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I feel the need to be very nice to him now. Something tells me your post and your personality are as empty as your profile... Obviously, there's a reason behind all of this, care to share? I breathe just like everybody else, now back to my post.. |
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I feel the need to be very nice to him now. Something tells me your post and your personality are as empty as your profile... Obviously, there's a reason behind all of this, care to share? I breathe just like everybody else, now back to my post.. perving me before you replied? Why? |
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only you can get rid of him, so what if he saids you used him Unless you are using him... and aren't willing to admit it. That's something to ponder that I did want part of his attention, but also, is he using me? It might have to be said I was using if I knew that I didn't really want to be with him long-term and basically had a lowish opinion of him. Come now, though, I can't be the only person who finds herself in such predicament... relationships are weird, can be weird.. I don't know... I think if you are willing to stay with someone because they "rub your back really nice", but otherwise you can't stand them. That screams "shallow" to me. The fact that you stated he had "the nerve to be superficial" cracks me up... pot calling the kettle black. Based on what you have said, I'd say you are using him as much, if not more, than he's using you. Considering no one else is fessing up to the same situation, it quite obviously is not so much an issue for many. That, or they are willing to take responsibility and move on instead of dragging things (and people) along. Maybe it's time to grow up and move on. I follow your logic, but really, don't we all have 'reasons' we choose to be with someone, tolerate them beyond the first week rush? |
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she's blonde   Hey now... I resemble that remark! Damn woman!   was just stating a random fact from her profile  are YOU insinuating that by incorporating her into the "blonde" category of women that i am somehow insulting blondes  you dear, are a mean lady 
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I feel the need to be very nice to him now. Something tells me your post and your personality are as empty as your profile... Obviously, there's a reason behind all of this, care to share? I breathe just like everybody else, now back to my post.. perving me before you replied? Why? I guess I vaguely wondered why you projected so much about emptiness. |
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CO-DEPENDENT.....probably abused as a child
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you dear, are a mean lady And your point is... ? 
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I haven't read all the thread...
but you seem to be hestitant about something in the relationship. So with that said, you should be comfortable with all aspects of the relationship, just physical intimacy cannot substain a relationship. There needs to be other forms. Also, if he called you names and manipulated you when you first broke off the relationship, that is a warning sign that it might appear at other points in the relatioship. I encourage you to look at this website http://www.csswashtenaw.org/ada/resources/Duluth_dating_wheel.pdf If you notice any of these in the relationship, you might want to consider ending it! |
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Holy moly....he's getting blow jobs and hand jobs at the park?
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Holy moly....he's getting blow jobs and hand jobs at the park? She has some good qualities
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Keep it simple.
If you aren't happy move on. If you are co dependent seek some help. |
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He's an unsuccessful 48 yr. old man boy, and his hands are always on me and affectionate. He's stroking my face, my back, my side and it's like a drug that keeps me sedated. He gets all serious and focused then and only then addressing my needs. Seems like he was addressing your needs before this I hate to be so hateful, but I despise his lack of sophistication and couth and I cringe when he speaks cause he has he nerve to use his voice and he'd really be better off to hold something back. You have to wonder about that kind of self importance and that it's typical of an unaccountable childish creative type. the nerve to use his voice It was his happy nature that drew me but what boy wouldn't be happy at home with mom keeping things neat and orderly. *takes note,,, always preface a slam with a compliment I must've grown EERILY BORED to mix into his lackluster world.. bj's on a faux print blanket, hj's at a picnic table, splitting tabs, a round on me for you and your friends. oral and manual stimulation with no intimacy? What happened to the touching and stroking? I tried calling it off and he accused me of using him and reacted badly questioning 'what? the nice guy doesn't catch the prize,' then threw me a bunch of flattery which is nice cause of my middle range insecurities.. 'If you weren't so good looking, I'd let you go.' He also has the nerve to be superficial. How could he let you go if you were leaving? Maybe it's a match made in hell. I can feel sorry for him and lift him on a pedestal he doesn't deserve and he can keep overcompensating and licking my feet. I didn't know pedestals were made of quicksand... and yes I know I'm a horrible person for disputing this whole story I noticed how it was embellished later to make it more dramatic -shrugs shoulders- |
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I didn't know pedestals were made of quicksand... I love this line... might I borrow it? 
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Holy moly....he's getting blow jobs and hand jobs at the park? She has some good qualities
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He's an unsuccessful 48 yr. old man boy, and his hands are always on me and affectionate. He's stroking my face, my back, my side and it's like a drug that keeps me sedated. He gets all serious and focused then and only then addressing my needs. Seems like he was addressing your needs before this I hate to be so hateful, but I despise his lack of sophistication and couth and I cringe when he speaks cause he has he nerve to use his voice and he'd really be better off to hold something back. You have to wonder about that kind of self importance and that it's typical of an unaccountable childish creative type. the nerve to use his voice It was his happy nature that drew me but what boy wouldn't be happy at home with mom keeping things neat and orderly. *takes note,,, always preface a slam with a compliment I must've grown EERILY BORED to mix into his lackluster world.. bj's on a faux print blanket, hj's at a picnic table, splitting tabs, a round on me for you and your friends. oral and manual stimulation with no intimacy? What happened to the touching and stroking? I tried calling it off and he accused me of using him and reacted badly questioning 'what? the nice guy doesn't catch the prize,' then threw me a bunch of flattery which is nice cause of my middle range insecurities.. 'If you weren't so good looking, I'd let you go.' He also has the nerve to be superficial. How could he let you go if you were leaving? Maybe it's a match made in hell. I can feel sorry for him and lift him on a pedestal he doesn't deserve and he can keep overcompensating and licking my feet. I didn't know pedestals were made of quicksand... and yes I know I'm a horrible person for disputing this whole story I noticed how it was embellished later to make it more dramatic -shrugs shoulders- There is a poetry and creative writing forum here also. I support you to use it! |
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I didn't know pedestals were made of quicksand... I love this line... might I borrow it? I'm pretty much open source 
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I didn't know pedestals were made of quicksand... I love this line... might I borrow it? I'm pretty much open source Thanks hon! 
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Holy moly....he's getting blow jobs and hand jobs at the park? Reminds me of Alanis Morissette (spelling?) 
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Holy moly....he's getting blow jobs and hand jobs at the park? lucky SOB! why can't i find a woman that'll do that to me? 
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