we talk on the phone a couple hours a day! He has admitted that he still has some feelings for me but then says he doesnt love me & he says he misses me everyday! He also is very nosy about who im talking to/ dating! He says he doesnt want to be with me but his actions are indicating that he may want me back! I still would like to be with him & just wanna know what I should do!
Keeping talking to him frequently? be more distant? give up? I just dont know!frustrated
wow. role reversal.. I went through that for the last year and half sme thing she would call all the time do the same thing. so I can only speak from my personal experience.. GET OFF THAT TRAIN AND TELL HIM TO GO SCRATCH!. I know it's hard . It is hard but you have to do it and move on... he has but he wants to dangle that carrot in front of you like a fisherman with a fish on the hook but doesn't reel them in . Just so he can keep jerking you around. no charge free lollipop for you on this one.

bribrat's photo
Tue 05/12/09 08:25 PM
Stop taking his calls! Change your number if you have to! Do not go back! He is just trying to keep you as a reserve, possibly just a booty call. He's testing you to see if you are going to keep waiting for him to want you, but obviously he doesn't! Move on. You will be better off!!!

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