Topic: SIX WAYS TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU!!!!!
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Sun 05/03/09 06:52 AM
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Principle 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.

A simple way to make a good impression.
The expression one wears on one's face if far more important than the clothes one wears on one's back. Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, " I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you." You must have a good time meeting people i f you expect them to have a good time meeting you. You don't feel like smiling? Then what? Two things. First, force yourself to smile. If you are alone, force yourself to whistle or hum a tune or sing. Act as if you were already happy, and that will tend to make you happy.

Principle 2: Smile.

If you don't do this, you are headed for trouble
The average person is more interested in his or her own name than all the other names on earth put together. Remember that name and call it easily, and you have paid a subtle and very effective compliment.

Principle 3: Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.

An easy way to become a good conversationalist
Listen intently; listen because you are genuinely interested. That kind of listening is one of the highest compliments we can pay anyone. The chronic kicker, even the most violent critic, will frequently soften and be subdued in the presence of a patient, sympathetic listener-a listener who will be silent with the irate fault-finger dilates like a king cobra and spews the poison out of his system. Be more eager to hear what a person has to say then even they are to tell it. Many people prefer good list eners to good talkers, but the ability to listen seems rarer than almost any other good trait. All we want when we are in trouble is a friendly, sympathetic listener to unburden yourself.

Principle 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

How to interest people
The royal road to a person's heart is to talk about the things he or she treasures most. Make an effort to find out what interests the person then get them talking about it. Talking in terms of the other person's interests pays off for both parties. When asked what reward he got from it, Mr. Herzig responded that he not only received a different reward from each person but that in general the reward had been an enlargement of his life each time he spoke to someone.

Principle 5: Talk in terms of the other person's interests.

How to make people like you instantly.
Ask yourself " What is there about him or her that I can honestly admire?" That is sometimes a hard question to answer, especially with strangers. You want approval of those with whom you come in contact. You want recognition of your true worth. Always keep thier interest first and yours later.

Principle 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.

In a Nutshell: Six ways to make people like you Become genuinely interested in other people.

Smile.
Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.


HAVE A PLEASURABLE WEEKEND TO ALL!
FRANK

AZAR09's photo
Sun 05/03/09 06:54 AM
:thumbsup:

tanyaann's photo
Sun 05/03/09 06:58 AM
Good Morning ((((frank)))))) flowerforyou

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 07:05 AM
same to T

prisoner's photo
Sun 05/03/09 07:08 AM
:banana: one way to make people like you,give them money be seeing you

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 07:16 AM
I AM NOT DISPUTING YOU:smile: laugh flowerforyou

bgeorge's photo
Sun 05/03/09 08:00 AM
heya (((frank))) i was wondering about you...happy sundayflowerforyou


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Sun 05/03/09 08:08 AM
Morning Frank hope all is well with you!bigsmile :thumbsup:

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Sun 05/03/09 08:32 AM
hEY FRANK!!!bigsmile drinker :banana:

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Sun 05/03/09 08:58 AM
HI Frank we never met before.... but that reminds me of all the seminars I took years ago in Business.

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 08:58 AM
NO MORE WONDERING NOW GEORGEflowerforyou

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 09:00 AM
I am continue in it durty, tks to stop by here sir:smile:

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 09:00 AM
Hope your boss is well tx:smile: :wink: laugh

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Sun 05/03/09 09:01 AM
THX

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 09:02 AM
Gypsy, u miss me?:smile: :wink: flowerforyou

EZ4Sheezy's photo
Sun 05/03/09 09:12 AM
:thumbsup:

Sounds just like the type of advice in the book I'm currently reading. Sounds like you know your stuff.

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Sun 05/03/09 09:14 AM
You forgot numbah seven-

- Roofies, Chloroform, Ether, and duct-tape are your friends too.

laugh

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 09:20 AM
Thank you, I try good things:smile: flowerforyou

frankfk's photo
Sun 05/03/09 09:21 AM
You can add up anytime, welcome:smile: :wink: flowerforyou