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the way I see it is if you plan on spending 'forever together' then they coulda waited more than 2 weeks to get married. and i bow in humbleness at all you great soothsayers out there too. lol |
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I hate to say it but this marriage is doomed, 2 weeks is not long enough to know whether or not your in love. She is using him so her baby will have a daddy and will dump him when her ex gets out. there is def a screw loose with him, That or she must be really great in the sack, cause most guys won't even buy ya flowers in the first 2 weeks of knowing ya. I wish it luck but as soon as the baby is born, and he gets out of jail then she will be back with him. I went through and read every response ..And this is the only one that really said something different. I have seen so many people like this it isn't funny. Someone I dated 2 years ago . her daughter had her husband put back in prison. While he was there she went and partied all over the place. BUT.. once the old man got out of prison? whoosh off to be with him all over again he was a thief, abusive, drugie beater. treated her and their kids klike crap.. BUT she went running back... I think this case you will see the same thing.. she will run back to the guy in jail when he gets out. And one other point here.. It has nothing to do with "what trailer park" they live in. Not everybody living in a trailer is trash....The above reference about the lady I dated came from money and a good home. The daughter was a "piece of work" |
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and i bow in humbleness at all you great soothsayers out there too. lol your sarcasm is noted.
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2 quesions:
#1. how old is the guy? #2. what trailerpark is this? # 1- he's 19 # 2- It's not a trailer park. I know its nice to believe that everyone that has problems or does something stupid can be looped together and stuck in one spot like a trailer park, but this isn't the case. |
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Wow, I read all the posts as well. I've known a lot of people that meet and seem to get married pretty quickly right after. Makes me wonder if the institution of marriage is taken to be a serious commitment, or just something people flippantly decide to do?
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*sigh* Kids. Sorry to say, but I don't see this relationship lasting til the end of the year.
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hey what's more shocking is reading back throught this thread. well here's hoping all you good people aren't being judged as harshly in your own lives by people who don't know you either!!! jeez! Hummmm I only asked one question. But then you put everyone in this thread as judging others seems there is some judging on your part as well. JMO It is naturally for others to be curious. If one does not ask then how will they know. My self I married my ex 2 months later and we were married for 11 years so yeah it can last but........normally if two only know each other for 2 weeks then something is fishy now days. Now if they knew each other prior then I can see it happening. what i'm trying to say here is who are we (and i include myself) to pass judgment on anyone we don't know? we have all made mistakes and thats all part of life, if the couple are making a mistake then it's their business. now how many of us would have listened and paid attention to what others thought when we were young and loved up? but for the grace of....... and all that! oh if only I didn't know now what I didn't know then... |
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