Elizabelt if someone as cute as u cant find love the rest of us are in real trouble. Guess I should look for something else.

thankyou kindly..as i said its the kid thing that people cant get past with me.x

your very kind,funnily enough my exes still want me back 1 of them after 12 years still tries but once bitten twice shy..and i wasnt treated right so its a big no no for me.x

Actually you sound like the exact type of person I am looking to find (unfortunately you are a continent away). I don't know what the deal is. Maybe I'm too honest (just beginning the divorce process and while amicable it still hurts). Maybe people are expecting their "Prince Charming" to contact them. It's hard to try and "sell" yourself online. You don't want to sound too cocky, yet you can't sell yourself short. Then there are the photos. Do you really want people making decisions only on your photo? Is that who you are looking for.

I still like this better than the bar scene. Too many drunk s***s and a******s at the bars.

You are not here for a date cause you all ready know your smokin ars hot. You are just here to tease a bit,arent ya?

I hear ya sister. Having 3 kids ( two of which are teen agers, YIKES) no one is interested. Or if they are its only for a one night stand. That's not me. I keep hearing there are nice guys out there, sure wish they'd let me know who they are!

I don't have any children, just thought i would say keep your hopes up though, there plenty of us guys who don't have children who would love to have children even if it means taking in someone elses children as their own in a relationship.

I have four kiddos now (7,5,3 and three weeks). I am having the same problem. If you find the answer, please let me know.

the only other problem that i've seen is that some women don't want a stepdad having input into the upbringing of the children. i'm not going to have some children living with me that i'm not allowed to be part of their lives and such.
not all women are like that, but i've talked to some that say "my kids have a father and don't need another one."


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i can honestly say i am not here to tease,i genuinely want to find some1 as ive had nothing but bad luck and i dont want to be single anymore...my pic means nothing as far as im concerned it is very very hard finding some1 i get offers of casual no strings flings but thats really not me i want to settle down

thankyou very much i will try to keep my hopes up..xxxx

youve said exactly as ive said i have 5 kids 3 of them are teens and il be a grandma soon and ive literally had guys turn n walk away when ive told them which is very offensive aswell as soul destroying,but its not just about me finding some1 i have to try and find some1 who my children will like and who will treat my children well too!!! thats very important.x

i sure will do chick...xxx awww you have a baby lol...xxx congrats..xx

I have a child, and while I've had some lose interest when they find out, I don't chalk it up to not being able to find love. I just dismiss them as not having been a viable candidate and leave it at that. Eventually the right one will come along, and it will be an asset rather than a detractor :)

oh i wish i had the same attitude as you...im just impatient now...i wouldnt jump into a relationship because of it though..x

well eliz you do carry quite a bit of baggage with you for a relationship to even have a chance to get started. i am pretty open to most situations but that is a lot of kids to get involved with.

That is unfair to you, though, especially in a serious relationship where you're living together. I've only ever dated one person where it was a matter of co-habitation, and I was ok with him participating in discipline until he raised a hand to hit my daughter. That was when his behind was out in the streets.

well... im glad im not alone lol sorry. i have 2 kids and i seem to have the same problem. i love kids and have no problem with having a relationship with a woman who has kids. in fact i would prefer it.

but yes there are lines that shouldnt be crossed

i appreciate that but why can't men say that instead of ignoring you n running a mile,i wouldnt take offence i would be thankful of their honesty...but would also like to say i know i have alot of kids but im not looking for anyone to take on the roll of daddy,i just want some1 who could spend time with me in my home while my kids are around and beable to chat to them..i personally dont think thats alot to ask...i dont expect anyone to take care of them for me or anything finantial as thats my responsibility...i just want some1 for me so im not alone..x