Topic: Dating a Guy beneath Me
nurjoyce's photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:53 AM

Sometimes I like to date girls beneath me; other times I like them on top. bigsmile

Nah on a more serious note, if you don't like who he is, get rid of him. There are plenty of classier perverts who would still give you your back scratching and other hands-on drug.




except for the first part, i agree
only you can get rid of him, so what if he saids you used him

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Thu 05/07/09 10:54 AM

hon you are soooooooooooooo young! There is a hellofva lot more important things in life than someone's back rubbing technique. How does he make you feel, about him, about yourself, about life in general? I could go on and on here but I won't. Focus on the bigger picture and the priceless gift you will be to a man, and find one that treats you like a fine piece of china. Back rubbing techniques can be taught.


heyyyy!

i'm younger than she is and don't think like that grumble

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Thu 05/07/09 10:55 AM

ugh me cook slab of meat on fire......


do us all a favor,get the hell over yourselfflowerforyou


Poor working gathering man.. must be tired of hearing woman down on manflowerforyou

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Thu 05/07/09 10:56 AM


ugh me cook slab of meat on fire......


do us all a favor,get the hell over yourselfflowerforyou


Sounds to me more like she needs to get over HIM!


Getting closer laugh

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Thu 05/07/09 10:56 AM
Edited by KimmiM on Thu 05/07/09 10:56 AM


only you can get rid of him, so what if he saids you used him



Unless you are using him... and aren't willing to admit it.

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:57 AM


hon you are soooooooooooooo young! There is a hellofva lot more important things in life than someone's back rubbing technique. How does he make you feel, about him, about yourself, about life in general? I could go on and on here but I won't. Focus on the bigger picture and the priceless gift you will be to a man, and find one that treats you like a fine piece of china. Back rubbing techniques can be taught.


heyyyy!

i'm younger than she is and don't think like that grumble


Jasmine, that is GOOD! flowerforyou Those types of statements often come out of the mouth of a younger person; that was why I immediately looked for her age. Certainly I never meant to say that younger women are idiots. Inexperienced, yes. flowerforyou flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:58 AM

He's an unsuccessful 48 yr. old man boy, and his hands are always on me and affectionate. He's stroking my face, my back, my side and it's like a drug that keeps me sedated. He gets all serious and focused then and only then addressing my needs.

I hate to be so hateful, but I despise his lack of sophistication and couth and I cringe when he speaks cause he has he nerve to use his voice and he'd really be better off to hold something back. You have to wonder about that kind of self importance and that it's typical of an unaccountable childish creative type.

It was his happy nature that drew me but what boy wouldn't be happy at home with mom keeping things neat and orderly.

I must've grown EERILY BORED to mix into his lackluster world.. bj's on a faux print blanket, hj's at a picnic table, splitting tabs, a round on me for you and your friends.

I tried calling it off and he accused me of using him and reacted badly questioning 'what? the nice guy doesn't catch the prize,' then threw me a bunch of flattery which is nice cause of my middle range insecurities.. 'If you weren't so good looking, I'd let you go.' He also has the nerve to be superficial.

Maybe it's a match made in hell. I can feel sorry for him and lift him on a pedestal he doesn't deserve and he can keep overcompensating and licking my feet.




flowerforyou I know how you feel.flowerforyou My bf is the same waygrumble

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Thu 05/07/09 10:58 AM


Sometimes I like to date girls beneath me; other times I like them on top. bigsmile

Nah on a more serious note, if you don't like who he is, get rid of him. There are plenty of classier perverts who would still give you your back scratching and other hands-on drug.




except for the first part, i agree
only you can get rid of him, so what if he saids you used him



That is him being the manipulator like SK post.

FETTS61's photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:58 AM


He's an unsuccessful 48 yr. old man boy, and his hands are always on me and affectionate. He's stroking my face, my back, my side and it's like a drug that keeps me sedated. He gets all serious and focused then and only then addressing my needs.

I hate to be so hateful, but I despise his lack of sophistication and couth and I cringe when he speaks cause he has he nerve to use his voice and he'd really be better off to hold something back. You have to wonder about that kind of self importance and that it's typical of an unaccountable childish creative type.

It was his happy nature that drew me but what boy wouldn't be happy at home with mom keeping things neat and orderly.

I must've grown EERILY BORED to mix into his lackluster world.. bj's on a faux print blanket, hj's at a picnic table, splitting tabs, a round on me for you and your friends.

I tried calling it off and he accused me of using him and reacted badly questioning 'what? the nice guy doesn't catch the prize,' then threw me a bunch of flattery which is nice cause of my middle range insecurities.. 'If you weren't so good looking, I'd let you go.' He also has the nerve to be superficial.

Maybe it's a match made in hell. I can feel sorry for him and lift him on a pedestal he doesn't deserve and he can keep overcompensating and licking my feet.




flowerforyou I know how you feel.flowerforyou My bf is the same waygrumble


now see, thats funny:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Thu 05/07/09 11:00 AM
Edited by durtydduck on Thu 05/07/09 11:00 AM

i think its just a bunch of BS. i mean jesus.. make ya mind go WOW ALRIGHTTTTTTTTTY THEN!! ITS SIMPLE. if u dont like him tell ok be gone dude and walk off. u obviously are stayin round for some reason. so either kick him to the curb or deal with it.! and i think u need to address your own probs first b4 u bring someone else into your crazy mix next time. like maybe you are lil too high maintence or too full of yourself. so find someone who can deal with that. and u will ok.

i cant wait to see what kinda replies come after this lol


yep... thats the ticket I went and read her profile... not much there actually, Hey you reap what you sow? does that ring a bell.?

personally you want that drama in your life.. so you deal with it. I am tired of these whiney people of poor me. get a life and then live it lolipop#3

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Thu 05/07/09 11:00 AM

He's an unsuccessful 48 yr. old man boy, and his hands are always on me and affectionate. He's stroking my face, my back, my side and it's like a drug that keeps me sedated. He gets all serious and focused then and only then addressing my needs.

I hate to be so hateful, but I despise his lack of sophistication and couth and I cringe when he speaks cause he has he nerve to use his voice and he'd really be better off to hold something back. You have to wonder about that kind of self importance and that it's typical of an unaccountable childish creative type.

It was his happy nature that drew me but what boy wouldn't be happy at home with mom keeping things neat and orderly.

I must've grown EERILY BORED to mix into his lackluster world.. bj's on a faux print blanket, hj's at a picnic table, splitting tabs, a round on me for you and your friends.

I tried calling it off and he accused me of using him and reacted badly questioning 'what? the nice guy doesn't catch the prize,' then threw me a bunch of flattery which is nice cause of my middle range insecurities.. 'If you weren't so good looking, I'd let you go.' He also has the nerve to be superficial.

Maybe it's a match made in hell. I can feel sorry for him and lift him on a pedestal he doesn't deserve and he can keep overcompensating and licking my feet.




Sounds like FB material. Move on.....

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:00 AM



hon you are soooooooooooooo young! There is a hellofva lot more important things in life than someone's back rubbing technique. How does he make you feel, about him, about yourself, about life in general? I could go on and on here but I won't. Focus on the bigger picture and the priceless gift you will be to a man, and find one that treats you like a fine piece of china. Back rubbing techniques can be taught.


heyyyy!

i'm younger than she is and don't think like that grumble


Jasmine, that is GOOD! flowerforyou Those types of statements often come out of the mouth of a younger person; that was why I immediately looked for her age. Certainly I never meant to say that younger women are idiots. Inexperienced, yes. flowerforyou flowerforyou


bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

flowers

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Thu 05/07/09 11:01 AM

I feel the need to be very nice to him now.


Something tells me your post and your personality are as empty as your profile...
Obviously, there's a reason behind all of this,
care to share?

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Thu 05/07/09 11:01 AM
Edited by KimmiM on Thu 05/07/09 11:02 AM


yep... thats the ticket I went and read her profile... not much there actually, Hey you reap what you sow? does that ring a bell.?

personally you want that drama in your life.. so you deal with it. I am tired of these whiney people of poor me. get a life and then live it


Oh, come on Ducky, admit it... you just love being a hard@ss! rofl

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Thu 05/07/09 11:04 AM



only you can get rid of him, so what if he saids you used him



Unless you are using him... and aren't willing to admit it.


That's something to ponder that I did want part of his attention, but also, is he using me?

It might have to be said I was using if I knew that I didn't really want to be with him long-term and basically had a lowish opinion of him. Come now, though, I can't be the only person who finds herself in such predicament...

relationships are weird, can be weird..



MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:06 AM
bigsmile I’m telling,bigsmile

happy Your smelling,happy

:tongue: You went to Barbie’s Wedding,:tongue:

smooched You kissed her,smooched

love You hugged her,love

smitten YOU EVEN SAID YOU LOVED HER!smitten

biggrin You took her to the sweetshop and bought her bubblegum,biggrin

surprised and when she wasn’t looking you stuck it up her AHEM!surprised


JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 05/07/09 11:08 AM
she's blonde :banana: drinks :banana:

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Thu 05/07/09 11:10 AM




only you can get rid of him, so what if he saids you used him



Unless you are using him... and aren't willing to admit it.


That's something to ponder that I did want part of his attention, but also, is he using me?

It might have to be said I was using if I knew that I didn't really want to be with him long-term and basically had a lowish opinion of him. Come now, though, I can't be the only person who finds herself in such predicament...

relationships are weird, can be weird..





I don't know... I think if you are willing to stay with someone because they "rub your back really nice", but otherwise you can't stand them. That screams "shallow" to me. The fact that you stated he had "the nerve to be superficial" cracks me up... pot calling the kettle black. Based on what you have said, I'd say you are using him as much, if not more, than he's using you.

Considering no one else is fessing up to the same situation, it quite obviously is not so much an issue for many. That, or they are willing to take responsibility and move on instead of dragging things (and people) along.

Maybe it's time to grow up and move on.

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Thu 05/07/09 11:11 AM


i think its just a bunch of BS. i mean jesus.. make ya mind go WOW ALRIGHTTTTTTTTTY THEN!! ITS SIMPLE. if u dont like him tell ok be gone dude and walk off. u obviously are stayin round for some reason. so either kick him to the curb or deal with it.! and i think u need to address your own probs first b4 u bring someone else into your crazy mix next time. like maybe you are lil too high maintence or too full of yourself. so find someone who can deal with that. and u will ok.

i cant wait to see what kinda replies come after this lol


yep... thats the ticket I went and read her profile... not much there actually, Hey you reap what you sow? does that ring a bell.?

personally you want that drama in your life.. so you deal with it. I am tired of these whiney people of poor me. get a life and then live it lolipop#3


I accuse you of loving the opportunity to post this!

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Thu 05/07/09 11:11 AM

she's blonde :banana: drinks :banana:



Hey now... I resemble that remark! Damn woman! rant laugh