There's a WHOLE lot wrong with this. Not the LEAST of which is the "if you weren't so good looking, I'd let you go". WTF??!

If they aren't with you for YOU....then he NEEDS to go!

Yes, this was another moment he'd have been better without speaking. The worst part may be that he doesn't see himself. Perhaps I am slightly amused.. and experiencing a loss of appetite

You knew what you were getting into when you started in this relationship. This is all on you. If it wasn't what you wanted (outside of you being eye- or arm-candy for him), then it's your own damn fault. You have nobody to blame but yourself.

So, you aren't asking a question. I'm guessing you just need to vent, which is cool. What do YOU want to do here?

pretty creepy, if you ask me

I curse my inner workings.. I am going to have to end it and walk away and not call cause I miss the way he rubs my lower back.

Go hire a massuese then.

hon you are soooooooooooooo young! There is a hellofva lot more important things in life than someone's back rubbing technique. How does he make you feel, about him, about yourself, about life in general? I could go on and on here but I won't. Focus on the bigger picture and the priceless gift you will be to a man, and find one that treats you like a fine piece of china. Back rubbing techniques can be taught.

I guess I'm discussing. I should end it. It is a pathology on my part to be involved with him, but look.. I've done it anyway..

I'm thinking you're just wanting attention... from him and us.

i think its just a bunch of BS. i mean jesus.. make ya mind go WOW ALRIGHTTTTTTTTTY THEN!! ITS SIMPLE. if u dont like him tell ok be gone dude and walk off. u obviously are stayin round for some reason. so either kick him to the curb or deal with it.! and i think u need to address your own probs first b4 u bring someone else into your crazy mix next time. like maybe you are lil too high maintence or too full of yourself. so find someone who can deal with that. and u will ok.

i cant wait to see what kinda replies come after this lol

DING DING DING............BINGO GIVE THE LADY A PRIZE LOL

That's not really what the post is about, but you'd then have to say that about all who post.

Yes, this would keep things from becoming personal.

I have to agree with you, auburngirl. I knew I'd have to deal with reason in posting this..

ugh me cook slab of meat on fire......


do us all a favor,get the hell over yourself

Okay, one more thing. He is twice your age. He says he'd leave if you weren't good looking. He will continue to do whatever the heck he wants to do, knowing you'll take it until it's done. And it will only be done when YOU say so. He already KNOWS that when you meet someone closer to your own age, that you have lots in common with, etc etc that he'll be toast. Bottom line is...you decide when this happens....sooner or later...up to you.

I think you are right, SK. I resent his attempts to manipulate.

Sounds to me more like she needs to get over HIM!

The age thing makes it the 'prize' situation and thats just too much pressure anyhow. It is pretty funny he admitted he would be ok with me leaving but for looks. Screwy!