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Topic: is there really true love out there??
bunifun Joined Thu 03/26/09 Posts: 1	Mon 05/04/09 01:13 AM
I dont know about everyone else but i know im tired of the games. Finding the real thing out there is difficult as it is, must we play games people! Im not a bad looker, have a good personality yet people think they can bs me into thinking they are looking for love when in fact it is sex they are after.Im no prude but it gets old guys, who agrees with me? especially wh en they tell you they are looking for dating when in fact , they have other intentions in mind, just be honest people be straight out, no wonder people are sketchy about online dating.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 05/04/09 01:19 AM
I don't let myself get caught up in the "hoping" to be fooled by those types... To answer the first part of your question, do I believe in true love.... Yes, I do.. I've had it and loved every moment of it... Do I believe we can find it again and again, over and over? NO... I think at some point it wears out.. whether we've said no to those that have loved us and we've not reciprocated or to those we've loved and they've not loved us the way we want to be loved.. At some point I think the chances run out...

MBell35 Joined Mon 04/02/07 Posts: 9	Mon 05/04/09 02:28 AM
Here in Rochester, New York it is very hard to find true love because none of the ladies that I have met or even tried to date would give me at least a fighting chance to find out all about them. Believe me they are so darn picky it is pathetic. Who ever reads this post and lives in or around Rochester New York . . contact me MBell35 here on Mingle2 and allow me to pamper you and spoil you because I am a gentleman that is very respectful and also knows how to treat a lady like a lady should be treated and that is like a Princess.

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Mon 05/04/09 02:46 AM
I dont know about everyone else but i know im tired of the games. Finding the real thing out there is difficult as it is, must we play games people! Im not a bad looker, have a good personality yet people think they can bs me into thinking they are looking for love when in fact it is sex they are after.Im no prude but it gets old guys, who agrees with me? especially wh en they tell you they are looking for dating when in fact , they have other intentions in mind, just be honest people be straight out, no wonder people are sketchy about online dating. Of course true love is out there. It is simply the law of averages at work. You know, kiss a lot frogs theory. The nature of internet dating makes it easy for many to contact many so yes, you must wade through the mire if you want to use it effectively, but don't give up hope. Be smart, be safe, and seek the good while ignoring the bad as best as possible. Welcome to the forums.

aronez23 Joined Mon 10/01/07 Posts: 14	Mon 05/04/09 05:02 AM
I would have to agree with you - as much as I get tired of emails from guys looking for the booty, I at least appreciate the fact that they are upfront about what their intentions really are. Girls can be like guys - if we are up to just having a little fun then fine - I think we should at least be given the truth so we can decide that for ourselves. Guys talk about girls getting attatched well if we straight up know thats what you are looking for then we are not going to attempt to get to know you on any other level but that.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 05/04/09 05:15 AM
I don't deal with games that PEOPLE play, but finding love on the internet most likely wil not happen.

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Mon 05/04/09 05:32 AM
I don't deal with games that PEOPLE play, but finding love on the internet most likely wil not happen. Isn't that the TRUTH!!!!! Thanks, Pat for pointing out the obvious.

ashley061885 Joined Sun 02/17/08 Posts: 547	Mon 05/04/09 02:23 PM
i am sooo sick of the games....preach on girl! all i seem to come across are the men who still consider themselves to be tha "players" and it gets old real quick like.

dlawson12 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 188	Mon 05/04/09 02:29 PM
In short, I believe its out there. I wont repeat the above posts about how hard it is to find...

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 05/04/09 02:30 PM
I dont know about everyone else but i know im tired of the games. Finding the real thing out there is difficult as it is, must we play games people! Im not a bad looker, have a good personality yet people think they can bs me into thinking they are looking for love when in fact it is sex they are after.Im no prude but it gets old guys, who agrees with me? especially wh en they tell you they are looking for dating when in fact , they have other intentions in mind, just be honest people be straight out, no wonder people are sketchy about online dating. Love is what you make it

Foliel Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 1189	Mon 05/04/09 02:34 PM
love on the internet is always a gamble but so is love in general. Two of my friends met on the internet 10 years ago and have been married for 8 of those years and they are as happy today as they were when they first met. He moved from Iowa to oklahoma to be with her.