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Right now, I love my freedom. The only time I want us to move in together, is when we get marry.
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When we get married
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Give it 3 days and his loud snoring........and you will be running the other way!!! Lets not forget the sport of Farting while burping out the alphabet!!!
Haha and that is why I said 'never say never' cause one day I might both be living with someone and screeching at him for leaving the seat up. Just right now, I miss him terribly and would put up with just about anything! ~~~~~~~ Currently though, I just wouldn't want to set that example for my daughters, even though it may be the right decision for someone else. If I'm sleeping with a guy I'm not married to in my house, they may think it's alright for them to bring their boyfriend over for the night - and that's not acceptable to me. 
I don't snore |
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It's different for each couple. My friend went on a date and never left. He is now married with two kids.
Living together in a household with kids may not work at all. |
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I snore and I am proud of it....
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Give it 3 days and his loud snoring........and you will be running the other way!!! Lets not forget the sport of Farting while burping out the alphabet!!!
Haha and that is why I said 'never say never' cause one day I might both be living with someone and screeching at him for leaving the seat up. Just right now, I miss him terribly and would put up with just about anything! ~~~~~~~ Currently though, I just wouldn't want to set that example for my daughters, even though it may be the right decision for someone else. If I'm sleeping with a guy I'm not married to in my house, they may think it's alright for them to bring their boyfriend over for the night - and that's not acceptable to me.
I don't snore Does that mean you CAN fart while burping out the entire alphabet? wow! WOW!! I'm impressed 
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Well I am gonna say not two weeks. lol, My ex of nine years moved in that soon. It was 7 years of hell.
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Right now, I love my freedom. The only time I want us to move in together, is when we get marry. 
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Give it 3 days and his loud snoring........and you will be running the other way!!! Lets not forget the sport of Farting while burping out the alphabet!!!
Haha and that is why I said 'never say never' cause one day I might both be living with someone and screeching at him for leaving the seat up. Just right now, I miss him terribly and would put up with just about anything! ~~~~~~~ Currently though, I just wouldn't want to set that example for my daughters, even though it may be the right decision for someone else. If I'm sleeping with a guy I'm not married to in my house, they may think it's alright for them to bring their boyfriend over for the night - and that's not acceptable to me.
I don't snore Does that mean you CAN fart while burping out the entire alphabet? wow! WOW!! I'm impressed
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 at least a couple of hours
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Edited by
AngelFireDream
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Mon 05/25/09 08:55 PM
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How long after you begin a relationship, is a fair amount of time, before you live together?
I've lived with enough people (2) before marriage (assuming that is what a person is seeking) to know its a bad idea for me. I don't do it anymore. Lately, I've been discussing marrying, and then NOT living together for a brief while.  I wonder why my companion doesn't think that's such a great idea.
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Well once ya get moved in it will seem like forever(Hell)
Don't see it happening for me. |
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Edited by
Thoughtfulthug
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Mon 05/25/09 08:58 PM
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If he or she ask first and want you to move in, first remember how much money you have before going along with the idea. It can be a blissful experience of sharing and discovering something new in someone that you never known before; but it can also be the true revealer of discovering things that will put the end to the relationship. So a backup plan is a wise idea before you enter their cave.
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Edited by
luc05kay06
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Mon 05/25/09 09:02 PM
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It's all circumstantial. Ages, school/careers, children, income, type of relationship, etc. For some couples it may make sense to move in after a month and others it could be years. I have friends all over the spectrum. Two months. One year. Six years. Ten years. Having lived with a significant other (ex husband), I know how hard it can be. I'd want to test the waters and live together before remarrying.
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Lets be real here for a moment and say,,NO ONE should ever LEAP into this.
And everyone should first try a short stay before thinking its all good, one or shall I say BOTH should FEEL and KNOW they do fine at staying with each other. Fakes and user's run deep in this world.. Many friends of mine have lost their homes, money, and even kids through FAST changes in their living with someone. The mom and child moved in with a guy she thought was cool, then the ex found out he was a past child molester and he got custidy, even though she moved out.... |
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At the very least, its best to wait until you have dated someone for almost a year before moving in.
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Edited by
Thoughtfulthug
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Mon 05/25/09 10:35 PM
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At the very least, its best to wait until you have dated someone for almost a year before moving in. |
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I meant to say that it probably should be at least a good deal of time longer than 6 months, because in the DSM IV, anything up to 6 months is a red flag for poor judgment, in a clinical sense.
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never! after you move in together they turn in to assholes
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