Topic: How do you get a person to open up?
Jess642's photo
Sat 05/09/09 05:01 PM
By being open yourself......no matter how painful it is.

no photo
Sat 05/09/09 05:17 PM
patience

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 05/09/09 05:27 PM

patience


I think we have a winner.flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 05/09/09 11:13 PM

By being open yourself......no matter how painful it is.
flowerforyou

woodford's photo
Sun 05/10/09 12:21 AM

water boarding might work well? but thats a little extreme


they just told me what I wanted to hear anyway. Ill try patence and earning trust by sharing myself .... hard to walk the line of share and over share at times.

Monier's photo
Sun 05/10/09 12:28 AM

flowerforyou open up yourself and build a solid friendshipflowerforyou



I fully agree flowerforyou

creativesoul's photo
Sun 05/10/09 12:50 AM
You cannot force it mirror...

Contentment is the key.

Male2009's photo
Sun 05/10/09 01:09 AM
By being patient and understanding. realising that everyone may not be as emotionally secure as you are! with the right nurturing, love and attention, they will gradually open up like a flower.... but this can take time. forcing them into prematurely confide may actually send them even deeper into their own insecurities...!? what's the rush? just enjoy their friendship and let nature take it's course. when they feel secure, they'll tell you everything...

Male2009's photo
Sun 05/10/09 01:11 AM
They do say that you have to give a little to get a little... maybe that's true in all things!? ;) don't push too hard. that's the wrong approach....

Male2009's photo
Sun 05/10/09 01:15 AM
Some people have had more traumatic lives and don't want to open up at all. you have to accept this. trauma does strange things to people, giving them a different slant and respective on life. they see things from an insecure viewpoint and often need professional help or councilling to unload their locked away feelings and emotions.

no photo
Sun 05/10/09 03:14 AM

:heart: How do you get a person to open up?:heart:


Be honest and they will do the same

Jtevans's photo
Sun 05/10/09 03:15 AM

:heart: How do you get a person to open up?:heart:



a sharp knife?smokin

no photo
Sun 05/10/09 09:44 AM
I dont try to pry people open. They will when they are ready!!flowerforyou

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 05/10/09 09:48 AM
stirrups. pulleys, bungie chords, and sturdy rope

metalwing's photo
Sun 05/10/09 09:56 AM
Patience and friendship to start.
Genuine interest and caring down the stretch.
Soft words and eye contact to finish.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 05/11/09 10:08 AM

stirrups. pulleys, bungie chords, and sturdy rope
laugh

misstina2's photo
Mon 05/11/09 04:11 PM

I dont try to pry people open. They will when they are ready!!flowerforyou
flowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 05/11/09 04:13 PM

patience

Patience my Arss. Grab by the cuff and shake it out of 'em.
laugh laugh laugh :laughing: :laughing:

no photo
Mon 05/11/09 04:17 PM

:heart: How do you get a person to open up?:heart:


Skapel???what

Dan99's photo
Mon 05/11/09 04:18 PM
by shagging them?